Dayan Hool addresses the realities and dilemmas around school admissions today. What can a school reasonably expect from parents? What responsibility does it have to children left without a place? How should families balance what’s right for their child with communal norms, donor influence or social pressure? And when is opening a new school actually the correct solution?

A clear, grounded look at an issue that affects almost every frum family.

Timestamps

[0:00:00] - Podcast Introduction: "Asking for a Friend" Episode 2

[0:00:30] - Dayan Biography: Dayan Hool

[0:01:30] - Topic Overview: School Admissions

[0:02:30] - Halachic Framework for School Admission Policies

[0:12:39] - Parental Behavior and School Admission Criteria

[0:36:54] - Handling Children Without School Places

[0:48:21] - Discussion on Opening New Schools

[0:55:36] - Parents' Strategies for School Admission

In the first episode of Asking for a Friend, Mena Reisner sits down with Rabbi Zimmerman to explore the questions shaping today’s Jewish childhood. Why are so many more children anxious? Has therapy become too normalised? Should parents be concerned about the sheer amount of instant frum entertainment? What should we make of teenagers constantly travelling abroad? And how does a parent respond when a child says, “But everyone in my class has it”? A wide-ranging and honest conversation that opens the series by giving voice to the dilemmas parents think about all the time but rarely discuss openly.

Chapters:

[0:00:00] Introduction to Podcast and Purpose

[0:02:53] Resilience and Adversity in Modern Childhood

[0:07:21] Emotional Understanding vs. Emotional Determination

[0:09:06] Therapy - Purpose and Pitfalls

[0:10:10] Labels and Diagnoses in Modern Education

[0:15:31] Spoiled Generations and Parental Influence

[0:19:36] Responding to Religious or Educational Drift

[0:24:27] Navigating Teenage Trips and Social Pressures

[0:58:41] School Selection and Expectations

[1:05:36] Defining Success Beyond Traditional Paths

[1:12:54] Closing: Back to Basics

[1:14:01] Closing Remarks and Listener Invitation

Asking For A Friend is a new podcast from Kehillas Federation, exploring the real questions that come up in everyday life, in halacha, hashkafa, chinuch, relationships, community, and everything in between.

Hosted by Mena Reisner, each episode features one of the Federation’s senior Dayonim, Rabbi S. F. Zimmerman, Dayan Posen, or Dayan Hool, offering grounded Torah perspective drawn from years of guiding families and communities.

This trailer offers a first look at the conversations to come.

New episodes every two weeks.

Please email podcast@federation.org.uk with your questions & feedback...