Episodes

  • A LOOK BACK at Silent Divorce, Spousal Support Drama, Trust Issues & Dating as a Single Mom + More

    A LOOK BACK at Silent Divorce, Spousal Support Drama, Trust Issues & Dating as a Single Mom + More
    Apr 20 2026
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    This week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into the raw, real, and sometimes heartbreaking side of modern relationships. First up: the rise of the silent divorce — when couples are still married on paper, but emotionally tapped out. Is staying out of duty more dangerous than walking away? Then we unpack the latest from the Cardi B and Offset divorce saga — including Offset’s request for spousal support and what that says about power, parenting, and partnership. We also answer a listener’s question about trusting your gut: how do you know if he’s playing you or if you’re self-sabotaging something real? And finally, we talk about dating while raising a teenage son. Are single moms unfairly written off in the dating world? If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, your choices, or your worth — this episode is for you. Drop a comment with your thoughts and stories. We’re all figuring it out together 💬👇

    🩷Fragrance: Nishane Woo Lang Cha
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    49 mins
  • He Cheated Instead of Leaving | Dating Older Men, Fake Friends & Hard Truths

    He Cheated Instead of Leaving | Dating Older Men, Fake Friends & Hard Truths
    Apr 13 2026

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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when people don’t leave honestly — whether it’s in dating or friendship.

    💭 One woman goes on a great date with an older man — thoughtful, intentional, and mature. But now she’s wondering… does dating an older man actually mean he’s more ready, or is that just an assumption that could cost her later?

    🤝 Another caller is questioning a long-term friendship that goes all the way back to middle school. Years of history… but little effort in the present. So when someone shows up for everyone else but not for you, is it loyalty… or a sign it’s time to let go?

    💔 And we break down one of the hardest realities in dating — being replaced. After a year-long relationship, one woman’s partner cheats, moves on quickly, and suddenly presents himself as “changed” and aligned. Why do some people betray first… instead of just leaving?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the viral “struggle love” conversation — and ask the real question:
    If you think dating is broken because of other people… have you considered how your own standards, expectations, or attraction patterns might be playing a role?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    38 mins
  • He Wants the Benefits… Not the Relationship | No Titles, Cheating & Mixed Signals

    He Wants the Benefits… Not the Relationship | No Titles, Cheating & Mixed Signals
    Apr 6 2026
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re breaking down one of the most frustrating dating realities… when someone wants all the benefits of a relationship, but refuses to actually commit.

    🏡 One woman is living with her child’s father. They share a home, a child, and a life together… but he still says they’re not in a relationship. So what do you do when someone is building a life with you, but refuses to claim you?

    ⏳ Another woman has been dealing with the same man for nine months. Dates, holidays, conversations… but still no title. At what point does “taking it slow” turn into wasting your time?

    💔 And one caller is stuck in a cycle of cheating and trying to fix it. When you’re the only one putting in effort, can love actually be enough to save the relationship?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we react to comments from Ari Lennox about choosing “toxic” partners over stable ones… and ask the real question:

    Are people struggling to find healthy love… or are they overlooking it because it doesn’t feel exciting?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    42 mins
  • Why Is He So Confusing? | Mixed Signals, Dating Doubt & Knowing When to Walk Away

    Why Is He So Confusing? | Mixed Signals, Dating Doubt & Knowing When to Walk Away
    Mar 30 2026
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re diving into one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating… confusion.

    💭 One woman is stuck trying to figure out where she stands. The conversations are there, the connection feels real, but the effort doesn’t fully match. So now she’s asking the question so many people are thinking… is this actually going somewhere, or am I just wasting my time?

    📱 Another situation highlights what happens when someone gives just enough to keep you interested, but never enough to give you clarity. When consistency is missing, how long do you wait before you walk away?

    ❤️ And we’re breaking down the emotional toll of dealing with mixed signals. Because at some point, confusion isn’t accidental… it’s a sign.

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack a trending conversation around dating expectations and accountability, and ask the bigger question:

    Are people really confused… or are they just avoiding being clear?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    39 mins
  • Can You Really Be Friends With Your Ex? | Moving On, Mixed Signals & High Standards

    Can You Really Be Friends With Your Ex? | Moving On, Mixed Signals & High Standards
    Mar 23 2026
    Sponsor: Cozy Earth
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what it really takes to move on — especially when the connection doesn’t fully go away.

    💔 One woman is trying to stay friends with her ex of six years — but she’s still deeply connected to his family. From being a godmother to maintaining close relationships with his mom and sister, she’s asking: can you truly move on while still holding onto those ties?

    🏡 Another caller is dealing with a breakup… but there’s one problem. He lives right next door. How do you emotionally detach when you can’t create physical distance — and when the relationship ended with unresolved feelings?

    📱 And one woman is questioning whether she’s actually dating someone — or just entertaining inconsistent communication. When effort doesn’t match interest, how long do you wait before walking away?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the conversation sparked by Yung Miami’s dating standards — and ask the bigger question:

    When someone sets high standards and it triggers people… is the problem the standard — or the reaction to it?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    59 mins
  • He Keeps Coming Back… But I Know He’s Not Good For Me | Dating Boundaries & Long Distance Love

    He Keeps Coming Back… But I Know He’s Not Good For Me | Dating Boundaries & Long Distance Love
    Mar 16 2026
    Sponsor: Cozy Earth
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what it takes to break unhealthy patterns, protect your boundaries, and navigate complicated relationships.

    💔 One caller knows a man in her life isn’t good for her — he ghosted, crossed boundaries, and keeps finding ways back into her life even after being blocked. She sees the pattern clearly, but emotionally detaching has been harder than expected.

    🎓 Another listener is in a healthy relationship while finishing college, but graduate school could take them to different cities. When two people are pursuing big dreams, how do you decide whether long distance is worth it — or whether it’s time to let go?

    👨‍👩‍👧 And one woman is dating a man who wants to meet her family, but she isn’t even speaking to them right now. How do you honor your partner’s desire for connection while protecting your own boundaries?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss a viral story about a couple vacationing together for Valentine’s Day — while the boyfriend posted content pretending he was somewhere else. In the age of social media, is that protecting privacy… or hiding the relationship from someone else?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    52 mins
  • He Said Yes… Then Changed His Mind | Long Distance, Dating Doubts & The Crush Recession

    He Said Yes… Then Changed His Mind | Long Distance, Dating Doubts & The Crush Recession
    Mar 9 2026
    Sponsor: Cozy Earth
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking the uncertainty that shows up in modern dating — when feelings are real, but consistency is questionable.

    ✈️ One woman meets a man who flies to see her, asks for a relationship… then changes his mind about long distance later the same day. Two weeks later he’s back saying he made a mistake and wants to try again. Was his hesitation honesty… or a warning sign?

    🤔 Another caller is dating a single dad she met online, but something about his living situation is making her uncomfortable. He lives with a gay roommate and plans to continue living with him. Is this a real concern… or an assumption that needs to be unpacked?

    🏠 And one woman is nervous to tell the man she’s dating that she still lives with her parents. When does transparency matter in dating — and how do you share where you are in life without shame?

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss the growing conversation around what some are calling the “Crush Recession.”Many singles say they rarely develop real romantic feelings anymore due to dating app fatigue, situationships, and the emotional exhaustion of modern dating.

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    49 mins
  • He Says He Loves Me… But He Doesn’t Show Up | Ghosting, Boundaries & Baby Mama Drama

    He Says He Loves Me… But He Doesn’t Show Up | Ghosting, Boundaries & Baby Mama Drama
    Mar 2 2026
    Sponsor: Cozy Earth
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    In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love is strong… but stability isn’t.

    💔 One woman has been with her children’s father since high school. Four kids. Years of history. Deep love. But he’s inconsistent, emotionally unreliable, and possibly involved with another woman — while still wanting marriage and access. How do you let go of someone whose potential feels bigger than their reality?

    👻 Another caller fell hard for a guy from run club — daily calls, dates, FaceTime nights. Then he ghosted her during a stressful season. Months later, he’s back with apologies and effort. Is that growth… or a preview of what’s to come?

    ✨ And we talk about being warm, bubbly, and magnetic — without it being mistaken for flirting. How do you protect your energy at work without dimming your personality?

    🧴 In B*tch You Smell Good, we feature Tiziana Terenzi – Cassiopea, a fruity floral woody musk that feels radiant, feminine, and unforgettable.

    🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the public tension between Chris Brown’s ex Diamond Brown and rumored girlfriend Jada Wallace — and ask the bigger question:
    When the baby mama and the new girlfriend are beefing publicly… is the real red flag the women — or the man who hasn’t created clear boundaries?

    👇 Let’s talk about it.
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    35 mins