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Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

Written by: Tania Leichliter
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 Is your divorce filling you with fear? Fear of the unknown, of financial stability, of loneliness, of how this will impact your children? Divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, leaving you stuck in resentment. But what if you could take off the fighting gloves and commit to an amicable path forward? Welcome to Better Than Bitter™, the podcast that champions amicable divorce. Hosted by Divorce Success Coach Tania Leichliter—creator of the 5 Step Gameplan Course—this podcast empowers you to embrace an "I CAN" attitude for a brighter future. Through powerful interviews with adult children of amicable divorces, bonus parents finding connection in blended families, and divorced individuals who share their success in choosing an amicable path, you’ll leave each episode feeling, “I've Got This!” Alongside these inspiring stories, bonus episodes cover key topics like mindset management, understanding the divorce process, grief, fear, and practical tools for moving forward. Better Than Bitter™ offers the insights and strategies you need to process your emotional divorce and prepare for alternative dispute resolution—to save on legal fees, protect your children from emotional fallout, and build a fulfilling life beyond bitterness. Tune in each week! It’s time to take control of your divorce and reclaim your future by divorcing amicably.T Will Coaching LLC Hygiene & Healthy Living Parenting Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • Season 2: Episode 2 - Can I Or Should I Date Before the Ink Is Dry?

    Season 2: Episode 2 - Can I Or Should I Date Before the Ink Is Dry?
    Mar 20 2026
    1. Are you considering dating before your divorce is finalized? This episode dives into essential legal, emotional, and parenting considerations to help you navigate this tricky territory responsibly and with clarity. Key Topics:The legal ramifications of dating during divorce, including asset dissipation, alimony, and custody implications
    2. The importance of understanding your personal motivations ("the raw truth of your why") for wanting to start dating early
    3. Practical advice on how to date discreetly, avoid legal pitfalls, and protect your children’s emotional well-being
    4. The significance of knowing your state laws regarding adultery and how they may impact property and support
    5. How to approach new relationships with full transparency, without trauma bonding or rushing into intimacy
    6. The child-centered approach: safeguarding your children’s stability, avoiding their perception of favoritism, and respecting their emotional process

    Timestamps: 00:00 - Why dating before divorce is final can be risky 00:21 - Introduction to season two and episode overview 01:07 - Why consider dating during divorce? Common reasons and emotional drivers 02:07 - How dating can complicate legal and financial matters 03:02 - The risks of spending marital assets on a new relationship 03:50 - Effects of cohabitation on alimony and custody 04:20 - Impact of introducing new partners on child custody and stability 05:16 - Legal considerations around adultery and fault states 06:12 - The importance of understanding your true motivations for dating 07:07 - Personal reasons for early dating and potential emotional benefits 08:07 - How to date smartly: financial boundaries and social discretion 09:00 - The importance of legal awareness and consulting professionals 10:05 - Strategies for transparent communication and avoiding trauma bonds 11:12 - Recognizing the infatuation phase and its distinction from real love 12:28 - Buffering pain with new relationships while focusing on healing 13:04 - Protecting your children: the child-centered approach 14:12 - How children perceive new partners and the importance of empathy 15:06 - The emotional impact of new partners on children’s perception 16:07 - Practical rules: timing for introducing partners and social media boundaries 17:17 - Continual check-ins with children and maintaining their stability 18:14 - Recap: key takeaways on legal, emotional, and parental considerations 18:43 - Final encouragement: navigating your divorce journey with clarity and care

    Resources & Links: Better Than Bitter Podcast – Join live coaching sessions

    1. Child-Centered Method – Protecting children’s emotional well-being
    2. Apply to get FREE COACHING by being a guest on our podcast to be coached LIVE, schedule your free consult here: www.betterthanbitter.coach/application
    3. Join our Better Than Bitter community for $1 a Month!

    Remember: Your journey through divorce is unique. Educate yourself, set clear boundaries, and always prioritize your children's well-being to move forward with confidence and peace.
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    21 mins
  • Season 2: Episode 1 - Learn About New Format, Live Coaching, & Our Community

    Season 2: Episode 1 - Learn About New Format, Live Coaching, & Our Community
    Mar 18 2026

    Discover the exciting new features of the second season of the Better Than Bitter podcast, including live coaching sessions, an active support community, and expert guidance for those navigating divorce.

    Main topics:
    1. Launch of live coaching sessions on the podcast
    2. How listeners can apply to be coached and share their stories
    3. Creation of the Better Than Bitter Community for ongoing support
    4. Resources, virtual events, and expert Q&A sections
    5. Emphasis on hope, healing, and positive forward movement after divorce

    In this episode:
    1. Introduction to live coaching opportunities and how to apply
    2. Overview of the new Better Than Bitter Community and its purpose
    3. Details on community features such as support circles, resource library, and live groups
    4. Membership options and the importance of small, intentional investments
    5. How the community aims to foster hope, courage, and amicable divorce journeys

    Timestamps:

    00:00 - Welcome to season two and the new focus on live coaching

    00:28 - How to apply for live coaching sessions on the podcast

    00:56 - Introducing the Better Than Bitter Community and its purpose

    01:23 - Community features: support circles, resources, and events

    02:15 - Membership options and community goals for hope and healing

    02:45 - Joining instructions and URL overview

    03:14 - Closing remarks and encouraging ongoing support

    Resources & Links:
    1. Apply for Live Coaching
    2. Better Than Bitter Community
    3. Better Than Bitter Website

    Connect with Tanya Leichliter:
    1. Website
    2. Instagram
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    3 mins
  • Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist — Here’s How to Tell

    Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist — Here’s How to Tell
    Feb 26 2026
    Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist, Here’s How to TellGuest: Jeff WrightJeff Wright is a performance coach, speaker, and someone I’m grateful to call a friend and mentor. He runs a global insurance firm and has built tremendous success professionally — but what really defines Jeff is his commitment to helping people change their lives. He’s the ultimate change-maker, and he genuinely does this work because it matters to him. His perspective on narcissism isn’t just professional — it’s personal. Jeff grew up with a father who struggled with alcoholism and narcissistic behavior, so he understands these dynamics firsthand. Through his coaching and his Instagram platform, @therealjeffwright, he breaks down narcissistic traits, high-conflict behavior, and the difference between patterns and personality disorders with clarity and depth. I’m excited for you to hear this conversation.Website: Jeff's WebsiteConnect with Jeff Wright Here:@therealjeffwright on InstagramJeff on YouTubeSPECIAL OFFER:For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026Click here to JOINSummaryIn this episode, Jeff and Tania explore narcissistic traits, their impact on relationships, especially during divorce, and practical strategies for managing interactions with narcissists. They discuss passive-aggressive behaviors, active listening, and maintaining emotional control to protect oneself.Keywordsnarcissism, relationships, divorce, passive-aggressive, emotional intelligence, communication strategies, narcissistic traits, conflict resolution, co-parenting, emotional controlKey TopicsNarcissistic traits and behaviorsImpact of narcissism on relationships and divorceStrategies for effective communication and emotional controlTakeawaysMost people have some narcissistic traits, but only a small percentage have narcissistic personality disorder.Passive-aggressive behavior often overlaps with narcissistic traits and can be used to manipulate or criticize subtly.Active listening and staying neutral, brief, and factual can disarm narcissistic attacks and reduce conflict.Controlling your emotional reactions is crucial; emotional reactions feed narcissistic behavior.Consistently applying the same communication strategies is necessary to prevent narcissists from reverting to old behaviors.Avoiding conflict and not speaking badly about your ex to children helps protect their emotional well-being.Modeling healthy behavior and maintaining high-road communication influences children positively.TitlesUnderstanding Narcissistic Traits in Divorce: Practical StrategiesHow to Manage Narcissistic Behaviors During Co-ParentingSound Bites"Everybody has a little bit of narcissism in them.""Model healthy behavior to influence children positively.""Avoid avoiding conflict; it only makes problems worse."Chapters00:00 Understanding Narcissism in Today's Society02:39 Traits of Narcissistic Behavior04:45 Identifying Narcissistic Responses07:44 The Importance of Active Listening10:29 Managing Emotions in Conversations13:33 Effective Communication Strategies16:08 Conflict Avoidance vs. Conflict Efficiency22:31 The Burden of Unspoken Words24:38 Choosing Your Battles in Relationships27:06 The Ripple Effect of Family Dynamics31:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Behaviors31:57 The Role of Parents in Shaping Narcissism32:56 Navigating Co-Parenting with a Narcissist34:49 The Importance of Taking the High Road36:01 Modeling Behavior for Future Generations44:15 Introduction to Amicable Divorce45:37 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!
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    46 mins
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