Not everyone starts with a studio, an iPhone, or confidence.
Some of us start with a blurry Android camera and a lot of self-doubt.

This episode is about pushing through the embarrassment, showing up anyway, and choosing consistency over comfort.

If you’re waiting until you “feel ready,” this is your sign to start now.

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When New Year Resolutions Fail: The Discipline Problem Nobody Talks About

If your resolutions already fell apart… congratulations. You are normal.

This episode is about rebuilding your goals the smart way, and learning how real discipline actually works; the kind that shows up when you don’t feel like it.

Practical strategies to stay focused and finally follow through.

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This is the final podcast episode of 2025, and instead of ending the year with a recap of achievements, I’m doing something quieter and maybe more real?

In this episode, I share 10 small pleasures from my year. Not milestones. Not goals. Just human experiences that brought me joy — from learning how to paint my nails with my non-dominant hand, to discovering music that stayed with me. The tenth pleasure? Recording this episode.

This conversation is for anyone who feels end-of-year pressure to prove something. It’s an invitation to look back with contentment instead of comparison, and to enter 2026 without unnecessary weight.

If you’re ready to close out 2025 gently — this episode is for you.

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A focused breakdown of habits, trends, and mindsets worth leaving behind as we head into 2026.

This episode outlines the most common pitfalls that has slowed me down—professionally, financially, and personally—as example for your own end of year activity. If you want a cleaner, smarter, and more intentional year ahead, this episode will help you set a stronger direction.

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5 habits that must be part of your daily routine in this AI era.

We’re living in the AI era, so how do you stay healthy, relevant, and creative?

In this episode, I break down 5 daily habits you need to stay adaptable, creative, and human.

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Left Behind? Finding Focus on your journey

In this episode, I open up about the tension of feeling left behind by our peers while trying to move forward in life.

We talk about what real focus means: choosing one thing, giving it your all, and shutting out distractions.

Too often we want results without the process, but the process is where growth, clarity, and discipline are built.

If you’ve ever felt the weight of expectations, or found yourself running after outcomes instead of anchoring in the moment, this conversation will hit home.

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Ever found yourself stuck not because you can’t do many things, but because you can — and your brain won’t stop analyzing all the options?

This episode is for multi-passionate dreamers, and the gifted who feel like choosing one thing means losing everything else. I talk about the power of decision-making — not as a trap, but as freedom. I explore how narrowing your focus doesn’t kill your other talents; it just gives them a queue number.

📚 Book Mention: Before, Coup, After
The throne has changed hands, but echoes of the past linger, and ambition simmers beneath the surface. Once-revered figures find themselves cast aside, grappling with loss and the burning desire for what was. Amidst the opulent royal court and the everyday lives of Foodia's diverse inhabitants, multiple contenders emerge, each with their own secret agendas and a determination to seize control.

Behind every shadow, whisper and alliance, betrayal, and long-held grievances, chaos threatens... Will Foodia Survive?

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"I did not realize there was a thing called Saviour Complex"In this raw and honest episode of Bloom with Abasiama, I talk about discovering the Saviour Complex—that feeling that you must show up, fix everyone, and always serve, even when you’re breaking inside.

As a pastor’s daughter, I was raised to give, to show up, to never say no. But somewhere along the line, I might have confused service with identity.

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