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Rage bait is not an accident, it’s a strategy. We’re living in a moment where anger gets rewarded, fear gets monetized, and the loudest reactions rise to the top of your feed. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into why so many of us feel emotionally “on” all the time and how that constant stimulation shapes our mindset, relationships, and even our spiritual sensitivity. If you’ve ever felt your blood pressure rise while watching the news, scrolling social media, or reading the comments, you’ll recognize the pattern fast.

We talk about what rage bait actually is, how algorithms favor outrage over encouragement, and why people can feel pressured to publicly react to every cultural flashpoint. Ken shares a personal story about being judged for not posting while on sabbatical, and we unpack the hidden expectation that leaders, pastors, and everyday people must “use their voice” on demand. Along the way, we look at the real cost of living triggered: lost peace, increased division, negativity becoming normal, and anger slowly turning into an identity.

Then we get practical and biblical. We walk through scriptures like James 1:19, Proverbs 14:29, and Ephesians 4:31, and we contrast righteous anger motivated by love with unrighteous anger that spirals into hate, ego, and harm. You’ll also hear seven concrete practices to break free from anger culture: guard what feeds your mind, limit outrage consumption, slow down emotionally, stop constant online arguing, stay rooted in scripture, protect your peace, and keep your heart tender.

If this helped you, subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next, share it with a friend who’s feeling worn down, and leave a review to help more people find the show. What’s one boundary you need to set this week to protect your peace?

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Prosperity can sound like a scam word until you separate what’s biblical from what’s flesh. We’re not interested in hype or debates. We want God’s heart, because blessing, increase, provision, stewardship, and generosity are all over the Bible, and we don’t want people throwing out truth just because they’ve seen it abused.

We talk through godly prosperity versus ungodly prosperity with real stories from our lives. Tabitha shares what it was like growing up poor and why staying poor isn’t “godly.” We also take you into our early marriage years when our combined income was tiny, debt was heavy, and scarcity thinking showed up everywhere. That pressure can break a marriage, but it can also expose what needs to change, including mindset, priorities, and habits.

Then we go to Scripture and define prosperity the right way: not just money, but a successful journey, a healthy soul, and a life that works. We unpack key passages like Deuteronomy 8:18, Psalm 35:27, Proverbs 11:25, and 2 Corinthians 8:9, plus the misunderstood “camel through the eye of a needle” text using basic biblical hermeneutics and context. Our bottom line is simple: money is a tool, generosity is the aim, and prosperity should always have purpose.

If you’ve ever felt guilt about wanting more, or you’ve been trapped in a poverty mindset, this will challenge you and build your faith. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a healthier view of Christian finances, and leave a review to help more people find the show.

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Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️
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GET BUILD TO LAST PREMARITAL COURSE HERE:
Your wedding lasts one day. Your marriage lasts a lifetime.
Build to Last Premarital Course: https://kenandtabatha.com/built-to-last


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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

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Sex gets awkward fast when nobody feels safe enough to tell the truth and that silence can slowly turn lovers into roommates. We’re Ken and Tabatha Claytor, married 27 years, and we’re putting language to what so many couples experience but rarely say out loud: good sex in marriage is built on good communication, emotional connection, and mutual care.

We walk through how we learned to talk about sex with honesty and respect, including the simple “on a scale of 1 to 10” check-in we use in our regular family meetings. That one question helps us move from guessing and assuming to listening and serving. We also share a faith-based view of intimacy that replaces shame with freedom, drawing a clear line between culture’s confusion and a Christian marriage rooted in covenant love, safety, and joy.

Then we get personal about seasons that change the bedroom, especially menopause after a hysterectomy connected to estrogen-related breast cancer. We talk about vaginal dryness, lubrication, shifting sensation, performance pressure, and what it looks like to create a new normal without blame. You’ll also hear the communication traps that quietly kill desire, plus why guarding your eyes from porn and unrealistic media expectations protects passion at home.

If you want deeper intimacy, stronger trust, and a healthier sex life, listen now, share this with a friend, and subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next. After you listen, will you leave a review and tell us what conversation you want to have with your spouse this week?

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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

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