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Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)

Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions and Hurtful Acts

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Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)

Written by: Carol Tavris, Elliot Aronson
Narrated by: Marsha Mercant, Joe Barrett
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Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell? Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception - how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.

©2008 Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson (P)2010 Audible, Inc. Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Social Psychology & Interactions Sociology

Critic Reviews

"Thanks, in part, to the scientific evidence it provides and the charm of its down-to-earth, commonsensical tone, Mistakes Were Made is convincing. Reading it, we recognize the behavior of our leaders, our loved ones, and—if we're honest—ourselves, and some of the more perplexing mysteries of human nature begin to seem a little clearer." (Francine Prose, O, The Oprah Magazine)
"By turns entertaining, illuminating and—when you recognize yourself in the stories it tells—mortifying." ( The Wall Street Journal)
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And what challenges you only makes you stronger. My Daughter asked me to read it...She said "you must read this as it so very much sounds like you :D', frankly i was not amused but decided to read it just to get back at her. I went through the first few chapters thinking..."Hmm, this is so naïve, i don't do that...." but as i heard more of it, i could see a pattern in my decision making.
The book is free flowing in content and clear in diction. Examples are mostly from USA hence context is not broad based, and that's why just 4 stars.

PS : :)) at the end it still did not concede to HER!!

Read it Simply Coz it Challenges your Belief .....

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