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Come Curious

Come Curious

Written by: Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE
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Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures. Curious f**kers… welcome to COME CURIOUS the podcast. Hosted by award winning sex & relationship content creators, sex educators & p0rn directors: Florence Bark and Reed Amber. Please rate and review if you’ve learnt something from us! C U NEXT THURSDAY CURIOUS F**KERS Support the podcast and help us keep independent by donating via patreon.com/comecuriousCopyright Come Curious Hygiene & Healthy Living Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Your kinky questions: I'm kinky but my partner isn't...Help! - BDSM, Fetishes, Sexual Fantasies & Exploring Your Desires

    Your kinky questions: I'm kinky but my partner isn't...Help! - BDSM, Fetishes, Sexual Fantasies & Exploring Your Desires
    Oct 15 2026
    Got a k'nky fantasy you're too embarrassed to ask about? Wondering what your desires mean, how to explore them, or how to bring them up with a partner without making things awkward? 👀 In this episode of Come Curious, Reed - seggs educator, seggs worker and ki'nk and f3tish specialist - answers your questions about the wonderfully weird world of k'nk. From discovering what turns you on to navigating taboo fantasies and negotiating boundaries, we're getting into the things you might be Googling in private. We get into: K'nk vs f3tish: What's the difference, and when does a fantasy become an essential part of your seggs life? Discovering your desires: How to explore new turn-ons, experiment with fantasies and figure out what you're into. Controversy: Navigating a controversial fantasy through trust, consent and honest communication. Cuckolding: How to discuss a partner's desires, set boundaries and avoid resentment. Talking about k'nk: How to have open, non-judgemental conversations about what you want in the bedroom. Listener stories: Anonymous confessions featuring roleplay, power exchange, sensory play and food play. Plus, we discuss seggual health, STI testing and condoms. Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned k'nky fcker, this episode is your reminder that having questions is normal, exploring is personal, and consent and communication are always the hottest things in the room. 📍 Come and see Reed in London: At Your Own Risk - kinky market social, 29 November 2026 Ticklethusiasm - 12 December 2026 Come curious. Leave with a few more things to think about. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon ⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Why Don't I Feel Horny? How to get your sex drive back - Libido, Arousal, Hormones & Relationships

    Why Don't I Feel Horny? How to get your sex drive back - Libido, Arousal, Hormones & Relationships
    Oct 8 2026
    Why don't I feel horny anymore? And is there actually anything you can do to get your sex drive back? In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive into the surprisingly complicated world of libido, low sex drive and sexual desire - and why feeling less horny doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with you. From hormones and medication to stress, relationships, parenthood and mental health, we unpack the many reasons your libido can change throughout your life. We get into: - Why around 1 in 4 couples experience mismatched libidos - How antidepressants, hormonal birth control and other medications can affect desire - How stress, exhaustion, mental load, body image and emotional safety can put the brakes on sex - Why pregnancy, breastfeeding and parenthood can dramatically change your sex drive - How trauma, shame, upbringing and neurodivergence can influence desire - Why asexuality isn't the same thing as having no interest in pleasure or masturbation - Why you don't always have to wait until you're spontaneously horny to start exploring desire And we finish with our four-step toolkit for getting your sex drive back: from identifying what's actually killing your libido to rebuilding your erotic world and making sex easier to want. PLUS: We're giving a big shout out to CHEEX which you can try free for 7 days! Use code 7COME at getcheex.com T&Cs: New customers get a 7-day free trial of the annual membership (£9.90/month, billed £118.80 annually). Cancel anytime during the trial or switch to monthly (£19.90/month). You won't be charged until the trial ends. Offer valid for new customers only, on the annual membership only, and when redeemed with code 7COME. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    55 mins
  • How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health

    How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health
    Oct 1 2026
    Motherhood changes you. Your body, your brain, your relationships, your priorities — sometimes even your sense of who the fuck you are. In this episode, Florence gets brutally honest about the reality of becoming a new mum, from postpartum anxiety and breastfeeding to body changes, sex after birth and the pressure to somehow “bounce back”. We get into: The enormous identity shift that comes with becoming a mother Postpartum anxiety, mental health and why we need to talk about it Breastfeeding, body changes and the judgement new mums face Sex after birth, low libido, pain and learning to listen to your body How social media can affect postpartum body image Returning to work and the reality of corporate parental leave The wildly different ways motherhood can make you feel — from depletion and loss to empowerment and love Plus, we hear from our community about what motherhood changed for them and why there is no such thing as “bouncing back”. Because you don't go back to who you were before. You become someone new. As always, we love hearing what you have to say - let us know, share your stories and be sure to follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@comecurious⁠⁠⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠⁠⁠@florencebark⁠⁠⁠ and learn more about her community @matrescene.collective Follow Reed ⁠⁠⁠@reedamberx⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    54 mins
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