The office holiday party isn’t a celebration; it’s a trap.

In this episode of Yo! Who Hired You?, James and Hag decode the unwritten rules of the most dangerous night of the corporate year. We aren't here to give you generic etiquette tips. We’re digging into the data that proves why this event is actually a high-stakes performance review in disguise.

We break down the terrifying stat that 14% of employees have been fired shortly after a holiday party due to their behavior. We discuss why the open bar is actually an IQ test , why the "Third Venue" is where careers go to die , and the counter-intuitive strategy of ignoring your boss to talk to their spouse instead.

From the "Two-Drink Insurance Policy" to the absolute necessity of showing up to work the next morning (hungover or not), this is your tactical briefing for surviving the night without becoming Monday morning's gossip.

Key Topics & Chapters:

• (00:00) - The 14% Stat: Why the holiday party is a "layoff audition" and not a party.
• (04:15) - The "Two-Drink" Rule: Why moderation is your best career insurance policy.
• (08:30) - The Third Venue Trap: The difference between "networking" (Venue 1 & 2) and "raging" (Venue 3). Why you must go home when the location changes.
• (12:45) - The Spouse Strategy: Stop networking with your peers. The most powerful person in the room is your boss’s partner.
• (18:20) - The "Morning After" Protocol: Why calling in sick the next day is a reputation killer, and why you simply have to show up.
• (24:00) - Manager Mode: Why bosses need to stay sober, keep their hands to themselves, and leave early to let the team breathe.

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In this episode, we break down job hugging—when people stay in their current role for security more than growth—and why it’s surging now. We’ll cover what it is, why it’s happening, who it helps or hurts, and how to avoid getting stuck (for employees) and how to lead through it (for managers & HR).

What we cover
• What “job hugging” means and how it differs from job hopping.
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• The market signals behind the trend: low quits, weak job growth, record‑low job‑finding confidence.
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• The upside/downside for employees and employers—and why too‑low turnover can backfire.
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• Practical playbooks: stretch work, internal mobility, upskilling, and leadership moves that re‑engage “job huggers.”
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Key stats we cite
• 48% of workers say they’re job hugging; 75% plan to stay in their current role for ~2 years.
Monster
• U.S. quits rate: 1.9% (Aug ’25)—unusually low vs. recent years.
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• +119,000 jobs in Sept ’25; unemployment 4.4%; August revised to –4,000.
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• Job‑finding probability hit a series low 44.9% in Aug (NY Fed SCE).
Federal Reserve Bank of New York
• 806,383 job cuts announced YTD through July ’25 (highest since 2020).
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