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We spend a lot of time choosing a partner, and very little time learning them.

Still Learning You is about the kind of love that doesn’t get comfortable with assumptions. The kind that stays curious as people grow, change, and evolve.

This episode explores why understanding your partner isn’t something you complete, but something you keep returning to.

Needs shift. Language changes. Desire evolves.

And the relationships that last aren’t built on knowing… they’re built on staying enrolled.

If you believe love is less about certainty and more about attention, this conversation is for you.

Because your person isn’t a subject you pass, but a lesson you keep studying.

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#Dating #Communication
#Curiosity #Couple #Romance #Love
#GrowthTogether #Cocktails
#Cigars #Chemistry

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Potential sounds hopeful.

It feels exciting.

And it can keep you invested far longer than reality.

In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai explores why we stay in relationships and marriages, built on potential instead of evidence. From waiting years for engagement, to carrying emotional labor while hoping for accountability, this conversation breaks down how hope without action keeps us stuck.

We talk about:

• why potential is so seductive

• the difference between awareness and action

• red flags, yellow flags, and green flags

• staying too long for the idea of marriage or change

• why accountability without action isn’t healing

• and how to stop building futures alone

This episode is a reminder that potential is not a plan and potential is not a person.

Pour a ChaFai Nightcap, listen slowly, and ask yourself the hard questions with honesty.

🎙️ Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry

Hosted by ChaFai

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Two people can care deeply about each other and still leave the same conversation feeling misunderstood.

Not because the love isn’t there.

Not because the chemistry is gone.

But because they’re speaking different languages.

In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai breaks down the dynamic of Pointers and Painters; two distinct communication styles that show up in relationships every day.

Pointers communicate with clarity, efficiency, and solutions.

Painters communicate with context, emotion, and expression.

Same goal. Different paths.

Over a glass of full-bodied red wine and a slow-burning cigar, we explore:

• Why arguments aren’t always about disagreement, but translation
• How nervous systems regulate differently in conflict
• Why some people want solutions and others want to be heard first
• How to meet in the middle without losing yourself
• The exact language that calms tension and restores connection

This isn’t about who’s right.

It’s about learning how to listen in a way your partner can actually feel.

With signature Glass & Ash moments, guided pauses to sip and breathe, and a practical listener exercise you can use in real conversations, this episode turns communication into chemistry… slow, intentional, and grown.

Pull up. Pour something smooth.

And stay long enough to hear what’s really being said.

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🥂 Keep your glass full, your mind open, and your chemistry bilingual

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Ever wonder why certain relationship patterns feel familiar? Well… Before you ever dated.
Before you ever fell in love.
Before you ever got your heart broken.
You were watching.
This episode dives into how emotionally unavailable parents and unstable homes shape the way we attach, love, and protect ourselves as adults.
No blame.
No shame.
Just clarity, growth, and real chemistry.
Because healing isn’t dramatic...
it’s intentional.
And the first step is awareness.

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Some connections don’t need fireworks, they need intention.

In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, we slow the pace and talk about what it really means to save the date through self examination.

We’re diving into:

• Why real effort feels different

• How emotional availability shows up

• The power of clarity over confusion

• And what it looks like when someone truly shows up

With a smooth pour, a slow burn, and grown-folk conversation, this episode is for anyone ready to stop entertaining uncertainty and start leaning into connection.

If you’re done with mixed signals and halfway energy…

Save the date.

We’re building something that lasts.

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In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai introduces Sextimacy and goes deeper into conversation about why sex can be passionate and exciting, yet still leave you feeling disconnected afterward.

Through a trauma-aware, science-grounded lens, this episode explores the difference between arousal and attachment, unpacking dopamine vs. oxytocin, and how early conditioning can shape the belief that sex equals love.

You’ll learn:

• Why great sex doesn’t always create connection
• How chemistry can excite without bonding
• How to practice intimacy with intention — even if you’re single

Paired with a Velvet Old Fashioned and a slow, intentional ash, this episode invites you to slow down and redefine what real closeness feels like.

Emotional Safety Note

This episode includes personal reflection and discussions around intimacy and early conditioning. Please listen at your own pace, take breaks if needed, and prioritize your emotional well-being.

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This episode of Corks, Cocktails, and Chemistry is smooth, a little flirty, and definitely grown. We’re talking sex, sensuality, and the kind of chemistry that takes its time… doesn’t rush.

Grab a drink… this one hits different.

#love #sex # dating #datingadvice #relationships #sensuality #convseration

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In this episode of Corks, Cocktails & Chemistry, ChaFai opens the lost files on ownership, consistency, and emotional responsibility, for men and women. With a smooth Glass & Ash moment featuring a chocolate whiskey and a grown cigar pairing, this episode blends honest insight with practical tools to build trust that lasts longer than chemistry.

Pour a glass. Check your ego. Press play.

#CorksCocktailsAndChemistry
#Accountability
#Relationships
#EmotionalIntelligence
#HealthyLove #ChocolateCanadianWhiskey #DatingOver40
#MenAndWomen
#GrownConversations
#RelationshipPodcast
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