Dear Dr. Tracy cover art

Dear Dr. Tracy

Dear Dr. Tracy

Written by: Cloud10
Listen for free

About this listen

 Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.Cloud10 Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • How to Prevent a Mother’s Day Fight in Your Relationship

    How to Prevent a Mother’s Day Fight in Your Relationship
    May 3 2026
    Mother’s Day isn’t just about the day. It’s about what the day reveals: who gets prioritized, who gets protected, and who ends up feeling invisible. Dr. Tracy speaks to the painful pattern so many mothers name every year, he celebrates his mother, but doesn’t celebrate his partner, and then the same cycle repeats: she feels unseen, she gets angry, he gets defensive, and the family falls back into old roles that leave the couple feeling farther apart.She offers a different path forward: start by naming who your “we” is and checking in with each other first, release the expectation that one partner should carry both families (especially when kin-keeping has become a heavy, invisible job), and get clear on what would actually feel honoring this year. The goal isn’t perfection or a big production. It’s recognition, relief, and a plan that reduces decision fatigue, so Mother’s Day becomes a moment of connection instead of another loyalty test. 📎 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Be Connected — 24/7 relationship support, including Dr. Tracy AI trained on Tracy's clinical work. Get real answers in the moment, even when your partner won't do the work with you. 🔗 WANT TO GO DEEPER? One spot left for a couples intensive with Dr. Tracy — a 2-day deep dive designed for couples who are stuck and not seeing results from weekly therapy. In-person or she travels to you. Not sure where to start? Find your relationship's negative cycle — free quiz here. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📲 FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to You Tube Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    13 mins
  • Why Play Works When Kids Won’t Listen with Dr. Kim Van Dusen

    Why Play Works When Kids Won’t Listen with Dr. Kim Van Dusen
    Apr 30 2026
    A long day, a bedtime standoff, and a split-second pivot into “spy crawl” mode becomes the doorway into a bigger truth: connection often returns the moment play enters the room. Dr. Tracy sits down with Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist) to unpack why play isn’t just “being silly,” it’s a nervous system tool and a relational skill that lowers power struggles and rebuilds cooperation in real time.Dr. Kim explains how her approach combines play therapy, solution-focused therapy, and positive behavior supports to create more calm, more communication, and more connection, without swinging into harsh punishment or permissive chaos. They talk about why kids connect through play (not logic), how adults lose access to playfulness as they move into productivity mode, and why a playful shift can regulate both parent and child faster than threats, bribes, or lectures. The takeaway lands clearly: play doesn’t require more energy than you have, it often gives it back, and when safety and trust are present, play becomes one of the most effective ways to lead with limits while staying connected. 📎 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Order Dr. Kim's new book: Parenting Through Play HERE Find out more about Kim's work HERE 🔗 WANT TO GO DEEPER? Be Connected — 24/7 relationship support, including Dr. Tracy AI trained on Tracy's clinical work. Get real answers in the moment, even when your partner won't do the work with you. One spot left for a couples intensive with Dr. Tracy — a 2-day deep dive designed for couples who are stuck and not seeing results from weekly therapy. In-person or she travels to you. Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to start? Find your relationship's negative cycle — free quiz here. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📲 FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to You Tube Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    36 mins
  • How to Stop Taking In-Law Priorities Personally

    How to Stop Taking In-Law Priorities Personally
    Apr 26 2026
    A mother-in-law writes in with a hard, honest truth: she loves her daughter-in-law, she’s tried to be warm and welcoming, and she’s still grieving that her son’s wife’s family seems to get the “real” holidays while his side feels like the cordial box-check. Dr. Tracy validates the sadness without turning the daughter-in-law into the villain, and offers a reframe that changes the whole lens: when your child marries, they don’t add a person into your family as much as they leave and build their own. That shift isn’t rejection. It’s the reality of a new family system forming.From there, she holds two truths at once: you don’t get to decide how your son and daughter-in-law prioritize extended family, and you’re still allowed to grieve the relationship you hoped for. The path forward isn’t comparison or silent withdrawal, it’s depersonalizing what you don’t control, dropping the “his side vs her side” scorekeeping, and focusing on what’s possible to co-create now. Dr. Tracy encourages naming desires directly (without pressure), staying relational instead of shutting down, and watching for confirmation bias, the mental habit that only collects evidence that you’re not a priority, even when connection is being offered in other ways. 🔗 WANT TO GO DEEPER? Be Connected — 24/7 relationship support, including Dr. Tracy AI trained on Tracy's clinical work. Get real answers in the moment, even when your partner won't do the work with you. One spot left for a couples intensive with Dr. Tracy — a 2-day deep dive designed for couples who are stuck and not seeing results from weekly therapy. In-person or she travels to you. Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to start? Find your relationship's negative cycle — free quiz here. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📲 FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to You Tube Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    15 mins
No reviews yet