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Dear Tisia

Dear Tisia

Written by: Relationship Restored
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 Dear Tisia, presented by Relationship Restored, is where your love life meets real talk. Hosted by dating and relationship coach Tisia, this podcast is your go-to space for unfiltered advice, hot takes, and deep dives into the realities of modern dating. Each episode, Tisia reads real letters from listeners and responds with a mix of tough love, expert insight, and hilarious honesty. Whether you’re single, situationship’d, or deep in a relationship, Dear Tisia is here to help you heal, grow, and stop repeating the same dating patterns. No sugarcoating. No fluff. Just the truth you need to hear—with a little side eye and a lot of heart.Relationship Restored Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • He Cheated Instead of Leaving | Dating Older Men, Fake Friends & Hard Truths

    He Cheated Instead of Leaving | Dating Older Men, Fake Friends & Hard Truths
    Apr 13 2026
    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when people don’t leave honestly — whether it’s in dating or friendship.

    💭 One woman goes on a great date with an older man — thoughtful, intentional, and mature. But now she’s wondering… does dating an older man actually mean he’s more ready, or is that just an assumption that could cost her later?

    🤝 Another caller is questioning a long-term friendship that goes all the way back to middle school. Years of history… but little effort in the present. So when someone shows up for everyone else but not for you, is it loyalty… or a sign it’s time to let go?

    💔 And we break down one of the hardest realities in dating — being replaced. After a year-long relationship, one woman’s partner cheats, moves on quickly, and suddenly presents himself as “changed” and aligned. Why do some people betray first… instead of just leaving?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the viral “struggle love” conversation — and ask the real question:
    If you think dating is broken because of other people… have you considered how your own standards, expectations, or attraction patterns might be playing a role?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    38 mins
  • He Wants the Benefits… Not the Relationship | No Titles, Cheating & Mixed Signals

    He Wants the Benefits… Not the Relationship | No Titles, Cheating & Mixed Signals
    Apr 6 2026
    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re breaking down one of the most frustrating dating realities… when someone wants all the benefits of a relationship, but refuses to actually commit.

    🏡 One woman is living with her child’s father. They share a home, a child, and a life together… but he still says they’re not in a relationship. So what do you do when someone is building a life with you, but refuses to claim you?

    ⏳ Another woman has been dealing with the same man for nine months. Dates, holidays, conversations… but still no title. At what point does “taking it slow” turn into wasting your time?

    💔 And one caller is stuck in a cycle of cheating and trying to fix it. When you’re the only one putting in effort, can love actually be enough to save the relationship?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we react to comments from Ari Lennox about choosing “toxic” partners over stable ones… and ask the real question:

    Are people struggling to find healthy love… or are they overlooking it because it doesn’t feel exciting?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    42 mins
  • Why Is He So Confusing? | Mixed Signals, Dating Doubt & Knowing When to Walk Away

    Why Is He So Confusing? | Mixed Signals, Dating Doubt & Knowing When to Walk Away
    Mar 30 2026
    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re diving into one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating… confusion.

    💭 One woman is stuck trying to figure out where she stands. The conversations are there, the connection feels real, but the effort doesn’t fully match. So now she’s asking the question so many people are thinking… is this actually going somewhere, or am I just wasting my time?

    📱 Another situation highlights what happens when someone gives just enough to keep you interested, but never enough to give you clarity. When consistency is missing, how long do you wait before you walk away?

    ❤️ And we’re breaking down the emotional toll of dealing with mixed signals. Because at some point, confusion isn’t accidental… it’s a sign.

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack a trending conversation around dating expectations and accountability, and ask the bigger question:

    Are people really confused… or are they just avoiding being clear?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    39 mins
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