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  • Should I Stay or Should I Go?

  • Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
  • Written by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
  • Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
  • Length: 10 hrs and 46 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (12 ratings)

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Written by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
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Publisher's Summary

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?

Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?

Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?

Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?

Are you done with second chances?

Should you stay or should you go?

We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.

©2015 Post Hill Press (P)2015 Post Hill Press

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Extremely insightful and mindful writing.

The author has really been mindful of the facts and communicated the subject from a broad perspective. An eye opener to a struggle that many face and a must-read for everyone who is struggling with the Why of it all. We all are bound to encounter this personality at different points in our lives, and this book equips the reader to understand and deal with these individuals early on the relationship. Special thanks to the Author for taking on this difficult subject and sharing the deep insights.

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Nice guide

Nice book which can guide you to understand and also tell you what to do you if you ever encounter a narcissist partner.

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Extremely helpful !

Throughout the book I kept feeling therapeutic. Helped to set our expectations right. Thank you Dr. Ramani ! :)

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eye opener

It's a book everyone should read, specially every teenager. It will save so much pain.
My heart almost started sinking when this book came to an end. Dr. Ramani's voice is so soothing it feels like a voice is directly entering your soul and when the book ended it triggered the loneliness. so I started reading this book again for 4th time.

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light bulb💡 moments!!!

This book had one too many light bulb moments while listening ..sometimes gave a feel of chills down the spine while listening to consequences of both staying or leaving.. hope this book gives as much clarity to every reader to make their own decision as the author walked us through both lanes one step at a time

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Kind and sensitive

Dr Ramani’s soothing voice and compassionate narration of a topic that is delicate and sensitive is incredible. The material covered in this book is matter of factly and yet very compassionately presented and covers all grounds one can think of.

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