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Boundaries & Beyond

Boundaries & Beyond

Written by: Ricardo & Jennifer Pocurull
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 Welcome to 'Boundaries & Beyond’ podcast, your beacon of wisdom in the often foggy realm of relationships. Through each 1hr episode, Jennifer & Dr. P will help you navigate relational communication while focusing on the pivotal role of boundaries. The topics range from couples to seasoned partnerships, families, friendships, coworkers and beyond to Psychology and Science. Let Boundaries & Beyond serve as you new life-compass and dive in for a revelation on how boundaries can redefine your overall health.© 2026 Boundaries & Beyond Ricardo & Jennifer Pocurull Relationships Social Sciences Spirituality
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  • Marriage, Inc, Part 2. Money Scripts and financial behaviors

    Marriage, Inc, Part 2. Money Scripts and financial behaviors
    Sep 5 2025
    Keywords financial conflicts, money scripts, childhood experiences, compulsive behaviors, financial dependency, enabling behaviors, healthy financial practices, teaching finances to children Summary This conversation delves into the complexities of financial conflicts in relationships, exploring how childhood experiences shape money behaviors and the various money scripts individuals carry into adulthood. The speakers discuss the impact of compulsive behaviors, financial dependency, and enabling behaviors on relationships, while also emphasizing the importance of healthy financial practices. They provide insights on teaching financial responsibility to children and the significance of understanding one's own money scripts to foster better financial communication and harmony in relationships. Takeaways Understanding financial conflicts often stems from childhood experiences. Money scripts are learned behaviors regarding finances from parents. Compulsive spending can be a coping mechanism for emotional pain. Financial dependency can create anxiety and resentment in relationships. Healthy financial practices are essential for emotional well-being. Teaching children about money should start at a young age. Mistakes in financial management are more manageable when children are young. Open communication about finances is crucial in relationships. Couples should hold each other accountable for financial decisions. Seeking professional help can be beneficial for financial conflicts. Titles Navigating Financial Conflicts in Relationships The Origins of Money Scripts Sound bites "Hoarding is often trauma-based." "Mistakes cost less when they're little." "Teaching kids about money starts early." Chapters 00:00 Understanding Financial Conflicts in Relationships 02:06 The Roots of Money Scripts 02:06 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Money Behavior 22:56 Exploring Money Scripts: Avoidance, Worship, Status, and Vigilance 28:12 Compulsive Behaviors and Their Effects on Relationships 43:38 Financial Dependency and Enabling Behaviors 51:21 Healthy Financial Practices for Couples 01:00:51 Teaching Financial Responsibility to Children 01:10:37 riverside_video_outro_darktriad2.mp4
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Marriage Inc.: Building Financial Unity in Marriage

    Marriage Inc.: Building Financial Unity in Marriage
    Aug 15 2025
    Summary This conversation delves into the complexities of financial discussions within relationships, emphasizing the importance of financial literacy, communication, and shared values. The speakers explore how generational financial scripts influence current financial behaviors and the necessity of creating a financial agreement to navigate these discussions effectively. They also highlight the significance of budgeting, saving, and investing, while addressing emotional triggers related to money. The conversation concludes with practical strategies for couples to manage their finances collaboratively and seek help when needed. Keywords financial literacy, couples finance, money conversations, budgeting, financial agreements, relationship advice, financial security, emotional triggers, investing, debt management Takeaways Money issues often stem from trust and understanding. Financial literacy in the U.S. is alarmingly low. Couples should have a financial agreement before marriage. Communication about finances is crucial for relationship health. Creating a budget helps manage financial stress. Insurance is essential for protecting wealth. Debt management strategies can alleviate financial anxiety. Regular financial dates can improve communication. Understanding generational financial scripts is important. Investing early can lead to long-term financial security.
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • What is Gaslight -ing

    What is Gaslight -ing
    Jul 1 2025
    In this conversation, wet explore the concept of gaslighting, particularly through the lens of the classic films 'Gaslight' (1940 and 1944). They discuss the psychological manipulation involved in gaslighting, linking it to the dark triad of personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. The conversation delves into the dynamics of abusive relationships, the cycle of idealization and devaluation, and the importance of healthy boundaries. Through film analysis, they highlight the subtle yet powerful ways in which manipulation can occur, ultimately emphasizing the need for awareness and understanding in recognizing and addressing such behaviors. Keywords gaslighting, dark triad, narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, psychological manipulation, relationships, emotional abuse, film analysis, mental health Takeaways Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation. The dark triad includes narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Narcissists often devalue their partners over time. Machiavellianism involves long-term manipulation and scheming. Psychopaths can be charming but are ultimately callous. Healthy boundaries are crucial in relationships. Victims of gaslighting may develop Stockholm Syndrome. The cycle of idealization and devaluation keeps victims dependent. Understanding these dynamics can help in recognizing abuse. Film analysis can provide insights into real-life psychological issues.
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    52 mins
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