What really drives conflict, silence, burnout, and sudden resignations at work?

In this powerful conversation, Benjamin Fry unpacks the story of the nervous system and why so many workplace reactions have nothing to do with performance, capability, or attitude—and everything to do with unfinished threat responses stored in the body.

Drawing on ideas from his book The Invisible Lion, Benjamin explains why humans overreact, underreact, freeze, fawn, or suddenly flee workplaces they once loved.

Together, we explore:

• Why workplaces amplify nervous system dysregulation—especially where hierarchy exists
• The difference between shutdown vs containment, and why “appropriate reactions” build trust
• How boundaries are not about controlling others—but about caring for your own nervous system
• Why psychological safety isn’t about being “nice,” but about feeling safe enough to stay regulated
• How leaders can spot dysregulation in real time—and slow moments down before they escalate
• Why listening is often more regulating than anything you can say
• Benjamin also explains the origin of the Invisible Lion metaphor—why behaviour only makes sense when we understand the unseen context behind it—and how workplaces can stop leaving people alone with their lions.

This episode is essential listening for leaders, HR, OD practitioners, and anyone who wants to build cultures where people don’t just perform—but feel safe enough to stay, speak, and be themselves.

🌐 Website: https://benjaminfry.co.uk/

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjamin-fry

📘 The Invisible Lion (book): https://www.amazon.com/dp/1910919246

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In this episode of the Authentic Ewe Podcast, I sit down with Dave Snowden, founder of The Cynefin Company. Dave challenges the mainstream view of psychological safety, framing it not as comfort but as a signal system that reveals risks, patterns, and trust gaps in complex organisations.

We explore how leaders can use Cynefin, SenseMaker®, safe-to-fail experiments, and trios to navigate uncertainty and create authentic workplaces where people can thrive.

Links: Cynefin resources | Cynefin framework | SenseMaker® subscription | Premium Membership | Dave Snowden on LinkedIn

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In this episode of The Authentic Ewe Podcast, I sit down with Debbie Nicol — one of the world’s most recognised experts in The Leadership Challenge.

Deb shares a powerful truth most leaders forget:

We explore:

• What separates “doing leadership” from being a leader

• Why credibility and consistency matter more than tactics

• How the Five Practices of Exemplary Leadership work in real life

• The link between DISC behaviour and leadership effectiveness

• Why executive presence is misunderstood — and how Deb reframes it through Presence Pro

• How disconnection shows up in workplaces, and what real leaders do differently

• The behavioural shifts that turn managers into trusted, influential leaders

This conversation is grounded, practical and deeply human — a must-listen for leaders who want their influence to actually land.

Presence Pro – Executive Presence Self-Assessment (Free)

https://presencepro.ai/

The Leadership Challenge – Kouzes & Posner

https://www.leadershipchallenge.com

Debie Nicol on LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/debbienicol/

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When high-performing women lose themselves inside emotionally unsafe environments, the body often speaks long before the mind catches up. In this raw and deeply human conversation, Pettina Shangdon shares the untold truth about nervous system breakdown, identity collapse, and the long road back to coherence, clarity, and self-trust.

This episode will resonate with anyone who has ever felt “not themselves” at work or in relationship dynamics that slowly erode safety. Pettina’s story blends lived experience with a grounded, trauma-informed perspective that echoes the teachings of Dr Jill Bolte Taylor and Viktor Frankl — reminding us that healing is not about perfection, but about reconnecting to the self we abandoned along the way.

Together, we explore:

– What nervous system overwhelm actually feels like

– How high achievers ignore early warning signs

– The moment Pettina realised she no longer recognised herself

– Emotional manipulation, dissociation & “freezing” under pressure

– The slow, compassionate process of rebuilding identity

– Why coherence and authenticity matter more than resilience

– How leaders can create emotionally safe environments for humans to thrive

– Choosing truth, connection and meaning — even in complexity

This is a powerful story of rupture, repair and returning home to yoursel

LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/pettinashangdon/

Feature Articles by Pettina:

• The Cost of Losing Yourself

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/cost-losing-yourself-pettina-shangdon/

• When Your Nervous System Takes the Wheel

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/when-your-nervous-system-takes-wheel-pettina-shangdon/

Dr Jill Bolte Taylor – Whole Brain Living (WBL)

Official Website: https://www.drjillboltetaylor.com/

TED Talk – My Stroke of Insight: https://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_my_stroke_of_insight

Whole Brain Living Framework: https://www.drjillboltetaylor.com/whole-brain-living

Viktor Frankl

Man’s Search for Meaning (Book):

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Meaning

Logotherapy Overview:

https://www.viktorfrankl.org/

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Dr. Mark Scullard joins Penelope to reveal how insecurities and core needs drive all our workplace behaviors—and why true empowerment is personal, not one-size-fits-all.

Discover:

• How misguided “empowerment” can cause real damage (and how to do it right)
• The secret ways core insecurities shape feedback, leadership, and team culture
• Why the DISC model isn’t perfect, but is THE practical map for understanding workplace differences
• Real stories and actionable advice using the leading-edge Catalyst platform and Work Smart modules

Whether you’re a leader, HR pro, or just ready to work smarter, this remastered episode delivers the tools and mindset you need for genuine impact—today.

Key Takeaways:

• Empowerment looks different for everyone. Without understanding personal needs, even well-meant leadership can backfire.
• Our insecurities and core drives are always at play. Leadership is about understanding and channeling them positively.
• DISC is an actionable model—use it as a map, not a box—to decode what makes each teammate unique.
• Features Wiley’s Catalyst platform & Work Smart modules—making these insights truly usable in the flow of work.

Useful Links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-scullard-25314b8/

https://www.everythingdisc.com/learning-that-lasts/

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What if leadership was less about control and more about connection?

In this heartfelt conversation, Andy Johnson joins Penelope to share what decades in the fire brigade, sport, and corporate life have taught him about leading through trust, courage, and genuine human connection.

Connect with Andy Johnson on LinkedIn

Explore Agile EQ®: https://www.authenticewe.com/agile-eq

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Penelope Aiken is a recognised leader in organisational development, with more than 20 years of experience in leadership development and culture transformation. She is the founder of Authentic Ewe, where she helps organisations embed evidence-based frameworks such as Everything DiSC®, The Five Behaviors®, and The Leadership Challenge®.

Penelope is also an ICF Accredited Coach and High-Performance Facilitator, bringing a unique blend of coaching expertise and facilitation to her work with leaders and teams.

Her passion is simple but powerful: helping organisations create places people love to work — where people feel safe, deeply connected, and able to show up as their authentic selves so they can truly thrive.

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