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Your Thoughts Your Reality

Your Thoughts Your Reality

Written by: Michael Cole
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Welcome to "Your Thoughts, Your Reality with Michael Cole," the podcast that shines a compassionate light on the journey of veterans battling through life's challenges. Michael Cole, a Certified Elite Neuroencoding Specialist, dedicated to guiding military veterans as they navigate the intricate pathways of post-deployment life. Join him as we delve into the profound realm of Neuroencoding science, empowering these brave individuals to conquer universal battles: procrastination, self-doubt, fear, and more. Together, let's uncover the strength within you to re-engage with families and society, forging a new path forward.

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Episodes
  • From Stress To Inner Peace
    Jan 22 2026

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    What if peace isn’t a place you find but a skill you practice every day? Mike sits down with joy empowerment coach and Neuroencoding specialist Marcus Weiss to unpack how stress becomes a default and how simple, repeatable tools can reset your mind and body toward calm, clarity, and connection. Marcus gets real about years spent waking to tension and going to bed in relief, and the moment a mentor’s practical guidance worked in real time. That spark led to a new baseline: choosing intention, interrupting patterns, and building reps that turn temporary relief into a steady way of being.

    We dig into the nuts and bolts of emotional resilience: noticing your early warning signs, using breath to cue the nervous system, and speaking out loud to anchor a better state your brain can believe. Marcus shares why recognition comes first, how to ask what you’d rather feel, and how one-degree shifts—leaving a noisy room, turning off a trigger, smiling on purpose—can convert a spiral into traction. For veterans and families navigating post-deployment life, these tools foster connection where isolation once lived and help re-engage with relationships, community, and meaningful work.

    You’ll also learn how to handle holiday pressure without losing yourself, why consistency beats intensity, and how gratitude at night plus a bold morning declaration can reset your default. We close with three field-tested tips: start the day with a promise you can keep, breathe with a long S exhale to calm the body, and bookend your evening with what went well. Ready to feel better on purpose and watch the world mirror it back? Press play, practice the reps, and then tell us the one habit you’re committing to this week. If this conversation helped, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find the show.

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    36 mins
  • Healing Hidden Wounds: Veterans, Midlife, And The Science Of Change
    Jan 22 2026

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    The quiet of midlife can be loud. When the calendar eases and the chaos fades, old wounds often step forward, and for veterans and their families that shift can feel like a tidal pull. We sit down with healer and mentor Dianna Sullivan to unpack why trauma often resurfaces when life finally feels safe, how the nervous system signals it’s ready to process, and what practical steps actually move you from numbness to momentum.

    Dianna shares her path from a controlling, abusive relationship to a purpose-led practice that blends coaching, Neuroencoding, and energy work. We dig into the science of habits and attention—how celebrating small daily wins creates clean dopamine, rewires expectation, and helps you spot progress instead of problems. We also talk about the human side: patience over perfection, choosing compassion when you’d rather push, and the honest truth that you can’t leap from despair to joy without sturdy rungs in between.

    For couples navigating trauma’s aftershocks, we explore boundaries that respect both people, conversations that invite openness without blame, and the reality that you can’t change someone who isn’t ready. Dianna explains how modalities like Reiki, shamanic healing, and Access Bars can calm an overcharged system and make space for insight, even if the language feels new. The throughline is agency: your daily choices, your story of survival, your next small step. If you’ve been stuck in a “season of suck,” this conversation offers tools to steady your footing and start climbing.

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  • Finding The Story You Live By
    Dec 19 2025

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    What if your past stopped defining you and started refining you? Michael sits down with actor-turned-performance coach Arron Lloyd to explore how veterans and their families can reframe tough experiences, encode a stronger identity, and rebuild connection at home without walking on eggshells. Arron’s story—sleeping on a floor in the Bronx, making a decision in a blizzard, and choosing a new meaning for hardship—becomes a blueprint for anyone stuck between who they were and who they want to be.

    We dig into the acting principle of “given circumstances” and apply it to real life: you can’t change what happened, but you can change what it means. Arron shares concrete, brain-based tools from Neuroencoding, including changing personal history, daily identity statements, and a breath-linked repetition technique borrowed from Shakespeare training to move ideas from your head into your body. Mike highlights the power of presence to break autopilot and how celebration locks in progress—because your brain keeps what you reward.

    For families navigating reintegration, words matter. Arron offers language that lifts without shame: “I believe in you. I believe in who you’re becoming.” We talk love and respect, appreciation rituals that hit the heart, and simple connection practices like eye contact and synchronized breathing. You’ll learn how to polish shared memories to rekindle why you chose each other, and how military values—leadership, grit, loyalty—transfer powerfully into civilian life. Arron closes with three pillars to go further, faster: love as a daily practice, belief as a compass, and memories as fuel for who you are becoming.

    If this conversation gives you a spark, share it with someone who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us which tool you’ll try first so we can cheer you on.

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