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Love's Not Color Blind

Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

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Love's Not Color Blind

Written by: Kevin A. Patterson, Ruby Bouie Johnson - foreword
Narrated by: Kevin A. Patterson
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The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white partners, being fetishized, having realities of everyday racism ignored—occur in polyamorous relationships too, and trying “not to see race” only makes it worse. To make polyamorous communities inclusive, we must all acknowledge our part in perpetuating racism and listen to people of color. Love's Not Color Blind puts forward the framework—through research, anecdotal testimony, and analogy—for understanding, identifying, and confronting racism within polyamorous communities.

©2018 Kevin A. Patterson (P)2025 Thornapple Press Love & Romance Parenting Racism & Discrimination Relationships Social Sciences

Critic Reviews

"Love’s Not Color Blind belongs on the shelf next to The Ethical Slut. For both people of color and their allies, this is a powerful offering that dismantles myths about polyamory and builds a bridge to better understanding." (Claire Foster)
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