Why Authenticity Makes People Uncomfortable
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Why Authenticity Makes People Uncomfortable
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About this listen
We say we want authenticity — but when people actually show up as themselves, it often makes others uncomfortable.
In this episode of Your Critical Crush, I talk about why authenticity is so often misread as intensity, how performative behavior shows up in dating and friendships, and what it really costs us when we prioritize being seen over being felt.
From being told “you’re a lot” on dates, to navigating social spaces where everyone’s performing and no one’s connecting, this is a conversation about emotional availability, compatibility, and why imperfection is often where real intimacy begins.
This episode isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about understanding what your authenticity reveals, and who it naturally filters out.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why authenticity makes people uncomfortable
- The difference between intensity and emotional availability
- Being told “you’re a lot” and what that really means
- How performative socializing kills connection
- Why slow burns without vulnerability lose depth
- Choosing compatibility over shrinking yourself
Segments:
- Let’s Get Critical
- Talk You Through It
- Crush • Crave • Crash
- The Critical QuestionI