In this unapologetic episode of The Salty Goddess Podcast, Anne Margaret Perry dismantles one of the most dangerous lies people tell themselves: “I understand their trauma, so I should keep tolerating the damage.”

No. Absolutely not.

This episode is for anyone who:

• Explains bad behavior instead of stopping it

• Accommodates dysfunction instead of containing it

• Gives endless chances because they “know the backstory”

• Mistakes insight for accountability

• Confuses temporary improvement with real change

• Walks on eggshells while someone else refuses to do the work

Anne Margaret breaks down the pattern she sees over and over again in patients, clients, students, relationships, families, friendships, and workplaces: trauma removing the lid on behavior — not creating it.

You’ll hear hard truths about: 🔥 Why awareness isn’t treatment 🔥 Why empathy without boundaries becomes self-betrayal 🔥 How silent treatment, avoidance, and denial are emotional misconduct 🔥 Why compassion does NOT mean becoming collateral damage 🔥 How insight without sustained behavior change is manipulation, not growth 🔥 When it’s time to stop explaining and start exiting

If you wouldn’t tolerate this behavior from an employee, a coworker, or a manager, then why the hell are you tolerating it in your personal life?

Time is your most valuable currency. Stop spending it on people who refuse to invest theirs.

This episode isn’t gentle. It’s honest. And if it pissed you off a little… good. That means it hit.