What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want isn't your circumstances, but the way you're thinking about them?

In this episode, Abbey Henderson, CFP®, CEO, Wealth Advisor & Coach, sits down with executive coach and leadership development expert Sean Hubbard, founder of DECLARE IT! Inc, to explore the powerful role mindset plays in shaping our outcomes, relationships, leadership, and overall wellbeing.

Sean shares how a personal experience with organizational dysfunction led him to build a coaching practice focused on helping people take ownership of the results they create in their lives. Together, Abbey and Sean unpack how our perceptions, emotions, and habitual thought patterns influence everything from leadership and relationships to financial decisions and personal growth.

Abbey and Sean discuss:

• Why leadership begins with taking 100% responsibility for the outcomes in your life
• How mindset influences the five levers of wealth: finances, health, relationships, time, and personal growth
• The hidden cost of suppressing emotions and avoiding discomfort
• Why anxiety isn't necessarily the problem, and how it can point us toward meaningful growth
• And more!

Connect with Abbey Henderson:

• LinkedIn: Abbey Henderson
• Abbey@AbarisFinancialGroup.com
• Website: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abbey Henderson: Trusted Financial Advisor & Coach
• Instagram: @trustedadvisor_coach
• LinkedIn: Abaris Financial Group
• X (Twitter): Abaris Financial Group

Connect with Sean Hubbard:

• LinkedIn: Sean Hubbard
• LinkedIn: Declare It!
• DECLARE IT!

About our Guest:

Sean Hubbard is an executive coach, leadership facilitator, and the founder of Declare It, a leadership development company that helps individuals, teams, and organizations expand their capacity to create meaningful results.

After leaving a company he deeply loved and witnessing firsthand how leadership challenges and unresolved conflict can undermine even strong organizations, Sean dedicated his career to helping people better understand themselves and the impact they have on the world around them.

Through coaching, facilitation, and leadership development programs, Sean helps clients strengthen self-awareness, take ownership of their outcomes, navigate change, and lead with greater intention. His work focuses on mindset, emotional intelligence, personal responsibility, and the connection between how we show up and the results we create.

Sean works with leaders across a variety of industries and is passionate about helping people move from reacting to circumstances to consciously creating the lives, relationships, and organizations they want to build.

What if the reason certain money habits feel so hard to change has less to do with strategy and more to do with how you’re wired?

In this episode, Abbey Henderson, CFP®, CEO, Wealth Advisor & Coach, sits down with Douglas Lynam, author, TEDx speaker, and investment advisor, to explore how personality patterns and early-life experiences shape how we earn, spend, save, and give.

Abbey and Doug discuss:

• Doug’s unconventional journey from Marine to Benedictine monk to financial advisor, and how it shaped his perspective on money
• Why many financial struggles are actually behavioral struggles in disguise
• An introduction to the Enneagram and how it helps uncover underlying money patterns
• How childhood experiences and conditioning influence financial decision-making
• And more!

Resources:

• Taming Your Money Monsters by Douglas Lynam
• From Monk to Money Manager by Douglas Lynam
• How monastic wisdom can help your finances | Doug Lynam | TEDxBismarck

Connect with Abbey Henderson:

• LinkedIn: Abbey Henderson
• Abbey@AbarisFinancialGroup.com
• Website: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abbey Henderson: Trusted Financial Advisor & Coach
• Instagram: @trustedadvisor_coach
• LinkedIn: Abaris Financial Group
• X (Twitter): Abaris Financial Group

Connect with Douglas Lynam:

• Website: DougLynam.com
• LinkedIn: Course Management Investment Advisors
• LinkedIn: Douglas Lynam
• YouTube: @douglaslynam1503

About our Guest:

Douglas Lynam is an investment advisor, author, and speaker known for his work at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and financial planning.

Before entering the financial world, Doug spent 20 years as a Benedictine monk, where he helped lead his community through financial challenges and discovered how closely money struggles are tied to deeper emotional and behavioral patterns.

Today, he helps individuals better understand their relationship with money through frameworks like the Enneagram, offering a more human and self-aware approach to building wealth. He is the author of Taming Your Money Monsters and From Monk to Money Manager, and his work has been featured in outlets such as The New York Times and CNBC.

What if one of the biggest decisions shaping your future is something you rarely think of as “planning” at all?

In this episode, Abbey Henderson, CFP®, CEO, Wealth Advisor & Coach, sits down with Ryan Frederick, author of Right Place, Right Time and founder of HERE, to explore how where you live shapes your health, lifestyle, and overall quality of life.

Abbey and Ryan discuss:

• What “place planning” means, and why it goes beyond real estate decisions
• How your environment influences your health, habits, and longevity
• The connection between where you live and your relationships, community, and support system
• Why the idea of a “forever home” may not hold up
• How rising costs, lifestyle changes, and unexpected life transitions can shift what the “right place” looks like
• Why many people say they want to age in place, but few plan for what that actually requires
• How to start thinking more intentionally about where you live at every stage of life
• And more!

Resources:

• Right Place, Right Time by Ryan Frederick

Connect with Abbey Henderson:

• LinkedIn: Abbey Henderson
• Abbey@AbarisFinancialGroup.com
• Website: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abaris Financial Group
• Facebook: Abbey Henderson: Trusted Financial Advisor & Coach
• Instagram: @trustedadvisor_coach
• LinkedIn: Abaris Financial Group
• X (Twitter): Abaris Financial Group

Connect with Ryan Frederick:

• Website: Here.life
• Website: ryanfrederick.life
• LinkedIn: Ryan Frederick

About Our Guest:

Ryan Frederick is the #1 expert in the world on Place Planning -- the leading authority on how place, environment, and where you live shape quality of life, health, and longevity.‍

Ryan Frederick is an internationally recognized thought leader, speaker, and innovator specializing in the intersection of place and healthy longevity, with nearly 20 years in the field. He has worked with organizations ranging from Fortune 500 companies to global institutional investors to leading health systems to housing developers and operators.

Ryan’s work has been cited in numerous outlets, including CBS News, Washington Post, Forbes, and many other media outlets. He is on the Advisory Council for the Stanford Center on Longevity. He is a graduate of Princeton University and Stanford Business School.