• Understanding God's Active Presence: Deborah Warner
    Jan 12 2026

    Deborah Warner, this week’s guest facilitator, grew up in New York City. She studied at Union Theological Seminary receiving a Master of Divinity degree with Psychiatry and Religion as her area of concentration. After completing a chaplaincy residency at in the neonatal unit at New York Hospital and working on a medical floor at Memorial Sloane Kettering Cancer Center, she became one of the first generation of women ordained as priest in the Episcopal Church. Most of her 40-year tenure was lived out in the Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts primarily as the rector of two separate parishes.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC, where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    41 mins
  • Is It MOM or the Tie-Dyed T-Shirt? Tamara Franks
    Nov 17 2025

    Tamara Franks is a wanderer, sojourner and courageous soul who loves to experience each day fully. She isn’t prone to chit chat; instead, on a moment’s notice, will invite anyone into deep, thoughtful conversation. Wilderness Guide, College Lecturer, and Pastor, she loves to explore diverse lands, listen to the trees, the wind and people’s hearts, cook both simple and elegant meals, and laugh with her whole being.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC, where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    34 mins
  • God in Three Dimensions: Mandy Monath
    Nov 3 2025

    Mandy Monath, a North Carolina native, is the author of This Is Like That: Poems and Process, a collection of poems accompanied by observations on creativity and poetic craft. She is interested in what makes a poem a poem. In other genres, her recent children’s book, How Counting Came to Be, tells the story of a cave girl who thinks too much. Her essays have appeared in Christian Science Monitor and The Wall Street Journal. Mandy earned her B.A. from Salem College in Classics and her M.A. from UNC-Chapel Hill in Comparative Literature. She lampooned that experience in her romantic comedy, Manifestations of Idiosyncrasy in the Actualization of the Potential Work.

    Keith Walker, the author of All That Names Us (Saddle Road Press, 2024), offers this review of Mandy’s work, This Is Like That: Poems and Process. “So much of what I read these days feels like sophisticated word play without soul. In these poems I feel the poet’s sensitivity, her open heart receiving the world and her discerning mind carefully turning it over and over to understand the underlying dimensions of what she sees and feels. It’s very powerful and very spiritual. I really admire these beautiful, resonant poems and will keep reading them and letting them speak to me.”

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC, where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    32 mins
  • Finding An Ever-Present God: Valerie Davis
    Oct 20 2025

    The Rev. Deacon Valerie Davis shares her story of finding in an ever-present God, in the grief of losing her mother too soon.


    Valerie, a cradle Episcopalian, ordained a Deacon, serves in the Diocese of North Carolina. She is a member of the Diocesan Council for Outreach & Justice, is the Co-chair for the Clergy of Color and a facilitator for the diocese’s introductory course on Dismantling Racism. She is currently assigned to St. Martin’s in Charlotte, NC where she is beginning a ministry for homeless and displaced persons. Valerie considers herself to be a lifelong learner, who enjoys reading, water activities, traveling abroad, and the many adventures of meeting and sharing the good news of the Gospel domestically and internationally.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC, where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    27 mins
  • God of the Negative Space: Sue Bartlett
    Oct 6 2025

    Sometimes God is found not in crises, but in crises that are averted.

    Sue Bartlett currently lives in Davidson, North Carolina. She has had many wonderful opportunities in her life - to live in different parts of the country, to travel, to find meaningful work as a nurse, a chef, an artist, and a poet. She has been a granddaughter, daughter, wife, and mother, but her greatest joy is being a grandmother. God has been very, very good to her in all the spaces of her life. And she is grateful! Current project: Sue is working on a collection of poetry exploring the wonders of prayer. It is entitled “When Thought Becomes Prayer”.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC, where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    27 mins
  • When God Stopped Being A Concept: Matt Addington
    Sep 22 2025

    What happens when you know the culture, follow the rules, make a life plan, assume the good outcome and it all stops… working?

    Matt Addington is an Episcopal Priest, serving a parish, and is a husband and dad of 2 daughters. Matt feels deeply called to finding the nooks and crannies of life where God is already working in the world through others, and helping the same people understand how they can make a difference in the world by simply being themselves. Matt often ends his day with more questions than when he started, and is excitedly
    exploring what aspect of personal ministry God has for him in the future. There are so many possibilities because there are so many opportunities.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    24 mins
  • Religious But Not Spiritual: Beth Hunt
    Sep 8 2025

    What happens when you’re “Religious but not Spiritual” and someone you are supposed to protect is in danger, and your commitment and care can’t guarantee a safe outcome?

    Beth Hunt, who spent 33 years as a business journalist, left that career behind to pursue something a little closer to God. She earned a master’s degree in peace and conflict resolution, and now spends her time helping individuals, families, organizations, and churches communicate
    more gently, navigate conflict with grace, and rebuild trust in a world often marked by anger and division. She’s wife to Brian, a mathematician and professor, and mom to Shannon, a college student. They were all rescued by Bella, a boxer-pit bull mix.

    Sarah Hollar, an Episcopal Priest and Spiritual Director, lives in Charlotte, NC where she serves a parish, tends relationships with her husband, two children, two stepchildren, their spouses, seven grandchildren, and her wise aging mother. She also has a good number of friends. Deeply curious about the complexity of the human experience and how God is present in that complexity, she invites you to join her as all sorts of folk share their memorable encounters with God.

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    30 mins
  • When God Got Real- Trailer
    Jul 19 2025

    We all have moments when faith moves from idea to experience—when God becomes real in a way that changes everything.


    On the When God Got Real podcast, real people share their personal stories of encountering the divine, followed by a conversation with host Sarah Hollar exploring how that encounter continues to shape their lives, relationships, and place in the world.

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    3 mins