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X Why Explained

X Why Explained

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Truth. Understanding. Freedom. X Why Explained turns the lights on for men who know that something is not right, who can’t understand their behaviour and feel trapped in fractional sexual addiction, suffocated by shame, isolated and confused. This podcast will help restore dignity and purity to help to make you a better, healthier man. Please feel free to contact the host with any questions, comments or other feedback you may have via email at xwhyexplained@gmail.comCopyright 2024 All rights reserved. Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • #33 Stay Away
    Jan 22 2026

    In this episode of X Why Explained, David discusses the importance of avoiding external temptations to protect marriage, emphasizing accountability over willpower. He reflects on the complexities of significant age gaps in relationships and shares his personal journey of overcoming a spirit of anger through faith, while continuing to battle with lust and seeking spiritual completion.

    A Porn Recovery Program - The Freedom Fight

    https://thefreedomfight.org/about/

    Podcasts I'm listening to these days:

    • Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley

    • Undeceptions

    • The Unplayable podcast (cricket)

    • The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach)

    • Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries)

    • Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

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    18 mins
  • #32 A Curiousity to Me
    Jan 8 2026

    This episode of X Why Explained sees host David read from his novel, Love Sick Love, discussing how discovering his father's pornography at age 11 sparked a harmful curiosity and sexual shame, contributing to viewing women as objects. He connects this early exposure and subsequent emotional turmoil to the escalation of addiction and sexual violence (citing Australian statistics). Finally, he addresses the argument against God's existence due to suffering, offering "free will" and the "purposefulness of suffering" as complex, partial explanations.

    A Porn Recovery Program - The Freedom Fight

    https://thefreedomfight.org/about/

    Podcasts I'm listening to these days.

    Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley

    Undeceptions

    The Unplayable podcast (cricket)

    The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach)

    Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries)

    Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

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    15 mins
  • #31 It Makes me shudder
    Dec 12 2025

    In this episode, David reads from Love Sick Love to analyze addiction’s emotional warning signs. He addresses the "stupidity" of self-delusion and strongly rejects modern inclusivity regarding gender and sexuality. Citing statistics on image-based abuse, he argues that pornography consumption directly fuels exploitation. He urges men to reject these norms, stop contributing to abuse, and seek recovery.

    A Porn Recovery Program - The Freedom Fight

    https://thefreedomfight.org/about/

    Podcasts I'm listening to these days.

    Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley

    Undeceptions

    The Unplayable podcast (cricket)

    The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach)

    Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries)

    Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

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    21 mins
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