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In this episode of Evolve Ventures, we call out the New Year trap that keeps smart, driven people stuck in the same patterns year after year. We unpack why starting fresh is not the same as growing forward and why real change has nothing to do with the calendar.

This episode is for anyone ready to stop forcing goals and start becoming the kind of person who actually follows through. Listen with intention and let this be the moment you break the cycle for good.

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Evolve Visioneering Cycle

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#463 | Evolve Habits That Will Change Your Life Forever - https://apple.co/4jkESSf
#465 | How Good Are You REALLY At Making Better Decisions - https://apple.co/44PNCtO

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

📽️Insightful films. Meaningful growth. Join our Evolve Movie Club on January 5, 2026, featuring Avatar 3. - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

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Show notes:
(2:12) The trap of fresh start theory
(4:42) Mindset shapes long-term success
(6:31) Reflection before setting goals
(9:30) Gregorian calendar Vs. Lunar calendar
(14:42) Outcomes Vs. Identity and inputs
(18:03) What goals are really resolving
(21:49) Here's what Matthew has to say about the Evolve Ventures community and how it has helped in his journey.
(23:22) Mindset shift
(26:24) How successful people test habits
(31:46) Choosing a word for the year
(40:19) Outro

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This might explain why things keep feeling off. In today’s episode, we talk about the hidden reason so many people feel stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with their progress. We break down why making “good” decisions is harder than it looks, how small choices quietly shape your future, and what actually helps you choose differently when life feels chaotic. This conversation is about clarity, momentum, and learning how to trust yourself again without relying on motivation or willpower.

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start choosing with intention, this episode will meet you right where you are. Press play, and let’s raise your standard for every decision that comes next.

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#425 | Are You Actually Protecting Your Mental Health? - https://apple.co/4s9AMR6
#422 | Are You Living by Someone Else's Standards? - https://apple.co/42M2EzP

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

📽️Insightful films. Meaningful growth. Join our Evolve Movie Club on January 5, 2026, featuring Avatar 3. - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Bianca’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1

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Show notes:
(3:08) Vision board Vs. Becoming board
(5:32) What makes a decision good
(7:10) Applying science to real choices
(12:36) If-then thinking in daily life
(16:22) Data points on making better decisions
(26:42) Decisions under stress and parenting
(32:53) Biases that distort self-evaluation
(38:50) Input confidence Vs. Outcome confidence
(40:56) Measure, adjust, repeat the process
(43:32) Outro

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What if the real reason you feel stuck is not motivation, talent, or discipline, but your ability to focus?

In this episode, we break down why unbreakable focus is the skill separating people who move forward from those who stay stuck. We explain how distraction, poor sleep, and weak attention habits quietly sabotage your goals, relationships, and confidence. We reframe focus as a trainable life skill, not a personality trait, and show why mastering it changes everything. If you want a future that looks different than your present, this episode is your starting line.

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#425 | Are You Actually Protecting Your Mental Health? - https://apple.co/4s9AMR6
#447 | The Dark Side of Consistency: When Sticking to the Plan Holds You Back - https://apple.co/4pPMjmX
#462 | How to Set Up Your Workspace for Safety & Success - https://apple.co/48TAoP9

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Bianca’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1

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Show notes:
(2:14) What unbreakable focus really means
(4:48) The skill gap behind performance differences
(7:03) The three meta-skills of focus
(9:18) Why distraction is destroying progress
(12:01) How distraction changes your brain
(13:48) Amanda highlights the impact of group coaching with Evolve Ventures, sharing how it has significantly contributed to her personal growth.
(14:48) A requirement for critical thinking
(17:31) Flow Vs. Focus explained simply
(21:20) Practical habits to train focus daily
(23:31) Visual and sound focus training
(28:41) Outro

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In today’s episode of Evolve Ventures, we talk about why change feels so hard, even when you want it badly. We speak to the moments of doubt, emotional weight, and quiet frustration that come from feeling stuck in patterns you cannot seem to break. This conversation is for anyone who senses there is more possible, but is unsure how to move forward without forcing or burning out.

This episode is about how growth actually happens over time, and why small, intentional choices matter more than motivation. If you are ready to shift how you think, decide, and show up for your life, this episode offers a grounded place to start.

Learn more about:
Books For Babes – GoFundMe donation link
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Evolve Group Coaching - https://evolveventurestech.com/evolve-group-coaching/

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#425 | Are You Actually Protecting Your Mental Health? - https://apple.co/4s9AMR6
#453 | What it REALLY Feels Like with High Quality Therapy - https://apple.co/4anaO6d

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
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Show notes:
(2:36) A real story of hope and change
(6:43) Voting daily for your future self
(9:10) A transformed life
(11:30) Community Win: Books for Babes - https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025
(15:23) Why change feels impossible at first
(18:20) Habit one: Daily gratitude
(19:41) Habit two: Journaling for clarity
(20:47) Habit three: Small daily targets
(22:09) Why simple habits get ignored
(26:01) Outro

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Your results are not random. They are being shaped long before you start working. In this episode, we challenge a hidden belief about productivity, safety, and success that quietly controls focus, self-worth, and decision-making. We connect psychology, emotional healing, and data-driven personal development to show why your environment matters more than motivation and how small shifts can change how you think, feel, and perform.

This conversation is for anyone doing the work but still feeling stuck, drained, or off-track. Redesign the space around you and watch what finally moves.

Episode References:
1. Impact of Workplace Design on Employee Well-Being and Productivity
2. Impact of Employees' Workplace Environment on Employees' Performance
3. Poorly Designed Workplaces Cost the UK Economy £71bn a Year
4. Women Feel Less Safe Than Men in Many Developed Countries
5. Gender Disparities in Perceived Visibility and Crime Anxiety in Piloti Parking Spaces of Multifamily Housing: A Virtual Reality Study
6. Design, Gender, and the Future of Public Places
7. Invisible Women: Sex-Disaggregating the Workplace
8. A Dopaminergic Switch for Fear-to-Safety Transitions
9. Dopamine Impacts Your Willingness to Work

Learn more about:
Books For Babes – GoFundMe donation link
https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025

Join our “Evolve Group Coaching” program: https://evolveventurestech.com/evolve-group-coaching/

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#378 | The Differences in Boundaries You NEED to Know - https://apple.co/4hs4Y39
#353 | Why We Are Afraid to Learn - https://apple.co/44ANeiJ

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Show notes:
(2:01) Productivity, creativity, and comfort balance
(3:16) The 1.4 Vs. 100 principle
(7:06) How your brain decides for you
(9:08) Looks Vs. Function mistake
(12:09) High utility workspace
(16:36) Community Win: Books for Babes.
(19:15) Comfort and grind
(23:16) Dopamine design and safety
(30:38) Micro-rest prevents burnout
(34:11) Outro

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What if the reason you feel drained is that you’re loving someone’s potential more than their actions?

In today’s episode, we get real about why seeing the best in people can quietly sabotage your life. We talk about how trauma, fear of being alone, and misplaced compassion pull you into fixing, saving, and waiting. We show you why potential without effort is not enough and how to stop turning people into projects.

If you’re ready to take your energy back and focus on your own growth, this conversation is for you.

Learn more about:
Books For Babes – GoFundMe donation link
https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#368 | You NEED to Know The DARVO Effect - https://apple.co/4pxap5T
#401 | The Biggest Ways Relationships are Ruined - https://apple.co/4pxaC9b

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Emilia’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithemilia
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Bianca’s TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca?_t=8gq3wqu4fAx&_r=1

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Show notes:
(2:26) The gap between goals and behavior
(7:08) Falling in love with potential
(10:57) Why potential alone is not enough
(13:15) Reclaiming your life force energy
(15:25) Community Win: Books for Babes - https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025
(19:19) When someone shows you who they are
(26:31) Potential without action ruins lives
(31:34) What to focus on instead
(33:03) Outro

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In this episode of Evolve Ventures, we speak directly to the part of you that is searching for real love, real safety, and a real identity beyond the patterns you were raised in. Together, we break down the psychology of self-worth, the emotional healing needed for healthy relationships, and the trauma-driven habits that quietly shape how you give and receive love. We share grounded insights, data-backed growth tools, and the mindset shifts that help you rebuild your sense of self from a place of truth, not survival. This is the work that changes the way you love and the way you live.

Press play and step into the version of you that chooses growth over conditioning every single time.

Learn more about:
Books For Babes – GoFundMe donation link
https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025

Digital Assets:
1. The Care Star (Capacity Assessment Tool)
2. Types of Love (Greek Love Framework)

Referenced Episode:
#459 | What Your Family System Role Says About You - https://apple.co/4qma0n1

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#398 | A Powerful Way to Never Be Manipulated Again - https://apple.co/3Zb7RiR
#408 | The Paradox of Self-Love - https://apple.co/4mqcVZ6

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
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Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
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Show notes:
(3:31) Bianca’s holiday reflection and emotional truth
(7:46) Why families often lack the capacity to love
(10:10) The brain’s instinct to villainize what feels different
(15:01) The conditions that define real Vs. False love
(17:20) Capacity, regulation, and the science of love
(20:03) A clear definition of true love
(24:38) Community Win: Books for Babes.
(27:16) Seeing someone for who they are, not who you need
(31:58) Repetition compulsion in families
(35:44) Why love is scarce: The supply-and-demand problem
(39:06) You can only love to your capacity
(44:17) The small, sustained actions that reveal true love
(49:52) Outro

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Your past shaped you, but it no longer gets to steer you. In today’s episode, we open the door to the hidden family roles that influence your mindset, your relationships, your self-worth, and your stress patterns without you even knowing it. We break down how childhood roles turn into adult identity loops that affect confidence, boundaries, emotional triggers, and decision-making. Together, we give you simple language, clear examples, and grounded insight so you can finally see the pattern behind the pattern and understand why you show up the way you do.

If you’re ready to recognize your role, rewrite your story, and step into real personal growth, this episode is your turning point. Listen in, breathe deep, and carry this clarity like fuel into the rest of your life.

Learn more about:
Books For Babes – GoFundMe donation link
https://www.gofundme.com/f/books-for-babes-annual-fundraiser-2025

Digital Assets:
1. Family Roles Drawing
2. Dysfunctional Family Roles: Healthy Vs. Unhealthy
3. Research Study on Brain Development
4. Digital Boundaries
5. The Growth Journey at Evolve

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#423 | You're Not Responsible for Their Emotions - https://apple.co/48pPRpO
#438 | Understanding Trauma Responses You Mistake for Personality - https://apple.co/438qTIF

Evolve Together Experiences:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - “Beating Anxiety: Take Back Control of Your Mind” - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/

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Show notes:
(2:02) Why family roles follow you into adulthood
(7:08) The roots of family therapy and role patterns
(17:25) The six major family roles explained
(22:03) Community Win: Books for Babes
(24:42) Continuation of the family roles
(31:40) How roles become identity in adult life
(36:05) Steps to change your role and reclaim agency
(40:08) What real growth looks like in daily life
(43:19) Thre