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Who Wrote the Rules?

Who Wrote the Rules?

Written by: Vicki Shaw
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We grow up believing there’s a formula for success: work hard, follow the rules, chase the right goals, and happiness will follow. I built a career this way, as a software engineer. But somewhere along the way, life shows itself to be messier, more complex—and a lot more fragile than we were led to believe. Beneath the rhythms of everyday life and the buzz of innovation and career goals, we’re facing profound instability, from personal burnout to destabilizing democracy, destruction of ecosystems and the unfolding of the planet’s sixth mass extinction. This podcast is my journey through that realization. Through wide-ranging conversations with historians, philosophers, ecologists, scientists, and even posture experts, I explain how my worldview shifted once I found the courage to question the stories and rules I grew up with. Each episode invites you to step back, rethink what we value, and consider how a clearer understanding of ourselves and our world might help us navigate the future with more wisdom—and more heart. I’m your host, Vicki Shaw. Philosophy Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Who Wrote The Rules, Intro!
    Oct 18 2025

    What's this narrative podcast all about anyway? In this introduction, you'll get a taste of how big a scope we're taking on through Vicki's (flustering) experience learning to play a video game called Civilization. Through this story, we'll begin to encounter the seminal questions of the series: Why are we obsessed with dominance, and is there another way to thrive? Where did we get our ideas about what is good or valuable? Can we adapt and expand our identity and worldview to embrace more sensible values?

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    14 mins
  • Back Pain and the Thread of Kinesthetic Wisdom
    Jan 28 2026

    A horrible bout of back pain creates curiosity about the underlying societal influences on our bodies, and causes me to take a leave of absence from my tech job.

    For this story, I interview a posture guru, Esther Gokhale, about how pain may arise from influences beyond our physical bodies, including speculation of a break in the thread of what she calls kinesthetic wisdom.

    We glimpse examples from indigenous cultures, antique art, and vintage clothing stores to see how postural averages change, and what that might mean for our own bodies.

    In uncovering these hidden layers, questions arise about what else by might be more improvised than previously thought.


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    32 mins
  • Unraveling Values and Narrative
    Mar 5 2026

    Where do our values come from? Can we evolve them to live better? And why does "value" mean something totally different from "values"?

    In this episode, we meet an intentional community called Magic that explores those questions through a scientific lens, in a philosophy called valuescience.

    David Schrom, the community's founder, tells his story of challenging the narratives we inherit, which culminates in estrangement from his father.

    Personal reflections on valuescience and David's story help me reconcile past moral questions of working in tech, and grapple with how difficult it is to examine the ideas we become attached to.

    Trigger warning: This episode contains mentions of suicide that some listeners may find upsetting.

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    40 mins
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