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When a student walked into the office during the pandemic asking whether his father would live long enough for a transplant, it exposed a gap many youth pastors feel but rarely name: we can teach Scripture and organize programs, but do we know how to shepherd teenagers when fear, grief, and uncertainty overwhelm them?

We sit down with Dr. Randy Jackson to talk about a gospel-shaped approach to soul care that equips parents as the primary shapers of a teen’s faith. We trace his journey from a pandemic crisis to building a practical framework that deepens conversations at home and in small groups and why equipping parents remains the most strategic work in student ministry.

This episode offers practical tools for youth pastors, volunteers, and parents who want to move beyond behavior management and into Christ-centered care for the inner lives of teenagers.

🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• A clear, Scripture-rooted definition of soul care for youth ministry
• Why crisis moments reveal the limits of program-driven ministry
• How the Gospels connect soul care with healing and restoration
• Eight core components of biblical soul care every leader can practice
• Why parents and grandparents remain the primary influencers in teens’ lives
• How to equip families to talk about identity, emotions, and mental health
• The most transferable skill for shepherding students: active listening
• How better questions lead to deeper spiritual conversations
• Why vulnerability should come from scars, not wounds
• How volunteers can provide meaningful care without being counselors

📖 The 8 Components of Gospel-Shaped Soul Care

Dr. Randy Jackson outlines eight practical dimensions of caring for the soul that apply to both ministry leaders and parents:

1. Time — Slowing down to be present (Psalm 90)
2. Influence — Recognizing who shapes a teen’s inner world
3. Motivation — Understanding the “why” behind behavior
4. Vulnerability — Modeling honest faith from healed places
5. Empathy — Entering a student’s experience without rushing to fix
6. Mindfulness — Paying attention to God, self, and surroundings
7. Discernment — Seeing spiritual realities beneath surface issues
8. Communication — Speaking truth with grace and clarity

Parents and grandparents outrank social media influencers, celebrities, and youth pastors as the most influential voices in teenagers’ lives.

Connect w/ Dr. Randy Jackson, Youth Pastor, FBC Atlanta, Texas

Email: rsjacksonus@gmail.com

Facebook: facebook.com/rsjacksonus

Book Recommendations:

• Aundi Kolber, Try Softer
• T. Dale Johnson, The Church as a Culture of Care
• Paul David Tripp, Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands
• Harley Atkinson, W. Lee Barnett, and Mike Severe. Ministry with Youth in Crisis. 3rd ed.
• Richard Foster, Celebration of Discipline
• Robert D. Jones, Kristin L. Kellen, and Rob Green. The Gospel For Disordered Lives
• Kara Powell and Brad Griffin, 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager

- J. Alasdair Groves and Winston T. Smith, Untangling Emotions

- Timothy Paul Jones. Family Ministry Field Guide: How Your Church Can Equip Parents to Make Disciples

- Edward T. Welch, Caring For One Another: 8 Ways to Cultivate

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Which snack would you like to popsicle?

In this episode, Chad Daugherty joins Zac and the crew for a conversation that starts with dad-life fitness in the “llama lift lair” and ends with a practical blueprint for building a healthy, sustainable volunteer culture.

Let's talk about the wild world of Gen Alpha — deodorant before rec, ball pumps on standby, and a suspicious loyalty to red Doritos. Then everything shifts when a middle schooler asks a deceptively deep question: Why does the Bible use so many bread images for God?

Suddenly, frozen Uncrustables become a doorway to manna, the Bread of Life, communion, and daily dependence on God.

That pivot — from silly to sacred — is youth ministry in a nutshell.

🔑 Key Takeaways
Pause Your Way Out
When big questions land, you don’t have to have instant answers. Chad shares how to slow the moment, invite students into discovery, and model a faith that seeks together.
Clarity → Confidence → Consistency → Culture
Healthy volunteer teams aren’t built on hype. They grow through clear expectations, steady investment, and repeatable rhythms.
Recruitment Is Not Development
Most ministries stop after “yes.” Real leadership happens in what comes next.

A Simple Leadership Rhythm
Pray • Ask • Invest • Wait
Care that continues long after the initial excitement fades.

👥 Chad’s 3–2–1 Weekly Volunteer System
A practical framework you can start this week:
Pray for 3 people
Make 2 proactive touchpoints
Schedule 1 face-to-face connection
Coffee, hallway chat, game night, or visit
Do this for 50 weeks:

💯 ~100 families personally touched
🤝 50 in-person connections
🌱 A culture shaped over time

Make sure you hit the links below, whether we're gonna see you in a couple states, in a couple regions in the next few ways, or catch us online

Lifeway.com/essentials

Lifeway.com/experience

We'd love to see you in Virginia, in North Carolina, or one of our youth pastor summit locations

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What if your calendar didn’t own your ministry — but served it?

Welcome to the podcast garage Amanda Mejias! Lifeway Specialist for Girls' Ministry and Women in Youth Ministry. Check this pastoral note: We to need to make the move from submission (giving in after the fight) to surrender (choosing trust before the fight begins).

In this episode, Zac and Amanda unpack a simple, repeatable framework to audit your year:

Stop – Start – Change

• Stop what burns energy without bearing fruit (even if it’s beloved).
• Start where your God is calling you out: only when you have conviction and capacity.
• Change the good-but-not-great by adjusting structure, timing, and goals to serve outcomes that actually matter.

We talk:

• Anchoring your plans to your church’s mission
• Working backward from your budget cycle
• Defining fruit before you plan
• Volunteer buy-in and giving ideas real runway
• Why leaders must measure what matters

Plus, a live case study: Her Good Retreat — a focused gathering for women leading in youth and college ministry. Born from real needs (belonging, rest, targeted training), it models how vision, people, and place shape events that last.

Key Points
• the value of discipline through a swim lesson story
• moving from submission to surrender
• defining fruit before planning
• annual audit using stop, start, change
• aligning events to church mission
• budgeting timelines and approvals
• volunteer capacity and early buy-in
• when to kill traditions and when to tweak what you inherited
• launching Her Good Retreat for women in youth and college ministry
• links to Youth Pastor Summit and Experience

Check the links below for the Her Good Retreat this March, the Youth Pastor Summit locations in April, and the Preaching Experience in May. Like, rate, subscribe, and review, and we’ll see you next time

Her Good

https://www.lifeway.com/en/events/her-good-retreat

Preaching Experience

https://www.lifeway.com/en/events/experience-2026

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