If you've ever felt hijacked by anxiety in dating or relationships: Overanalyzing texts, feeling unsettled in your body, and stuck in push–pull dynamics, this one is for you.

In this case study, you'll hear a real, unfiltered conversation with one of my former 1:1 clients who came to me in the depths of anxious attachment. Through our work together, she not only unraveled long-held relationship patterns but also learned how to regulate her nervous system, reclaim her power, and call in the healthiest relationship of her life.

You'll hear the turning points, emotional breakthroughs, and somatic tools that helped her break free from the chaos and finally feel safe in love.

We explore:

• What anxious attachment really feels like in the body
• How nervous system dysregulation fuels overthinking and reactivity
• Why certain types of inconsistent partners feel so “magnetic” (and how to stop chasing them)
• The role somatic work plays in healing relationship patterns at the root
• What it actually looks and feels like to become secure in yourself and attract love from that place
• The ripple effect this work had on her business, family, and overall confidence

Curious about working together?

🌿 Book a free consultation call with Jenelle here: During this call, we will map out your relationship patterns, blocks, and core areas of growth.

I'll create a personalized roadmap to help you understand exactly what you need to overcome your patterns and work towards the life & relationship you want.

🔗 LINKS:

Learn more about 1:1 work

Instagram: @jenelleannette

Email: hello@jenelleannette.com

If your inner monologue is constantly whispering, “Did I do something wrong?” This one’s for you.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into relational anxiety that shows up as self-blame. You know the one: where you feel responsible for everyone else’s mood, you apologize before anyone says a word, and conflict makes you want to disappear.

Maybe your default is “It’s all my fault,” even when it’s not. That pattern is what keeps you from feeling comfortable being yourself in the world; it keeps you on alert, and it waters down your relationships. This episode is all about overcoming shame and self-blame, and why it's so important to heal your relationships.

We'll explore:

• The roots of self-blame and hyper-responsibility in relationships
• How over-apologizing and people-pleasing quietly erode intimacy
• What’s actually going on in your nervous system when you spiral
• The difference between shame and guilt and why it matters
• How to hold your emotional reality and your partner’s without collapsing
• Practical tools to break the “it’s all my fault” loop, build self-trust, and come back to your center

You’ll also hear some of my own stories around this pattern: how it showed up in past dynamics and how I’ve worked with it through somatic and relational healing.

If you often wonder…

→ “Are they mad at me?”

→ “Why do I feel so responsible for how everyone else feels?”

→ “How can I express my needs without feeling like a burden?”

… This conversation will help you feel seen and supported, and offer real practices to help you shift the dynamic.

RESOURCES & LINKS:
✨ Book a free 1:1 consultation with Jenelle: Limited space available
✨ DM me on Instagram with your takeaways → @jenelleannette
✨ Or send me a message via email → hello@jenelleannette.com

If receiving love, help, or support feels uncomfortable, even though a part of you deeply craves it, this episode is for you.

We’re exploring hyper-independence: where it comes from, how it quietly shapes your relationships, and why control often hides beneath self-reliance.

Whether you tend to overfunction for others, downplay your needs, or keep people at arm’s length, this will hit home.

I’ll walk you through:

• What hyper-independence really looks like (the obvious and less obvious signs)
• The nervous system root of not 'needing anyone'
• How this pattern blocks emotional intimacy, even with the right people
• Why emotional receptivity feels vulnerable, and how to practice it
• A more balanced way to relate: interdependence

Plus: some real-life stories from my own journey, and practical ways to start softening, receiving, and being seen.

If you'd like support healing your relationship patterns, you can book a free 1:1 consultation call with Jenelle.

This is for you if you're in a relationship and would like to overcome blocks, create more depth and intimacy, and fortify your connection, OR you're single and are looking to shift dating/relationship patterns so you can call in the love you want.

Book a free consultation call here.

Let’s stay connected:

DM me on Instagram @jenelleannette
Or reach out by email: hello@jenelleannette.com

What if the parts of you you’re most ashamed of are actually the key to your power?

In this episode, I’m diving into the complex, sneaky ways shame shows up in our lives and relationships, and how to unravel it.

Shame is often at the root of the patterns we can’t seem to break. It tells us we’re bad. Unworthy. Too much. Not enough. And most of the time, we don’t even realize it’s there.

You’ll hear me speak to:

• Why shame exists (and the evolutionary reason we all have it)
• How shame manifests in your relationships, from defensiveness to people-pleasing to sabotaging connection
• Subtle and unconscious signs you're carrying shame (especially if you're highly self-critical or judgmental of others)
• How shame drives disconnection, secrecy, and self-abandonment, and how healing it changes everything
• What helped me personally unravel shame around my past, my sexuality, and parts of myself I thought were “too much”
• The power of safe relationships and community in breaking free from shame
• Journal prompts and reflections to help you explore your own shame and step into more freedom

This episode will help you unravel any shame that keeps you stuck, so you can become truly free and have the best relationships possible.

Journal Prompts to Explore After Listening:

1. What would my life look like if I were free of shame? What would I start or stop doing?
2. What parts of me have I been denying or shaming the most?
3. In what ways do I judge or shame others, and how might that be a reflection of my own shame?

Resources + Links:
→ Book a free 1:1 consultation with Jenelle if you’re ready to work through shame, heal relationship patterns, and feel more like you in love and life
→ Come say hi on Instagram @jenelleannette -- I love hearing what landed
→ If you don't have IG, you can email me at hello@jenelleannette.com

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If you’ve ever felt guilty saying no, obligated to do things you don’t want to do, or pushed your desires aside out of fear of disapproval…

This one’s for you.

In this episode, I explore how fear, obligation, and guilt quietly shape our lives and what becomes possible when you start giving yourself radical permission instead.

Inside, I speak to:

• The nervous system root of people-pleasing
• How “being nice” can block intimacy, authenticity, and true belonging
• How to spot the invisible “shoulds” that run your life
• Learning to set boundaries without guilt
• A powerful exercise to reclaim what you really want
• Working through the fear of disappointing others

This is about uncovering the invisible rulebook that says you must always be agreeable, helpful, humble, and never make anyone uncomfortable.

This is about making space for your desires without labeling them as wrong, shameful, or too much.

This is a quiet rebellion against everything that keeps you small.

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Wanting support in healing your relationship patterns, overcoming anxiety, and stepping into the life you want?

Book a free 1:1 consultation with Jenelle (limited availability)

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So many of us walk into love with a subconscious checklist:
Are they giving me enough attention? Are they playful, deep, sexy, emotionally available enough?

But what if this constant focus on what you're getting is actually pushing connection further away?

In this episode, I share a perspective shift that helps you avoid feeling unmet and unfulfilled in love.

In this episode, we will explore:

• One of the most common blind spots that can sabotage relationships
• How to avoid losing yourself in love by knowing what you need
• The questions you can ask yourself to create more vibrancy and aliveness in your relationship.

Want support creating a more alive, passionate, and healthy relationship? In 1:1 work, we will asses your relationship patterns, uncover blocks and rewire your nervous system so you can have the relationship you want.

Book a free consultation with Jenelle to learn more: Limited availability

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Email: hell@jenelleannette

If you tend to overthink love and panic when someone pulls away, and spiral into worst-case thinking…

This episode is for you.

In this episode, I explain how anxious attachment lives in the body and why understanding your patterns alone won't change them. You’ll learn how somatic experiencing can help you finally stop the spiral, shift old patterns, and feel genuinely safe in love.

Inside, we’ll explore:

• Why anxious attachment creates a need to control, even in ways that look subtle, like fantasizing or people-pleasing
• The primal fear wired into your nervous system that drives anxious behaviors
• Why talk therapy might be unintentionally reinforcing your fear-based patterns
• How somatic work helps you stop clinging, self-abandoning, or sabotaging love
• The difference between intuition vs. fear: Is your anxiety onto something, or lying to you?
• How to invite deeper connection without controlling your partner or losing yourself

Want support healing your relationship patterns?

Click this link to book a 1:1 consultation with Jenelle

This is first come first serve, and there may be a waitlist. When you have your consultation, Jenelle will let you know her availability.

📩 Want to share your experience or ask a question?
DM me on Instagram [@jenelleannette] or email me directly [hello@jenelleannette.com].

In this episode, we dive into the heart of one of the most important questions we can ask: What is love, really? Not the fantasy you were taught. Not the version shaped by social media. But the kind of love that holds you, expands you, and grows over time. That steady, deep, real love.

You’ll learn:

• The 8 most common myths that quietly sabotage your ability to receive real, lasting love
• How to know if you’re wired to resist the love you say you want — and what you can do to shift it
• The unexpected ways you may be pushing away healthy connection (even when you think you're ready for it)
• How to tell the difference between what feels exciting and what’s truly aligned

We’ll also explore what love isn’t—and how recognizing these patterns can free you to experience a love that’s sustainable, soulful, and aligned with who you truly are.

If you're single and wanting to call in healthy love, or in a relationship that you want to take deeper, this episode is for you.

WORK WITH JENELLE:

If you’re feeling the pull toward soul-deep, secure love—and you’re tired of repeating the same painful cycles—I offer private 1:1 mentorship designed to help you shift from survival mode into real, lasting connection.

💬 DM me “1:1 info” on Instagram or book a free consultation with Jenelle here

Spots are limited due to the depth of this work.

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