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Weaponized Marriage

Weaponized Marriage

Written by: Ryan and Kendra Hewitt
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 Our goal with this podcast isn’t to bring to you typical “date night advice”. This podcast is for power couples who are done playing small and ready to master the chaos of family, love, business and lifestyle. We’re talking raw, unfiltered strategies to dominate in communication, sex, money, and parenting while building your kingdom in this crazy busy world. This is about becoming a dynamic force together, a partnership that doesn’t just survive but transforms into a weaponized union capable of taking on anything life throws your way.Ryan and Kendra Hewitt Parenting Relationships
Episodes
  • 2016 vs 2026: How We Rebuilt Trust After Infidelity

    2016 vs 2026: How We Rebuilt Trust After Infidelity
    Jan 23 2026
    What do you do when your marriage hits rock bottom, after an affair, zero emotional safety, and intimacy feels dead? In this episode of the Weaponized Marriage Podcast, Kendra and Dr. Ryan share the raw truth behind their 2016 to 2026 marriage transformation, from betrayal and shutdown to rebuilding trust, emotional connection, and a stronger relationship than ever. If you’re navigating infidelity recovery, feeling disconnected, stuck in resentment, or trapped in survival mode, this conversation will help you see what’s really happening underneath the fights, the distance, and the “I don’t feel safe” moments. They unpack the hidden drivers that nearly ended everything: ego, control, anger, unmet sexual needs, intuition ignored, and sedation behaviors like overtraining, porn secrecy, distraction, and social media comparison. You’ll also hear the pivotal “wake up” moment that shifted Ryan into real leadership, and how Kendra rebuilt trust with herself, her intuition, and her femininity. If you want a marriage that feels safe, intimate, and honest again, start here. What You’ll Learn: → Why emotional safety is the gateway to real intimacy → How ignoring intuition breaks self-trust (and relationships) → The difference between conflict and reactivity/anger spirals → “Sedation” habits that keep couples stuck (work, fitness, porn, scrolling) → The leadership shift that moved Ryan from ego → grounded direction → How to transition from work mode to husband/dad mode → A practical way to start changing your inner story (mindset tools + truth-telling) Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links:Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    57 mins
  • How to Set Goals as a Couple Without Starting a Fight

    How to Set Goals as a Couple Without Starting a Fight
    Jan 8 2026
    If you’re walking into 2026 feeling like you and your spouse are co-existing instead of co-creating, this episode gives you a simple plan to change that—without overwhelm, pressure, or fake “New Year’s resolutions.” In this Weaponized Marriage podcast episode, Kendra and Ryan share the exact couples goal-setting framework they use to build a stronger marriage, deeper intimacy, and a more connected family life—even with kids, busy schedules, and real-life stress. You’ll learn how to do a marriage reset by reflecting on last year, vision-casting what you actually want next year, and reverse-engineering it into weekly rhythms that stick. They also talk about why most couples don’t plan together, how independence and money decisions can quietly create distance, and how to create more emotional and physical connection without everything turning into a task. If you want a clear marriage planning system, better communication, stronger intimacy, and a shared vision for your relationship, this episode will help you start 2026 on the same team. What You’ll Learn / Highlights The 3-step couple planning process: Reflection → Vision Casting → Reverse Engineering How to set marriage goals that feel exciting (not stressful) Why couples fail with “resolutions” and what to do instead (behaviors + rhythms) Practical examples: vacations, family routines, parenting rhythms, intimacy goals How to talk about money as a team (without control, secrecy, or resentment) How to build emotional intimacy when life is busy and task-heavy Why you should write goals down + review them quarterly (and mid-year) Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/ Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links:Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    33 mins
  • Year-End Marriage Reset: 3 Questions to Rebuild Intimacy

    Year-End Marriage Reset: 3 Questions to Rebuild Intimacy
    Dec 12 2025
    Is your marriage stuck in survival mode as you crawl toward the end of the year? In this episode of the Weaponized Marriage Podcast, we walk through our own year-end marriage reset and the 3 questions that helped us rebuild emotional safety and intimacy. This is for married entrepreneurs and busy parents who feel like they’re always bracing for impact and want to feel connected again. What You’ll Learn / Highlights The simple 3-question framework: what to let go of, what to rework, and what to invest in in your marriage for 2026. How Kendra went from walking on eggshells to feeling safer sharing how she really feels. Why Ryan’s instinct to “do more” was actually hurting intimacy—and what changed when he focused on equanimity and emotional safety instead. The real difference between coexisting and co-creating your marriage (and how to tell which one you’re in). A practical end-of-year exercise you can do with your spouse to talk about what’s working, what’s not, and course corrections—without it turning into a fight. How to redefine slowing down as “letting the miracles catch up to you,” especially for high-achieving, hustle-mode couples. Why counting your wins in marriage first changes the energy before you talk about problems or vision-casting for 2026. Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/ Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links: Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    20 mins
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