Zeeger has been working a lot lately, taking up many new responsibilities, and notices that he finds it challenging to give into his tiredness and take some well-needed rest. The question of today’s episode therefore is: “If I’m tired, can I let go of being productive?”

We go into the consistent loop of being busy, including the feeling that you should be doing more, Zeeger’s addiction to creating things all the time and - it goes without saying ;-) - the fear underneath it.

Also, we look at how the more this “I need to be productive” energy is playing, the harder it is to surrender, why not being in a creative state may feel like you’re “wasting your time” and the openness that surrendering into the present moment creates.

We wrap up with the insight that taking action from a place of “not being good enough” always leads to fear-based choice, and the question: “what choices would you make if you are always good enough - loved, held and supported?” 

We kick off the first episode of our newest season (yeah!) with the most actual topic in the world right now: Covid. And more specifically: the divide it creates.

Zeeger is experiencing a pain around Covid causing even more polarization amongst humanity, stemming from his discord around it with Fleur (and a deeper fear of being disconnected with others). We talk about the effect of her burn-out on the way Fleur views life, how right now, many individual truths co-exist and cause tension between us, and the actual necessity of this divide to create the new system we need.

Also, we go into the rise of the feminine energy in our collective awakening - bridging the divide, the 1% needed to shift the consciousness of an entire collective and the importance of open dialogue in bridging our individual truths.

Lastly, we talk about why looking at our own internal pains in order to start a loving, constructive conversation is key, and how we can only meet the other as far as we’ve met ourselves.

Yes! The final episode of season 1 is here. And - it’s probably very relatable! Ever triggered your “significant other” while stating your own boundaries? That’s what this episode is all about. Zeeger and Fleur explore a trigger that came up after Zeeger communicated his needs. The question we therefore look at is: “how to set loving boundaries in your relationships?”

We go into the days preceding the phone call in which the trigger came up, the feeling of rejection that was triggered in Fleur, how she dealt with it, and Zeeger’s underlying fear of disconnection when he communicates his needs.

Also, we go into the common co-dependency “pact” in relationships, where one or both persons sacrifice their needs to meet the needs of the other, how built-up pressure is a result of not stating your needs early enough, and how the energy behind your words actually determines your message - and not the words themselves.

We wrap up with the insight that we’re not doing anyone (nor our relationship) a favor if we disconnect from our own needs. In fact, we add most to people’s lives when we honor our own truths first.