In this episode of ADHDtime on Air, Daniella Karidi, PhD, speaks with Cate Osborn, known online as Catieosaurus, certified sex educator, award-winning podcast host, and author of The ADHD Field Guide for Adults.

The conversation explores the realities of living with ADHD beyond stereotypes and productivity advice. Cate discusses ADHD and intimacy, emotional regulation, rejection sensitivity, late diagnosis, masking, relationships, and the importance of accessible ADHD resources and support.

Cate also shares the behind-the-scenes process of creating an ADHD-friendly book, including the role of collaborative authorship, community participation, accommodations, and transparency in the writing process. Together, Daniella and Cate discuss the emotional impact of ADHD across the lifespan, the importance of strengths-based approaches, and why difficult topics such as self-harm, suicide, and eating disorders need to be openly discussed within ADHD conversations.

⚠️ Content Note:
This episode includes discussions of self-harm, suicide, eating disorders, and mental health struggles.

• ADHD affects relationships, intimacy, emotional regulation, and mental health, not just attention and productivity
• Accessible and ADHD-friendly resources can change how people learn, engage, and feel understood
• Diagnosis and self-understanding can provide validation and open doors to support at any age
• Building systems around strengths, accommodations, and compassion is often more effective than relying on shame or “trying harder”

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to ADHD and Community Engagement

02:05 The Writing Process Behind the ADHD Field Guide

04:08 Navigating Support Systems for ADHD

06:59 Community Contributions and Diverse Experiences

09:46 Intimacy, Sex, and ADHD

12:15 The Importance of Understanding ADHD

15:05 The Value of Diagnosis and Validation

17:41 Self-Diagnosis and Accessing Support

20:38 Creating Accessible ADHD Literature

22:59 Pride in Authorship and Community Impact

24:58 Historical Perspectives on ADHD

26:00 Creating Jumping Off Points for Learning

27:20 Navigating Conversations About Intimacy and ADHD

29:03 Understanding ADHD's Impact on Relationships

32:20 Addressing Difficult Topics: Sex, Addiction, and Mental Health

37:08 The Importance of Discussing Eating Disorders and ADHD

44:22 Reflections on Personal Growth and Future Aspirations

If you or someone you know needs support:
📞 Call or text 988 in the United States and Canada
💬 Chat: https://988lifeline.org/chat
🌍 International crisis resources: https://findahelpline.com

Guest:
Cate Osborn / @catieosaurus
Website: www.catieosaurus.com

Daniella Karidi @ADHDtime

www.ADHDtime.com

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What does reading look like when you have both ADHD and dyslexia? In this personal episode of ADHD Time on Air, Daniella Karidi, PhD, ADHD coach and memory researcher, shares her personal experience living with both ADHD and dyslexia. Daniella discusses the realities of reading with a learning disability, how she used audiobooks and structured systems to read 122 books in one year, and why reducing cognitive load matters so much for neurodivergent brains.

The conversation explores executive function, self-regulation, organization, memory, and the emotional impact of growing up with undiagnosed ADHD and dyslexia. Daniella also addresses common misconceptions about ADHD, including myths about over diagnosis, and explains why understanding your brain can be life changing at any age.

Whether you are an adult with ADHD, a parent, educator, clinician, or someone navigating dyslexia and reading challenges, this episode offers practical strategies, evidence-informed insights, and encouragement.

• Living with ADHD and dyslexia
• Reading strategies and audiobooks
• Organization, memory, and color coding
• ADHD myths and diagnosis misconceptions
• Building sustainable reading habits
• Self-acceptance and neurodivergent strengths

00:00 – Introduction and episode overview
00:10 – Daniella’s background: ADHD, dyslexia, and reading habits
01:13 – What dyslexia is and how language structures affect reading
02:32 – Using audiobooks and listening to support comprehension
03:48 – Managing reading goals with ADHD and dyslexia
04:33 – Focus, multitasking, and cognitive load
05:01 – Note-taking, highlighting, and learning strategies
05:48 – Tracking reading progress and reading goals
06:40 – Organizing bookshelves and life with color coding
09:10 – Misconceptions about ADHD and diagnosis
10:24 – Overdiagnosis myths and underdiagnosis realities
11:11 – Why diagnosis matters beyond labels
12:27 – Advice to younger and future self
13:26 – Mantras, self-talk, and self-acceptance with ADHD
14:33 – Closing thoughts, reading recommendations, and community

• CHADD – Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
• Learning Disabilities Association of America (LDA)
• ADHDtime Website
• ADHD Time on Air YouTube Channel
• Focus on ADHD Book Club

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Why does planning feel so difficult with ADHD, even when you are trying your hardest?

In this episode of ADHDtime On Air, Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright join Daniella Karidi to discuss ADHD planning, time blindness, productivity, workflow systems, task management, and building ADHD-friendly routines that actually work.

Drawing from their book Unapologetically ADHD, Nikki and Pete share practical strategies for reducing overwhelm, creating flexible systems, and developing a healthier relationship with time without shame or perfectionism.

This conversation explores:
• ADHD planning and time blindness
• Why traditional planning systems often fail ADHD brains
• Productivity without shame
• ADHD workflow systems and task management
• Building routines that are flexible and sustainable
• Prospective memory and follow-through
• Friction in ADHD systems
• Emotional overwhelm and unrealistic expectations
• Why ADHDers often overestimate what they can do in a day

The episode also dives into practical tools including calendars, task managers, visual reminders, scaffolding systems, and strategies for maintaining systems after the novelty wears off.

⏱ Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to the Book and Podcast
• 05:44 Audience and Purpose of the Book
• 11:56 Overcoming Planning Challenges
• 20:42 Flexibility in Time Management
• 27:03 Workflow and Tool Selection
• 39:05 Advice to Young Self and Future Self
• 41:19 Upcoming Projects and Resources

📘 Book Mentioned
Unapologetically ADHD

📌 About Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright
Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright are the hosts of the long-running podcast Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast. Together, they focus on ADHD planning, productivity, emotional wellbeing, and creating systems that work with ADHD instead of against it.

📌 Learn More
Taking Control ADHD Podcast
Pete Wright Website

📌 Connect with Daniella Karidi
ADHDtime Website
Instagram @adhdtime
Focus on ADHD Book Club

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Today I’m joined by Caroline Maguire, ADHD coach, author, and host of The ADHD Social Playbook podcast, to talk about her new book Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Adults.

In this conversation, we explore why friendship can feel so complicated for neurodivergent adults and why social connection is often treated like something people should “just know” how to do. Caroline shares practical insights about building friendships, navigating social anxiety, understanding social cues, and balancing authenticity with masking.

We also discuss the difference between practice friendships and deeper relationships, the fear of reaching out, and why friendship is not a personality trait but a skill that can be learned and strengthened over time.

Whether you have ADHD, identify as neurodivergent, or have ever felt unsure about where you fit socially, this conversation offers thoughtful, compassionate, and practical strategies for creating more meaningful connections.

Takeaways

• Friendship is a skill that can be developed
• Neurodivergent adults often need explicit social strategies
• Authenticity and masking are different experiences
• Reading the room is a learnable skill
• Building friendships requires practice and vulnerability

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to the Book and Author
• 08:02 Understanding Social Cues and Reading the Room
• 15:29 Transitioning from Practice to Leveled Up Friendship
• 22:40 Advice to Younger Self and Future Self
• 28:51 Key Takeaway: Friendship is a Skill

Instagram: @authorcarolinecm
LinkedIn: Caroline Maguire on LinkedIn
YouTube: Caroline Maguire YouTube Channel

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Instagram: @ADHDtime
https://www.adhdtime.com/

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In this conversation, Tamara Rosier, PhD shares insights from her books Your Brain Is Not Broken and You, Me, and Our ADHD Family, focusing on how ADHD shapes family dynamics, emotional experiences, and relationships.

We explore the role of self-awareness and self-compassion in managing ADHD, along with practical strategies for navigating emotional overwhelm, memory challenges, and day-to-day family life. Tamara also reflects on her personal journey, the impact of her work on her own family, and what she is currently working on next.

Tamara Rosier, PhD is an educator, author, and founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan. With her extensive experience in ADHD coaching and support, she provides valuable insights into managing ADHD in family settings. Her work emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding, not just for those with ADHD, but also for their families.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:48 Navigating Grandparenthood with ADHD

04:28 Compassion Over Shame

07:03 Transformational Thinking vs. Survival Mindset

08:47 Family Dynamics and Emotional Pools

13:16 The Impact of Books on Personal Growth

17:44 Reflections on Family and Writing

22:52 Navigating Childhood Challenges

25:14 Shifting from Shame to Problem Solving

34:47 Understanding Memory Challenges in ADHD

39:27 Messages to My Past and Future Self

42:00 Upcoming Projects and Resources

Tamara Rosier's Website - https://www.tararosier.com

ADHD Center of West Michigan - https://www.msmigueliadhd.com

Connect with Daniella Karidi, PhD
https://www.instagram.com/adhdtime/
https://www.adhdtime.com/
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Buy the books:

Your Brain Is Not Broken

You, Me, and Our ADHD Family

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In this episode, Daniella Karidi interviews Meredith Carder about her book It All Makes Sense Now. They explore the lived experience of ADHD and what it actually takes to write a book when motivation is inconsistent.

Meredith shares how external deadlines, working with a traditional publisher, and thinking in “seasons” instead of long timelines helped her complete the manuscript. The conversation also dives into parenting with ADHD, creating visual and flexible routines, and the role of compassion and reflection in long-term change.

They also discuss how to balance personal stories with science, why ADHD-friendly strategies need to be practical and adaptable, and what is coming next in Meredith’s work, including her upcoming book on ADHD and motherhood.

• Meredith Carder wrote It All Makes Sense Now to reflect the real, lived experience of ADHD
• External deadlines can provide the urgency needed to complete large projects
• Breaking goals into shorter “seasons” can reduce overwhelm and prevent burnout
• Visual systems and routines support follow-through and reduce reliance on memory
• Compassion and reflection are essential for sustainable change
• Flexibility in routines is especially important in families and with teenagers
• ADHD strategies work best when they are personalized and adaptable

00:00 Introduction to Meredith and It All Makes Sense Now
02:22 Writing with ADHD: motivation and deadlines
04:37 The seasonal approach to goal-setting
06:40 Balancing science and personal stories
08:23 Compassion and understanding past self
10:22 Visual strategies and daily routines
13:42 “Bookend” strategies for structure
15:51 Flexibility in routines and parenting
16:39 Upcoming book on ADHD and motherhood
17:26 Closing reflections

Book: It All Makes Sense Now

Connect with Meredith Carder

https://meredithcarder.com/

@Hummingbird_ADHD

Connect with Daniella Karidi

@ADHDtime

www.ADHDtime.com

Focus on ADHD Book Club

In this episode, Daniella Karidi interviews Jesse J Anderson about his book 'Extra Focus: The Quick Start Guide to Adult ADHD'. He shares his experience of writing and self-publishing the book. He also delves into the challenges of ADHD, memory struggles, and the importance of awareness and understanding of one's brain. The conversation covers topics such as productivity advice, strategies for managing ADHD, the concept of radical acceptance, the creation of a smile file, and the impact of shame on individuals with ADHD. Additionally, the discussion delves into the development of the WavePal app and the potential for future book projects.

Takeaways

• Jesse J Anderson wrote 'Extra Focus' after being diagnosed with ADHD as an adult.
• Writing a book is more challenging than anticipated, especially for those with ADHD.
• Accountability and deadlines are crucial for completing projects.
• Understanding the audience is key; Jesse wrote for his younger self.
• Prospective memory is a significant challenge for those with ADHD.
• Radical acceptance is essential for managing ADHD-related challenges.
• Radical acceptance and the creation of a smile file can help individuals with ADHD manage their challenges and celebrate their successes.
• Shame is a significant aspect of the ADHD experience and may require unlearning and unpacking for individuals to thrive.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to ADHD and the Author's Journey
• 01:48 The Writing Process: Challenges and Strategies
• 06:58 Self-Publishing Insights and Accountability Techniques
• 10:17 Understanding the Audience: Writing for Oneself
• 12:41 Exploring Memory: Prospective Memory and ADHD
• 16:30 Radical Acceptance and Productivity Strategies
• 18:18 Balancing Challenges and Solutions in ADHD Literature
• 20:11 The Impact of the Book: Reader Feedback and Connection
• 26:43 Future Projects: WavePal and Second Book Ideas

Connect with Jesse J. Anderson:

@adhdjesse

Extra Focus extrafocus.com

Extra Focus Book extrafocusbook.com

ADHDJesse.com

adhdjesse.com

Connect with Daniella karidi:

• LinkedIn
• Book Club
• ADHDtime Website

#ADHDDtimeonair #ADHD # ExtraFocus #publishing

Welcome to ADHD Time On Air! Today, the conversation delves into the complexities of social executive functioning, thriving socially, shame-busting strategies, building better relationships, neuroplasticity, nervous system regulation, polyvagal theory . Dr. Shawn Horn and Daniella Karidi, PhD, provide valuable insights and personal experiences related to these topics, offering a comprehensive exploration of ADHD and social struggles.

Takeaways

• Understanding the impact of shame on social functioning
• Exploring the role of neuroplasticity in nervous system regulation

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Social Executive Functioning
• 05:32 Shame Busting Strategies
• 11:01 Neuroplasticity and Nervous System Regulation
• 16:18 Polyvagal Theory and Nervous System Functioning
• 23:03 Challenges of Being in the Green Light
• 28:47 Understanding Memory Blinks

Book Thrive Socially with Adult ADHD https://amzn.to/41ppjkc

## About Dr. Shawn Horn: She is a licensed clinical psychologist based in Spokane, Washington, with extensive experience in working with individuals facing ADHD and emotional regulation challenges. As the author of Thrive Socially with Adult ADHD, Dr. Horn emphasizes the importance of understanding our emotional responses and developing effective strategies to navigate social contexts.

Dr. Shawn Horn

Website: www.drshawnhorn.com

IG: www.instagram.com/drshawnhorn

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/drshawnhorn

TIKTOK: @drshawnhorn https://www.tiktok.com/@drshawnhorn?lang=en

Daniella karidi www.ADHDtime.com @adhdtime

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