Conversations around sex, dating, marriage, and purpose can feel complicated—especially as moms raising daughters in a changing cultural and church landscape. In this episode of Courageous Girls, we sit down with bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host Annie F. Downs for a powerful and honest conversation about singleness, calling, and trusting God with the long story of our lives.

Together, we explore how the church’s messaging around marriage has shaped girls and women, and why it’s time to shift the paradigm—from “when you’re married” to “if you’re married.” Annie shares vulnerably from her own journey of singleness, faith, disappointment, joy, and deep intimacy with God, reminding us that no one is behind, late, or forgotten.

This episode invites moms and daughters alike to release comparison, redefine sexual purity as a lifelong practice, and embrace the freedom of living fully present in the chapter God has us in right now.

In this episode, we discuss:

🔹 Singleness as a valid calling – Why marriage is not the finish line, and how every season holds purpose and dignity.

🔹 Sexual purity as a lifestyle – Reframing purity beyond marital status and grounding it in discipleship and identity.

🔹 You are right on time – How to dismantle the “late bloomer” narrative and trust God’s timing with courage and peace.

🔹 What does this make possible? – Learning to see closed doors, waiting seasons, and disappointment as invitations, not failures.

Our hope is that this conversation helps you raise daughters—and become women—who know they are deeply loved, fully called, and free to live boldly with God, no matter what their story looks like.

Website: https://www.anniefdowns.com/

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Raising girls in today’s culture means navigating tension—between purity culture and personal freedom, between shame and grace, between rules and relationship. In this episode of Courageous Girls, we sit down with our dear friend and trusted expert Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield for an honest, hope-filled conversation about how we talk to our daughters (and ourselves) about bodies, boundaries, and belonging.

Together, we unpack the impact of purity culture, the pendulum swing toward “it’s my body, don’t shame me,” and the invitation to a better way—one rooted in grace, discernment, and deep identity in Christ. This conversation is as much for moms as it is for daughters, because the work always begins with us.

With wisdom from clinical practice, Scripture, and lived experience, we explore how moms and dads can partner together (even imperfectly) to speak life, affirmation, and truth into the hearts of girls—starting young and continuing through the teen years.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Beyond rules to relationship – Why the goal isn’t control or permissiveness, but helping girls hear God’s voice and trust His love.

🔹 Our stories matter – How a mom’s own experiences with shame, purity culture, or freedom shape the messages her daughter receives.

🔹 The power of words and presence – Practical ways parents—especially dads—can speak affirmation that protects against lies and insecurity.

🔹 Raising discerning daughters – Helping girls understand their value, their bodies, and the kind of love they were made for.

Our hope is to raise girls who aren’t driven by fear, performance, or attention—but who are confident, resilient, and rooted in grace. And along the way, to become women who are healing, growing, and walking in that freedom too.

Website: www.drmichellewatson.com

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In this episode of Courageous Girls, we step back into a deeply important conversation that continues beyond the mic—one that sits at the intersection of faith, sexuality, boundaries, and grace. After our time with Dr. Nancy, we felt led to clarify the heart behind Courageous Girls and address the tension many moms feel between purity culture and its pendulum swing. We share why our goal has never been to create “perfect” girls or prevent every hard thing, but to raise daughters who know they have voice, choice, and a safe place to come back when life gets complicated. This is a trauma-informed, grace-filled invitation to discipleship that honors our girls as whole beings—mind, body, heart, and soul—and helps them practice saying no, setting boundaries, and walking with God in freedom rather than shame. Together, we explore how healing happens in safe community, why grace is not the absence of wisdom, and how slow, steady discipleship shapes resilient daughters and courageous moms.

Key Takeaways:

🔹Why Courageous Girls is not rooted in purity culture or permissiveness, but in grace, wisdom, and freedom

🔹How teaching girls to say no builds safety, agency, and resilience at every age

🔹The power of confession, community, and safe relationships in healing shame and trauma

🔹Why discipleship is a slow, relational process—and how moms are invited into their own growth too

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In a world where our girls are bombarded with confusing messages about sexuality, identity, and worth, we believe God calls us to lead with clarity, compassion, and courage. In this episode of the Courageous Girls Podcast, we sit down with Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, to explore how we can reclaim healthy, biblical conversations around sexuality—conversations many of us never received ourselves.

Together, we talk about why honest dialogue matters, how to navigate our own discomfort, and how to build trust with our daughters so they come to us first with their deepest questions. Kristen brings wisdom and warmth as she shares practical tools for making these conversations ongoing, safe, and rooted in God’s good design.

🔹How our own stories and insecurities shape the way we talk about sexuality—and how God meets us with healing and grace.

🔹Kristen’s simple, powerful framework for responding to questions with curiosity (“What do you mean by that?”) instead of panic or shame.

🔹Practical guidance for creating a home where conversations about bodies, identity, and sexuality are consistent, calm, and biblically grounded.

🔹Why it’s essential to replace online misinformation with intentional, truthful formation that equips our girls to navigate culture with confidence.

With vulnerability and hope, we explore what it looks like to raise daughters who understand their worth, know God’s design, and feel safe coming to us with anything.

Website: www.sexedreclaimed.com

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In this episode of Courageous Girls, Terra Mattson sits down with Dr. Nancy to explore the beauty, complexity, and God-given design of female sexuality—both for mothers and daughters. We dive into how hormones, trauma, and societal expectations shape the way women experience desire, intimacy, and self-awareness, and how moms can create safe spaces for honest conversation with their daughters.

Together, we talk about:

🔹 Understanding our bodies – How hormonal cycles and natural sexual desire are part of God’s design, and how moms can guide their daughters with knowledge and compassion.

🔹 Navigating shame and trauma – Recognizing how past experiences and societal messages affect female sexuality, and creating space for healing and curiosity.

🔹 Celebrating individuality – Every woman’s libido and sexual expression are unique; learning to know and honor our own rhythms is an act of empowerment.

🔹 Mother-daughter connection – How ongoing, judgment-free conversations and unconditional love help daughters feel safe, valued, and prepared to navigate relationships and sexuality in a digital world.

With wisdom, compassion, and practical guidance, Dr. Nancy helps us see that female sexuality is not something to fear or suppress—it’s a gift designed by God. This conversation reminds us that our daughters—and we as mothers—thrive when we embrace honesty, curiosity, and grace in all aspects of our lives.

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In this episode of Courageous Girls, we sit down with Dr. Nancy to talk about sex, hormones, and the changing bodies of girls and women. Together, we explore how understanding these physical and emotional shifts can help us guide our daughters with grace and wisdom. From monthly cycles to puberty, PMS, and beyond, Dr. Nancy shares her insights from decades as an OB-GYN and therapist to help us navigate these topics in a way that empowers both moms and daughters.

We also discuss the importance of modeling self-care, celebrating our unique bodies, and helping girls embrace their identity as they grow. This episode is full of practical advice, encouragement, and perspective on how to walk alongside our daughters in these formative years.

Together, we explore:

🔹 Understanding hormonal cycles — the role of estrogen and progesterone through puberty, menstruation, and menopause, and how to respond with curiosity rather than judgment.

🔹 PMS and emotional awareness — how mood swings can reveal deeper truths and provide opportunities for self-reflection and growth.

🔹 Caring for our bodies as temples — practical tools for sleep, nutrition, movement, and hydration, and modeling healthy habits for daughters.

🔹 Celebrating individuality — embracing body diversity, unique hair types, and personal rhythms to teach girls self-acceptance and confidence.

Let’s walk with our daughters in understanding their bodies, emotions, and design—celebrating every stage of life as part of God’s plan.

Learn more about the Courageous Girls movement at www.mycourageousgirls.com

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In this honest and hope-filled conversation, we open the mic to real moms living out the Courageous Girls journey across the country. Together, we explore what it’s like to say “yes” to intentional parenting—even when it’s messy, uncertain, or slow.

From starting new groups to navigating teen years, these mamas share what God is doing in them and through them as they show up for their daughters. Whether you're leading a group, trying to launch one, or walking through one-on-one moments at home, you're not alone. We’re in this together—and our daughters are watching us learn and grow too.

🔹 Intentional rhythms make a difference – How one meeting a month builds trust and deeper connection over years.

🔹 You don’t have to be a “leader” to start – Why showing up imperfectly is the greatest gift you can give your daughter (and your group).

🔹 The slow and steady way matters – How the consistent, grace-filled approach of Courageous Girls builds lasting fruit.

🔹 We grow too – Why leading our daughters often reveals where God is still growing us as women and daughters of the King.

We’re not meant to go it alone. Whether you’re leading a group of 12 or just beginning with one little girl at your kitchen table, your presence matters. Let’s keep leaning in together.

Learn more about the Courageous Girls movement at www.mycourageousgirls.com

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Raising girls today takes more than good intentions—it takes community, intentionality, and courage. In this episode of Courageous Girls, Terra Mattson is joined by Meghan and Stephanie, two moms who have seen firsthand the life-changing impact of Courageous Girls Groups. Together, we talk about the real joys and challenges of walking alongside our daughters, and how a Christ-centered community can make all the difference.

🔹 The heart behind Courageous Girls Groups—and why they create a safe, grace-filled place for daughters to grow.

🔹 How moms can move from isolation to connection through shared stories and prayer.

🔹 Why intentional rhythms help girls build confidence, discernment, and lifelong faith.

🔹 Practical encouragement for starting your own group, even if it feels intimidating at first.

This conversation is full of honesty, laughter, and hope. Our prayer is that you’ll walk away reminded: you don’t have to do this alone. Let’s raise a generation of girls who know who they are in Christ—and become women who live courageously too.

Learn more about the Courageous Girls movement at www.mycourageousgirls.com

Follow along on Instagram: @mycourageousgirls

Read the book: Courageous by Terra Mattson

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