• S3E3: That Frickin’ Imposter Syndrome
    Jan 18 2022

    uuuuuuuurgh, imposter syndrome. you… you jerk. some days you get moments where you know how hard you worked and of course, if you get praise for it, you know it’s well deserved and then you get those other days where you feel like, “is this me? really?” yes, darling. it is you. but then why tf do you feel like it isn’t?? because imposter syndrome. listen to find out🗣 ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com Articles referenced: What Is Imposter Syndrome? | Very Well Mind https://www.verywellmind.com/imposter-syndrome-and-social-anxiety-disorder-4156469 Imposter Syndrome | Alexandra Owens https://www.psycom.net/imposter-syndrome Imposter Syndrome: When You Feel Like A Fraud | Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-main-ingredient/202102/imposter-syndrome-when-you-feel-fraud

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    17 mins
  • S3E2: The Minimalism Bug Kind of Bit Me
    Jan 11 2022

    in today’s episode i’m exploring minimalism as taught by The Minimalists, Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus, after watching their two documentaries. i am considering what minimalism is and who it’s really for. for a long time i thought of minimalism as a mere aesthetic with furniture i couldn’t afford, until i learned about the lifestyle side of it. i may have been bit… may have. listen to find out🗣 ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com Articles referenced: What Is Consumer Culture? | Small Business - Chron.com. https://smallbusiness.chron.com/consumer-culture-57886.html What Is Minimalism? | The Minimalists https://www.theminimalists.com/minimalism/

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    20 mins
  • S3E1: Is “New Year, New Me” Still A Thing?
    Jan 4 2022

    it’s a brand new year. brand new season. brand new me? is “new year, new me” still a thing? what does that even mean and do people actually succeed in whatever goals they set for themselves that they need to achieve this year? if so, give us pointers :) ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei articles referenced: https://wsbt.com/news/local/the-psychology-behind-the-new-year-new-me-mindset-explained https://www.dailycal.org/2016/02/17/new-year-new-me-or-reality/ https://www.successconsciousness.com/blog/goal-setting/new-year-beginnings-resolutions/ https://www.history.com/topics/holidays/new-yearshttps://www.goskills.com/Soft-Skills/Resources/Top-10-new-years-resolutions

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    15 mins
  • S2E16: POPPIE NONGENA #TheAudiencePerspective
    Apr 17 2021

    i believe this to be the story of a thousand, if not millions of South African women who lived in the apartheid era, thus it’s somewhat more relatable than the stories of our icons. in this episode we talk about the telling of such stories when it comes to language and how our stories can mostly be understood if we tell them ourselves instead of going at it the Hollywood route. listen to find out some thoughts and commentary about this film🗣 which film/series would you like me to talk about next? ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei

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    18 mins
  • S2E15: Rejecting Terms Like ‘Best Friend’ And ‘Friend’
    Apr 13 2021

    the older you grow, the heavier certain terms you call someone become. ‘friend’ has such a heavy emphasis on it that you don’t know who to call friend, you don’t know who is your actual friend or you don’t know whose friend you are. i’m swapping that for organic relationships without labels. listen to find out🗣 ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com Check out Emily Smith’s Article https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/normalize-friendships-ending-f478eb27b3c7

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    22 mins
  • S2E14: 365 DAYS #TheAudiencePerspective
    Apr 9 2021

    listening to this episode, i think i delved a little too deep in 365 Days/Dni. this will be more of a audio essay about this film that left me a little breathless to say the least. i apologise in advance. lawlz* kidding... but nonetheless, i hope you enjoy. listen to find out some thoughts and commentary about this film🗣 which film/series would you like me to talk about next? ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com

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    24 mins
  • S2E13: Forgiving Yourself For Being Human
    Apr 6 2021

    i took some time off after a hectic period of time that sucked the energy out of me and it was the best thing that i could have done for myself. let me walk you through the discoveries of introspection and how to get a step closer to accepting that it’s okay not to always be levelheaded and being okay with being human. listen to find out🗣 ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com

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    24 mins
  • S2E12: THE DAY WE DIDN’T MEET #TheAudiencePerspective
    Mar 6 2021

    we need to talk about these romantic films and how after a century, they still attempt lie to us. not sure if it’s a generational thing, but i’m pretty sure the older we get, the less we buy into these things and we prefer realistic portrayals or dissections of relationships. The Day We Didn’t Meet is a fantasy that let’s us know from the get go and keeps reminding us that the romance between Sam and Alex is fantasy but soon things get real. listen to find out some thoughts and commentary about this film🗣 which film/series would you like me to talk about next? 📣check out South Pole Juwells IG: southpolejuwells jewelers and fashion enthusiasts to look out for. black and white is the way! ✨Tuesdays - mental musings ✨Fridays - film commentary/reviews Please comment, share, follow 👌🏽 Let’s help each other grow, seeds🌻 IG: @ilisil_sa Twitter: @Christarei ilisilchitchats.wordpress.com

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    17 mins