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We spend a lot of time choosing a partner, and very little time learning them.

Still Learning You is about the kind of love that doesn’t get comfortable with assumptions. The kind that stays curious as people grow, change, and evolve.

This episode explores why understanding your partner isn’t something you complete, but something you keep returning to.

Needs shift. Language changes. Desire evolves.

And the relationships that last aren’t built on knowing… they’re built on staying enrolled.

If you believe love is less about certainty and more about attention, this conversation is for you.

Because your person isn’t a subject you pass, but a lesson you keep studying.

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Potential sounds hopeful.

It feels exciting.

And it can keep you invested far longer than reality.

In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai explores why we stay in relationships and marriages, built on potential instead of evidence. From waiting years for engagement, to carrying emotional labor while hoping for accountability, this conversation breaks down how hope without action keeps us stuck.

We talk about:

• why potential is so seductive

• the difference between awareness and action

• red flags, yellow flags, and green flags

• staying too long for the idea of marriage or change

• why accountability without action isn’t healing

• and how to stop building futures alone

This episode is a reminder that potential is not a plan and potential is not a person.

Pour a ChaFai Nightcap, listen slowly, and ask yourself the hard questions with honesty.

🎙️ Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry

Hosted by ChaFai

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Two people can care deeply about each other and still leave the same conversation feeling misunderstood.

Not because the love isn’t there.

Not because the chemistry is gone.

But because they’re speaking different languages.

In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai breaks down the dynamic of Pointers and Painters; two distinct communication styles that show up in relationships every day.

Pointers communicate with clarity, efficiency, and solutions.

Painters communicate with context, emotion, and expression.

Same goal. Different paths.

Over a glass of full-bodied red wine and a slow-burning cigar, we explore:

• Why arguments aren’t always about disagreement, but translation
• How nervous systems regulate differently in conflict
• Why some people want solutions and others want to be heard first
• How to meet in the middle without losing yourself
• The exact language that calms tension and restores connection

This isn’t about who’s right.

It’s about learning how to listen in a way your partner can actually feel.

With signature Glass & Ash moments, guided pauses to sip and breathe, and a practical listener exercise you can use in real conversations, this episode turns communication into chemistry… slow, intentional, and grown.

Pull up. Pour something smooth.

And stay long enough to hear what’s really being said.

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🥂 Keep your glass full, your mind open, and your chemistry bilingual