Every wedding season it happens. A couple makes the call — kids welcome or child-free — and without fail, someone is offended, someone shows up with uninvited kids anyway, and someone leaves their newborn home and resents it for years.It's one of the most divisive decisions in wedding planning, and nobody talks about it honestly. So we are.In this episode, we're getting into the real debate around kids at weddings — both sides, no filter. Should children be welcome at every celebration, no exceptions? Is a child-free wedding a completely reasonable boundary that adults need to stop taking personally? What about infants? Flower girls? The kid who screams through the vows?We're covering it all — the parents who can't afford a babysitter, showing up with uninvited kids, and the grown adults who cut off family members over a child-free wedding invitation.Where do you stand? Let us know.

Venue and photographer — two of the biggest line items in any wedding budget, and the two that couples stress over most. In this episode, we break down how to set realistic numbers for each, when to splurge vs. save, and how to negotiate without ruining the relationship. Whether you're working with $5k or $50k, you'll walk away with a clear framework for making confident decisions that won't haunt you on the day.

Guest Information:

Photography by Alexandra

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Pearl Street Venues & Catering:

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Host Information:

Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPOD

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Molly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/

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Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/

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Your wedding day deserves more than a Pinterest board and a prayer — it deserves a dream team. In this episode, we're sitting down with two of the most talented beauty professionals in the game: Steph the Beautician, your go-to for flawless bridal makeup and skincare prep, and Somer from Braids by Somer, a master of intricate bridal hairstyling and protective styles.Together, they break down everything you need to know to look and feel absolutely stunning on your big day — from building a bridal beauty timeline to choosing the right trial look, and why your wedding hair and makeup should work together, not against each other.Whether you're planning an intimate elopement or a full ballroom affair, Steph and Somer are here to make sure every photo, every moment, and every glance in the mirror leaves you breathless.Because on your wedding day, beautiful isn't just a look — it's a feeling.Guests Information:Steph the Beautician - https://www.stephthebeautician.com/https://www.instagram.com/stephthebeautician/https://www.facebook.com/716hairstylistBraids by Somer - https://www.braidsbysomer.com/https://www.instagram.com/braids.bysomer/https://www.facebook.com/braids.bysomerHost Information:Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPODhttps://www.instagram.com/buffalopod716/https://www.buffalopod.comMolly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/https://www.facebook.com/theplanningtouchhttps://www.theplanningtouch.com/Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/https://www.facebook.com/upstateindieweddingshttps://www.upstateindieweddings.com

We're sitting down with the talented Billy from BGF Photography for a conversation you don't want to miss. In this episode, we're getting into everything wedding and event photography — what it really takes to capture your most precious moments, how to choose the right photographer for your vision, and what couples are getting wrong (and right) when it comes to their photography experience. BGF is pulling back the curtain and giving us the unfiltered truth about what happens behind the lens. If you're a couple in the planning process or just someone who wants to understand the art of wedding photography on a deeper level, this episode is for you.Guest Information:https://www.instagram.com/bgf.photographyhttps://www.instagram.com/bgf.photographyHost Information:Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPODhttps://www.instagram.com/buffalopod716/https://www.buffalopod.comMolly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/https://www.facebook.com/theplanningtouchhttps://www.theplanningtouch.com/Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/https://www.facebook.com/upstateindieweddingshttps://www.upstateindieweddings.com

Is it rude or are we just being dramatic? Ron is back with another round of his signature rants, and this time he's putting the behavior of guests and couples straight in the hot seat. From the guests who act bored or not show up on time to the couples who make questionable choices — Ron wants answers. He's bringing his unfiltered opinions to the table and asking Molly and Heather to weigh in on whether these real-life wedding moments cross the line or if we need to just let it go. Buckle up, because nothing is off limits and no one is safe from the verdict.

Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPOD

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Molly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/

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Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/

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Wedding Vision Worksheet

Before you book a single vendor, scroll Pinterest for hours, or say yes to anything — you need a vision. In this episode, we're getting real about what it actually means to plan a wedding that feels like you. We're breaking down how to identify what you truly want (not what your mom wants, not what's trending, not what your best friend did), and how to use that vision as the foundation for every single decision you make. Whether you're just engaged or already knee-deep in planning, this episode will help you cut through the noise, get clear on your desires, and build a wedding day that you'll actually love. No filters, no fluff — just honest guidance to help you plan with intention.

Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPOD

https://www.instagram.com/buffalopod716/

https://www.buffalopod.com

Molly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/

https://www.facebook.com/theplanningtouch

https://www.theplanningtouch.com/

Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/

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Breaking into the wedding industry sounds glamorous — until you're actually in it. In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on what it's really like to be a new wedding vendor. No sugarcoating, no highlight reels. Just the honest truth about what to expect in your first season, the mistakes most new vendors make, and how to set yourself up for long-term success.Whether you're thinking about becoming a wedding photographer, florist, planner, DJ, or any other wedding pro — this one's for you.Here's what we cover:✔ What no one tells you before you book your first client✔ The realities of contracts, business behind the scenesIf you're serious about building a wedding business that lasts, don't skip this episode.👍 Like this video if it helped you, and subscribe for more real talk about building a business in the wedding industry — new episodes every week.Business quote was actually more likely from Gary Vaynerchuk or Alex Hormozi (sorry guys had a lot in my brain that day).Matthew McConaughey - Red Light Quote Discussed:Your life isn't always going to be green lights, but that doesn't mean we need to be running the red ones or risking it with the yellows. Don't get discouraged when you hit a red, it's only a matter of time before it turns green. It might take a minute, a week, or a few years, but in time, we all find the green lights.Host Information:Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPODhttps://www.instagram.com/buffalopod716/https://www.buffalopod.comMolly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/https://www.facebook.com/theplanningtouchhttps://www.theplanningtouch.com/Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/https://www.facebook.com/upstateindieweddingshttps://www.upstateindieweddings.com

Today, we talk about what to look for when hiring a mobile bar service with Ron from Buffalo POD (formerly Buffalo Bartenders). Ron has over 25 years of experience in the service industry, and his company Buffalo Bartenders, has been helping clients plan their event bars for the last five years. Need help stocking your bar for your next event? Check out our handy alcohol calculator: https://www.buffalopod.com/alcohol-calculatorHost Information:Ron from Buffalo POD - https://www.facebook.com/BuffaloPODhttps://www.instagram.com/buffalopod716/https://www.buffalopod.comMolly from The Planning Touch - https://www.instagram.com/theplanningtouch/https://www.facebook.com/theplanningtouchhttps://www.theplanningtouch.com/Heather from Upstate Indie Weddings -https://www.instagram.com/upstateindieweddings/https://www.facebook.com/upstateindieweddingshttps://www.upstateindieweddings.com