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Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

Where Do Gays Retire Podcast

Written by: Mark Goldstein
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Where Do Gays Retire is a podcast where we help you in the LGBTQ+ community find a safe and affordable retirement destination. Join Mark Goldstein as he interviews others who live in gay-friendly places around the globe. Learn about the climate, cost of living, the LGBTQ + community, healthcare, crime and safety, and more.© 2024 Where Do Gays Retire Podcast Social Sciences Travel Writing & Commentary
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  • Where to Find Your Retirement Joy: 10 Questions to Ask! with Mark Goldstein & Michael AI
    Jan 28 2026

    Ready to level up your retirement game? We're diving into the 10 essential questions every LGBTQ person should ask before picking their retirement city. Forget about palm trees and sunshine; we're talking about finding a place that vibes with who you are today, not who you were in your 20s. From walkability to genuine LGBTQ friendliness, we've got the scoop on what really matters for your happiness and sanity. Join me and my sassy AI sidekick, Michael, as we navigate the nitty-gritty of making your golden years truly shine!

    Diving straight into the heart of retirement planning, this week’s episode is all about the essential questions every LGBTQ retiree needs to ask when choosing that perfect place to kick back and relax. We start by discussing the importance of picking a city that resonates with who you are today—not who you were 20 years ago. I mean, did you really think a beachside bungalow would still be your jam when you can barely handle a sand grain in your flip-flop? The conversation is rich with insights about walkability, cost of living, and how a place can either support or stifle your daily joy. We even share a few personal anecdotes about our own misadventures in city selection, which, spoiler alert, involved a gator or two in a retention pond. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s unravel what makes a retirement city the right fit for you.

    Next up, we tackle the burning question of LGBTQ friendliness. Spoiler: it’s not just about rainbows and parades! We dive into what actual protections look like and how to spot a community that truly embraces you year-round, not just during Pride Month. Think about it—wouldn’t it be nice to stroll down the street with your partner without feeling like you’re on display? We chat about cities that excel in creating inclusive environments, from the glittering streets of San Francisco to the surprisingly warm vibes of Asheville, North Carolina. Plus, we share how places in Spain set the bar high when it comes to feeling normal and accepted. Trust us; it’s a conversation you won’t want to miss!

    Finally, we wrap it all up with the big picture—what does your ideal Tuesday look like in retirement? No, really! Tuesday is the unsung hero of your week, and we explore how the day-to-day aspects of a city can make or break your experience. Accessibility to stores, health care, and even coffee shops play crucial roles in your retirement happiness. We throw in a dash of humor with tales of our own Tuesday escapades, comparing cities that excel at making life easier (hello, Spanish trams!) versus those that turn errands into Olympic events. So, hang tight as we help you navigate these essential questions, ensuring your retirement isn’t just about the sun—it's about thriving in your new home!

    Takeaways:

    1. Choosing a retirement city is all about finding the right vibe for who you are today, not who you were in the past.
    2. Is the city LGBTQ friendly year-round? Because Pride Month isn't the only time we need love and support!
    3. Your Tuesday routine matters more than you think—make sure it fits your retirement lifestyle and makes you happy.
    4. Don't forget to check out the healthcare situation; it’s crucial to know if you can get the care you need when you need it!
    5. Affordability goes beyond just rent; consider all the little costs that can add up and stress you out.
    6. Ask yourself if the city supports your dreams for this new chapter of life, because you deserve to thrive!

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    19 mins
  • Living La Vida Local: Gay Retirement in Oaxaca with David Shallenberger and Harvey Nystrom
    Jan 14 2026

    Ever been curious about retiring in Oaxaca, Mexico? Well, grab your sun hat, because today we're diving into that dreamy destination! We chat with David and Harvey, a dynamic duo who’ve crafted their lives in this vibrant city after years of exploring Latin America. They'll share the scoop on community vibes, cost of living, and the oh-so-important healthcare scene. Spoiler alert: it’s all about connection and convenience, from the cobblestone streets to the local markets. So, stick around and soak in the wisdom from two guys who’ve turned their retirement into a colorful adventure!

    Let’s talk about walkability, community vibes, and the sweet life in Oaxaca! David and Harvey break down the nitty-gritty of life in their new home, where cobblestone streets lead to charming markets and friendly faces greet you at every corner. They’ve lived in several neighborhoods, each with its own unique flavor, and they reveal what surprised them most about settling in. Spoiler alert: the vibrant energy of the city, especially during the Day of the Dead celebrations, is a total game-changer! They emphasize the importance of community and how they've built connections with fellow LGBTQ folks, from volunteer opportunities to regular meetups. Plus, they share tips on navigating local healthcare and the importance of learning some Spanish to truly immerse yourself in the culture. This episode is packed with insights for anyone considering a retirement adventure south of the border!

    Takeaways:

    1. Oaxaca is a vibrant city filled with music, art, and a friendly atmosphere, perfect for retirees.
    2. David and Harvey share their experiences living in various Latin American countries before settling in Oaxaca.
    3. The cost of living in Oaxaca is quite reasonable, with rent for a two-bedroom apartment around $500 monthly.
    4. Healthcare in Oaxaca can be affordable, but many choose private care due to overcrowded public hospitals.
    5. Community is key in Oaxaca, with places like the Oaxaca Lending Library connecting LGBTQ folks with each other.
    6. Transportation in Oaxaca is walkable, and public options like taxis and buses are readily available, making car ownership unnecessary.

    Links referenced in this episode:

    1. wheredogaysretire.com

    Companies mentioned in this episode:

    1. Airbnb
    2. Amazon
    3. Costco
    4. Santander

    Mentioned in this episode:

    Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

    Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Don't Just Visit—Live! Americans Moving To Spain -With Christopher Hughey
    Dec 31 2025

    Today, we're diving headfirst into the world of Americans moving to Spain! We'll chat about why folks from the LGBTQ community are flocking to this sunny slice of Europe, seeking safer and more affordable retirement spots. Our guest, Christopher Hughey, is a relocation guru who's got the inside scoop on what it takes to make the big move. From climate to cost of living, he's got the lowdown on everything you need to know to ensure a smooth transition. So, whether you're dreaming of tapas in Sevilla or sunbathing in Alicante, stick around for some fabulous tips and tricks to make your Spanish adventure a reality!

    Who knew moving to Spain could spark a whole new identity? In this episode, we chat with Christopher about the nitty-gritty of relocating, focusing on the non-lucrative visa that many Americans are eyeing. It's not just about the paperwork; it’s about understanding what life will look like once you land in Spain. Christopher emphasizes the importance of scouting trips, not just vacations, to get the real feel of living in Spanish neighborhoods. We also dive into the social aspects, from the vibrant LGBTQ community to the challenges of adapting to a new culture and language. Let’s just say, if you’re thinking about making Spain your next home, you might want to pack more than just your bags!

    Takeaways:

    1. This podcast episode highlights how to find affordable and gay-friendly retirement spots globally, especially in Spain.
    2. Mark Goldstein interviews Christopher Hughey, who shares insights about moving to Spain and life there.
    3. Understanding the visa process for moving to Spain is crucial, especially for retirees in the U.S.
    4. Scouting trips to Spain are essential for ensuring a smooth transition and happy living experience.

    Links referenced in this episode:

    1. americansmovingtospain.com
    2. www.wheredogaysretire.com

    Companies mentioned in this episode:

    1. Americans Moving to Spain
    2. Facebook

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    Introducing LGBTQSeniors.com – A Free Community for Connection & Pride

    Mark Goldstein, host of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast, shares exciting news: LGBTQSeniors.com is live! It’s a free online community for LGBTQ folks 50+ featuring: Private messaging & forums Monthly Zoom meetups Real connection—without the social media clutter If you love what Mark’s building, please support the cause at 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/unlonelylgbtqseniors 🌈 Join today at LGBTQSeniors.com — because pride doesn’t retire.

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    1 hr and 22 mins
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