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Well, What Did You Expect?
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Well, What Did You Expect?
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Expectations, Boundaries, and the “Low Maintenance” Scam (aka: Ask for the Damn Air in Your Tires)
Sisters Kimberly and Michelle untangle the mess of expecting things from people who clearly will not deliver. They call out the “low maintenance” label as basically “trained to accept crumbs,” and ask what to do when friends keep complaining but refuse to make any changes. They land on a key distinction: expectations only really work when there’s an actual agreement—like paying Jiffy Lube for air and watching them… not put air in your tires. Otherwise, it’s just wishful thinking disguised as righteousness.
They dig into boundaries, triggers from a long dysfunctional marriage, and how hard it is to ask for what you want without apologizing, qualifying, or shrinking yourself into a polite little comma. Michelle dares to let Kimberly practice making a direct request and notice the reflex to manage everyone else’s comfort. They name the deeper fear: taking up “too much” space. They also talk guilt, needing space from friendships, expanding a friend group, and reframing rejection as collecting “no’s.”