Have you ever felt closest to someone when they needed you?

When they called you first, came to you for advice, relied on you, or said, “I don’t know what I’d do without you.”

In this episode of The One Moment Rule Podcast, we talk about why we can confuse love with being needed - and why being useful, fixing, rescuing or carrying others can sometimes feel like proof that we matter.

We look at love, emotional patterns, overgiving, people-pleasing, attachment, family roles, emotional responsibility and why some of us feel safest in relationships where we are needed.

From an emotional intelligence point of view, love is care with awareness, respect, emotional safety, responsibility and room for both people to matter.

But when love becomes tied to being useful, we can start to ask:

Do I feel loved here, or do I feel needed?
Can I be cared for when I am not fixing?
Would I still feel secure in this relationship if I stopped overgiving?
Am I responding from love, or from fear of not being needed?

If you have ever felt most valued when you are helping, fixing, listening, rescuing or being the strong one, this episode is for you.

Let us know your thoughts on the episode and also what you would like us to talk about in future episodes too! Thank you for the support and we hope you find our podcast helpful!

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