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You know, people always talk about love like it’s the most powerful thing in the world. And yeah — love is powerful. It makes us brave, soft, alive. But you know what we don’t talk about enough? The moment when love fades. When the laughter starts to feel forced, the silence gets heavier, and what once felt like home… just doesn’t anymore.

There’s a saying I really love — it goes: When love is gone, having the strength to walk away with resolve is a rare ability.

There’s a saying in Chinese that I think about often recently.

“未经他人苦，莫劝他人善。你若经我苦，未必有我善。”

It means:

“If you haven’t suffered as others have, don’t advise them to be kind.
Even if you went through what I did, you might not be as kind as I am.”

It sounds simple, right? But there’s something raw and real in it — a kind of wisdom that doesn’t sugar-coat anything. It’s a reminder that before we tell someone how they should act, we ought to understand what they’ve been through.

Today I want to throw a question at you. Not a light one—this isn’t “would you rather fight a horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses.” Nope. This one stings a little.

Ready?

Would you rather lose your memory… or have your lover lose theirs?

Yeah. That one hits different, doesn’t it?

Take a second with it. Imagine the person you love most in the world—partner, spouse, soulmate. Now, imagine one of you wakes up tomorrow and the slate is wiped clean. Who should it be?

You know, sometimes real life feels like a movie.

Except… you’re not the star.

You’re just living your life—minding your business—and suddenly, someone out there decides you’re the one.

They start chasing you. And I don’t mean a little crush. I mean texting all the time. Watching every story. Trying to see you every day.

And you’re like:

“Wait… what’s going on here?”
“I don’t even like this person.”

So… what do you do when someone you don’t like is pursuing you like crazy?

Today let’s break it down.

How many soulmates do you think a person can have in a lifetime? It’s an interesting question, isn’t it? Some people will quickly tell you: just one. That one special person, the perfect fit, the other half of their heart wandering the world somewhere, waiting to be found. Others will say, confidently or wistfully, that we meet many soulmates throughout our lives — not just one.

Have you ever noticed how the word power tends to carry a negative tone? It’s strange when you think about it. Power, at its core, isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it should be something mutual, something shared to benefit a group or a cause. But more often than not, when someone is described as “power-hungry” or “chasing power,” the impression is rarely positive. It immediately suggests selfishness, manipulation, or even corruption.