Four-time Emmy-nominated actor Michael Kelly, best known as Doug Stamper on House of Cards, joins Bobby Minor on the Chasing Baseball Dreams Podcast for a conversation that goes way beyond Hollywood.

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Michael grew up in Georgia as a diehard Atlanta Braves fan. His dad passed that love of baseball down to him, and now Michael is watching the same thing happen with his own son, Clint, who has entered high school baseball.

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Michael talks about balancing fatherhood with an acting career that can take him around the world for weeks at a time, following his son’s games on GameChanger from hotel rooms overseas, and how hard it is knowing some moments simply can’t be replaced.

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They also get into something every baseball parent deals with: watching your kid struggle.

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Michael shares how he helped Clint through a difficult season at the plate, why failure in baseball reminds him so much of rejection in acting, and what seven years of grinding before his own acting breakthrough taught him about perseverance.

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He also explains the 30-minute no-phone rule before and after games, why he tries to let the baseball experience belong to his son, and the two qualities he sees in successful actors and athletes over and over again: work ethic and respect.

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Plus, Michael talks Dale Murphy, Chipper Jones, Hank Aaron, Jack Ryan, Lioness, throwing out the first pitch at an Atlanta Braves game, and an unforgettable 2021 World Series memory shared with his father, brother and son.

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If you’re raising a young baseball player, there’s a lot in this conversation worth hearing.

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TIMESTAMPS

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00:00 Intro

00:50 Meet Michael Kelly

02:04 How his dad made him a Braves fan

03:49 Becoming a baseball dad

05:35 Dale Murphy, Chipper Jones & Braves memories

06:54 Why Michael never played baseball

08:14 Watching your kid do what he loves

09:53 Being “Clint’s dad” at the ballpark

11:46 House of Cards, Jack Ryan & Lioness

13:04 The baseball movie Michael wanted to make

16:54 Missing his son’s games while filming overseas

19:14 The 30-minute no-phone rule

21:19 Acting rejection and baseball failure

23:18 Watching his son struggle at the plate

27:13 Choosing family over an acting role

30:05 Seven years of rejection before his breakthrough

31:03 Why work ethic and respect matter

35:06 Throwing out the first pitch for the Braves

37:41 His favorite baseball memory

What do college baseball coaches actually look for when recruiting a high school player? And how much do Perfect Game rankings, showcases, travel baseball teams, character, and parents really matter?

Former Philadelphia Phillies catcher and current University of Texas at Arlington assistant coach Cameron Rupp joins Bobby Minor on the Chasing Baseball Dreams Podcast for a conversation every baseball parent with a son who wants to play at the next level needs to hear.

Cameron played at the University of Texas, competed in the 2009 College World Series, was an All-Big 12 selection, and was drafted in the third round of the 2010 MLB Draft before spending five seasons with the Phillies.

In this episode, Cameron explains why he doesn’t care about a player’s Perfect Game ranking, what catches his eye when evaluating recruits, why he wants to see players fail, and why character matters to college coaches.

They also dig into college baseball recruiting, JUCO baseball, the transfer portal, showcases vs. college camps, specialization, multi-sport athletes, positional versatility, catching development, swing-and-miss rates, recruiting emails, and how parents can help or hurt the recruiting process.

Cameron’s message to baseball parents is simple: stop trying to project where a 12-year-old will be six years from now. Let him develop. Let him play. And let him run his own race.

00:51 Meet Cameron Rupp: Phillies catcher to college coach
02:01 Biggest developmental mistakes parents make
04:38 How early is too early to specialize?
05:50 Why projecting a 12-year-old as D1 makes no sense
06:52 D-BAT, Clayton Kershaw and DFW baseball
09:17 How travel baseball has changed
09:58 How college baseball recruiting actually starts
10:38 Do Perfect Game rankings matter?
11:37 Why Cameron wants to watch recruits fail
12:48 Does character matter in recruiting?
14:46 High school, JUCO and portal roster construction
15:21 Who should consider the JUCO route?
17:59 Power Four vs. mid-major recruiting
20:18 What college coaches want from catchers
22:21 The truth about showcase pop times
24:35 The four most recruited positions
25:28 The one tool that can change a game
26:52 Why swing-and-miss matters
28:38 Positional versatility and getting in the lineup
31:50 Why young players shouldn’t be locked into one position
34:21 What college coaches truly value
37:14 Power Four recruiting and the transfer portal
39:16 Performance wins playing time
40:49 Failure and mental toughness
43:03 How parents can help players handle failure
45:54 In & Out with Cameron Rupp
46:38 One thing youth baseball parents should stop doing
47:09 Cameron’s favorite Phillies memory
48:18 Advice for every 14-year-old catcher
49:04 The best players Cameron played with
50:05 College camp or showcase?
52:19 Are college camps money grabs?
53:09 Camp invites vs. genuine recruiting interest
54:53 When players get on recruiting boards
56:08 Can a parent hurt his son’s recruitment?
58:25 Final advice: Run your own race
59:30 Where to follow Cameron Rupp

Adam Eaton was 5-foot-9, a 19th-round draft pick and, by his own admission, never a big-time prospect. He still found a way to play 10 years in the Major Leagues and win a World Series.

And his message to baseball parents is one I wish more people heard early: “It is not a talent contest.”

Adam joins me on Chasing Baseball Dreams to talk about what actually helped him beat the odds, what he learned working with college players at Michigan State, and what he now sees every day as the first base coach for the Los Angeles Angels.

We get into why parents put way too much importance on early success, why he believes kids need to play multiple sports, what coaches notice when a player goes 0-for-4, and why learning how to fail may be one of the most important skills a young player can develop.

Adam also shares what he’s learned being around players like Shohei Ohtani, Juan Soto and Mike Trout, why young players need to actually watch and study baseball, and the advice he gives parents of 10-year-olds:

“Your only job as a parent is to make sure he signs up next year.”

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Adam Eaton joins Chasing Baseball Dreams
02:10 What actually matters for the undersized young player
04:47 Why Adam played multiple sports growing up
08:49 Why young players should play different positions
14:14 “Baseball is not a talent contest”
16:58 The best players Adam ever played with
19:06 What separates Shohei Ohtani and Juan Soto
21:18 What coaches notice when your son goes 0-for-4
25:52 Being a great teammate when the bat isn’t working
29:23 Turning failure into better work
31:11 The toughest pitchers Adam ever faced
33:58 Why bunting is making a comeback
38:26 Why young players need to watch more baseball
40:12 What Kirk Gibson taught Adam from the bench
45:18 How parents should handle injuries and setbacks
48:44 Why kids need to become athletes first
52:45 What Mike Trout does differently
55:29 In & Out with Adam Eaton
55:48 Adam’s advice for parents of 10-year-olds
56:40 What parents value too much in youth baseball
57:24 The one thing every player needs to learn
58:17 Could Adam Eaton become an MLB manager?
1:01:11 Adam’s favorite baseball memories
1:05:04 Adam’s favorite baseball movie
1:06:52 Adam’s message directly to baseball parents

Dustin Pedroia spent 14 seasons in the big leagues, won Rookie of the Year, an MVP, four Gold Gloves and three World Series championships.

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But this conversation really isn’t about any of that.

It’s about what we’re doing with kids before they ever get close to the big leagues.

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Dustin talks about why his sons don’t play year-round baseball before 14, why 12U rankings and exit velo can fool parents, why he would rather watch a talented player go 0-for-4 than 3-for-3, and why travel baseball has the practice-to-game ratio completely backwards.

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He also shares what he actually says to his own son after a bad game, why kids need to experience failure, what David Ortiz told him about developing his swing, what scouts really notice over time, and why being the 12th player on a national team may be worse than playing every day somewhere else.

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There is a LOT here for baseball parents.

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TIMESTAMPS

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00:00 Dustin Pedroia joins Chasing Baseball Dreams

02:02 Why he gave back his Arizona State scholarship

03:05 Why young players need multiple sports

06:02 The tryout that changed everything

08:30 The knee injury that ended his career

11:46 Pedroia played only 20 baseball games a year

12:16 Fall in love with the work

13:42 “Your son will not fall behind”

15:22 What hitters ages 8 to 13 should work on

17:38 The business of youth baseball

20:24 Don’t showcase before you’re ready

21:25 What scouts can’t measure in one workout

24:23 Attitude, effort and preparation

28:49 What Dustin says after his son goes 0-for-3

30:44 What has changed in Major League hitting

34:22 Development vs. just playing more games

38:40 The coaching red flag parents should watch for

41:43 What matters for talented 11- and 12-year-olds

46:47 In & Out with Dustin Pedroia

49:36 12U exit velo and player rankings

50:55 Elite roster or everyday playing time?

53:01 When should a player go all-in on baseball?

55:12 Dustin’s favorite baseball movie and memories

59:00 Dustin’s advice for Bobby

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If you’re raising a baseball player, especially between 8 and 14, there’s a good chance something Dustin says in this episode will make you rethink what development is supposed to look like.

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Subscribe to Chasing Baseball Dreams for straight talk from people who have actually lived this game.

Coach Ballgame sits down to name something most parents haven't been able to see: the early specialization trap that's become industry gospel.

Twenty-two years ago, kids played three sports a year. Now you hear it constantly from travel ball orgs, from coaches, from Facebook groups. Your son needs to specialize or he falls behind. Parents lie awake over this decision.

But here's what Mookie Betts did. Here's what Mike Trout did. Here's what every major league player Coach Ballgame interviewed at All-Star games said: we got better because we played everything. Shohei Ohtani. Paul Skeens. Freddie Freeman. The pattern is not specialization. It's the opposite.

The machine survives by convincing you that early specialization works. It doesn't. What works is fundamentals, joy, and a coach who understands that winning a 12U tournament means absolutely nothing down the road. This episode gives you what MLB players are actually telling travel ball coaches, which culture decisions actually matter, and how to recognize whether your kid's team is building him up or just paying its own commission.

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00:00 - Intro and Coach Ballgame's background

03:09 - The shift: what changed from the '90s to now

06:44 - The trap parents fall into (financial incentives behind fall ball pressure)

08:05 - What Paul Skeens and MLB players actually said at All-Star games

10:27 - The Freddie Freeman principle: detach your joy from your kid's results

15:00+ - Finding the right coach and culture. Red flags to run from

51:36 - Nicknames, trust, and why connection beats winning

55:23 - How Coach Ballgame was born

56:46 - Helping kids overcome fear of getting hit by pitches

CONNECT:

Website: coachballgame.com

Coach Ballgame University: Online coaching curriculum

Social: @coachballgame (Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube)

From a North Dakota farm, no high school baseball team, to 213 MLB home runs. Travis Hafner (Pronk) chose the hardest path first, and it changed everything. We talk about turning down guaranteed starting spots, why multiple sports matter, how to actually parent through failure, and what his own sons taught him about the game that 12 years in the majors couldn't.

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0:00 - Intro: From Pronk bars to the big leagues
2:23 - Growing up without a high school baseball team
3:09 - Why multiple sports still matters
4:12 - When he started his boys in travel ball
4:53 - Best and worst of travel baseball
6:38 - Why he chose the hardest JUCO (no guarantee)
7:45 - Sink or swim mentality
15:00 - Getting drafted in the 31st round
20:00 - Making it to the majors with Texas
37:00 - Raw talent gets refined by the right coaching
37:24 - The car ride home after tough games
39:18 - All-time baseball memories
40:16 - The 2006 season, the hand injury, what could've been
41:11 - What his sons taught him as a player
42:07 - Where to find Travis

TJ Bruce, Long Beach State head coach and D1 veteran, breaks down the one habit that separates parents who keep their kids' love for the game from parents who burn it out: looking inside out instead of outside in.

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Most parents chase what's happening outside. The ranking, the team name, the comparison to other kids, what the college board might think someday. Meanwhile, their son is drowning under the weight of expectations he never made. TJ discovered this the hard way when his 12-year-old broke down in the car and said, "I feel that pressure every day I step on the field."

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This is a one-hour conversation with a coach who sits in every chair: player, coach, college head coach, dad. He finally figured out that the scoreboard you need to read is not the one in the field. It's inside your kid.

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What you'll hear:

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03:08 ... The car ride home that hit him like a ton of bricks

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04:36 ... Why the coach's kid carries a different kind of pressure

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07:38 ... Do you have 12-year-olds on your recruiting board? His answer cuts straight through

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08:33 ... The first base coaching story that says everything about parenting vs. coaching

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15:00 ... Multiple sports vs. year-round baseball: what actually matters at 12

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30:00+ ... The "eleventh man on the expensive roster" and why playing time beats pedigree

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45:00+ ... How comparison becomes the thief of joy, and parents pass it straight to their kids

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55:00+ ... The mental game most parents refuse to teach

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58:00+ ... What it means to "be great with Johnny being who he is"

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59:39 ... Stop looking outside in. Start looking inside out.

Former Division I pitcher, six-time MLB scout for the Houston Astros, and now director at Marucci Sports, Justin Cryer sits down to expose what scouts actually see, what parents waste money on, and why most travel baseball spending never shows up on a single scouting report. Justin played two years on the bench at Ole Miss, got Tommy John, and still made it. He knows what the machine sells parents and what scouts are actually looking for. This episode cuts through every layer of the youth baseball industry: fake elite teams, rankings that don't matter, equipment that won't fix your swing, and the one thing that separates players who make it from the ones who quit. Full interview includes rapid-fire In & Out questions and Justin's parting wisdom on keeping youth baseball the size it actually is.

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[0:00] Introduction: Justin's background and path
[1:52] Ole Miss bench story: Red-shirted 2 years, Tommy John, what that taught him
[4:40] The transfer portal question: Would he have stuck it out in today's landscape?
[5:57] Scout hierarchy explained: Associate scout, area scout, cross-checker, nationals, director
[8:24] What makes a conviction scout vs. stat watcher
[12:15] What scouts actually look for in your son
[15:30] The hierarchy of what scouts value
[18:45] High school coaches' influence on recruiting
[21:00] Travel ball and team selection—what matters and what doesn't
[24:30] Fake elite teams vs. real scout teams
[26:50] What parents spend money on that scouts never see
[28:15] In & Out rapid-fire questions begin
[53:04] First tool scouts spot in seconds
[53:32] Money parents waste that never shows on scouting reports
[54:15] The difference between players who make it and those who quit
[54:50] What a $400 bat can't fix
[55:31] Parting wisdom: Don't make it bigger than it is

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