In this episode of the Believing and Achieving podcast, I share my own journey of learning through adversity and how my perspective on decision-making has evolved over time. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that there are no “wrong” choices when you’re genuinely trying to grow. Every decision gives you information, and that information helps you make better choices moving forward.

I talk about how self-judgment and shame can quietly hold us back, especially when we’re afraid to make mistakes or take risks. Some of the moments I once labeled as failures ended up being turning points that shaped who I am today. Growth often comes from the experiences that challenge us the most.

I close the episode with practical ways to reframe mistakes and setbacks, so you can stop seeing them as proof you’re failing and start seeing them as opportunities to learn, adjust, and keep moving forward.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing Adversity: Lessons Learned

02:46 The Power of Decision-Making

04:28 Overcoming Self-Judgment and Shame

07:05 Turning Points: From Failure to Growth

09:31 Practical Applications for Personal Development

In this episode, I sit down with my mom, Tracee, to talk about how she built a multiple six-figure career—and what she wishes she had known in her 20s. We unpack the pressure young women feel to “have it all figured out,” how career paths actually evolve over time, and the role education, mentorship, and self-trust played in her success. Tracee shares hard-earned lessons on balance, managing anxiety, setting priorities, and why long-term fulfillment comes from continuous growth rather than rushing the process.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

02:18 Finding Your Passion

05:15 The Importance of Education and Career Choices

07:51 Balancing Career and Personal Life

10:27 Navigating Pressures as a Young Woman

12:55 Building Credibility and Success in Your Career

15:33 Continuous Learning and Innovation

18:03 Managing Anxiety and Setting Priorities

20:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, I talk about the importance of defining success for yourself and how that definition can change over time. I share why self-reflection matters, how societal expectations can quietly shape our goals, and why chasing someone else’s version of success often leads to confusion or burnout. I also discuss how aligning your goals with your true values and desires brings clarity and direction, and how faith has played a role in helping me live with more purpose and authenticity.

Chapters

00:00 Defining Personal Success

04:56 The Role of Self-Reflection in Success

08:53 Aligning with Personal Values and Purpose