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Growth begins when avoidance ends. In this episode, we talk about why facing reality is often harder than staying stuck, and why that difficulty is actually a sign you are moving forward. We share honest perspectives from real client experiences, challenge common myths about healing, and offer a grounded way to think about pain, change, and personal growth.

If you have been feeling overwhelmed, resistant, or unsure about your next step, this conversation will meet you where you are while pushing you toward something better. Do not negotiate with the part of you that wants to stay small. Step forward anyway.

Episode References:
1. Cognitive Defusion (Deliteralization)
2. The Grief Cycle
3. EVC The Acceptance Cycle
4. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Psychological Well-Being: A Narrative Review
5. Acceptance and commitment therapy Pathways for general practitioners
6. Cognitive Defusion Techniques

Here are the related episodes, each one builds on today’s conversation:
#469 | What the Growth Journey Actually Feels Like - https://apple.co/3OtYw2V
#451 | Healing From the Guilt of Staying in a Toxic Relationship - https://apple.co/46pnhUf

Learn more about:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - "The Psychology of Feeling Behind in Life" - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

🌱 The #YouDoYou Therapy Program gives you support when and how you need it. No pressure. Just real help. Start your free 7-day trial today - https://buy.stripe.com/fZe8Avdfx8bW9gcfZc

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Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
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Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794

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Show notes:
(4:54) Real stories about grief and change
(15:24) Pain exists whether you admit it
(20:25) Charlie highlights the invaluable role of the Evolve community support system in her journey toward self-discovery.
(20:54) Separating from thoughts
(27:31) Practicing true acceptance
(34:02) Present awareness after pain
(37:53) Acceptance does not mean agreement
(40:05) Outro

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(Stay tuned for this coming Monday’s episode!)

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In today’s episode of Evolve Ventures Tech, we talk about the quiet cost of waiting. So many people believe clarity will arrive first and action will follow, but real life rarely works that way. We share what we see behind the scenes with clients who feel stuck, why hesitation can feel so convincing, and what finally shifts momentum when nothing else seems to help.

If you feel stuck, scared, or unsure about your next step, this episode may challenge you more than you expect. Waiting is not neutral. It drains time, energy, and opportunity. Action creates evidence. Evidence creates confidence.

Here is a related episode that builds on today’s conversation:
#453 | What it REALLY Feels Like with High Quality Therapy - https://apple.co/4anaO6d

Learn more about:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - "Emotional Safety: What It Is and Why So Many Adults Don't Feel It" - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

📽️ Insightful films. Meaningful growth. Join our Evolve Movie Club - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

🌱 The #YouDoYou Therapy Program gives you support when and how you need it. No pressure. Just real help. Start your free 7-day trial today - https://buy.stripe.com/fZe8Avdfx8bW9gcfZc

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/

Connect with Emilia & Bianca from Evolve Ventures for FREE:
https://calendly.com/emiliasmith/free-evp-communityconnect?month=2025-07

Show notes:
(2:37) Client's story about staying stuck in pain
(7:18) Why you will never feel ready first
(10:08) The Nervous system prefers familiar suffering
(13:53) Action creates proof and confidence
(17:27) Why support accelerates real change
(20:36) Three needs that build self-trust
(23:16) Readiness is a decision, not a feeling
(27:10) Outro

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(Stay tuned for this coming Thursday’s episode!)

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What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t your ability, but what you believe about it?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the hidden mechanics of self-belief and why confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. Beneath the surface, there are patterns shaping how you show up, what you attempt, and what you avoid, often without you realizing it. When those patterns shift, everything else starts to move too.

If you’ve ever felt capable but inconsistent, driven but doubtful, or stuck despite effort, this episode hits at the root. Not with hype. With clarity. Make one decision today that the old version of you would hesitate to make, and watch what changes.

Digital Assets:
The Self-Belief Self-Worth Cycle
New General Self-Efficacy Scale

Here is a related episode that builds on today’s conversation:
#479 | Everything You Need for REAL Self-Belief - https://apple.co/3MfWPFO

Learn more about:
🤝 Out of the Mud (OOTM) - "Emotional Safety: What It Is and Why So Many Adults Don't Feel It" - https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/IykObX8eR7ixJaQ-qqZogw#/registration

📽️ Insightful films. Meaningful growth. Join our Evolve Movie Club - https://forms.gle/bBZUbFEeD2ijypCT7

🌱 The #YouDoYou Therapy Program gives you support when and how you need it. No pressure. Just real help. Start your free 7-day trial today - https://buy.stripe.com/fZe8Avdfx8bW9gcfZc

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Connect with Emilia, Bianca & the EVOLVE VENTURES Community:

Website: http://www.evolveventurestech.com
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/evolveventures/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvolveVenturesTech (Public Page)
Evolve Ventures Society (Private Facebook Group) - https://www.facebook.com/groups/457130589193794
Emilia’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithemilia/
Bianca’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/

Connect with Emilia & Bianca from Evolve Ventures for FREE:
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Show notes:
(4:53) Why self-belief drives confidence, relationships, and outcomes
(11:13) Julie gives a shoutout to Evolve Ventures and Bianca for the transformative coaching she received that made a huge impact in her life.
(12:08) Establishing a clinical baseline for self-efficacy
(17:26) Eight diagnostic questions to assess belief levels
(22:09) Small actions that neurologically build confidence momentum
(25:08) Outro

***Leave them a 5-star review if you felt their energy, became inspired, or felt as though the value was added to your life in your EVOLUTION.

(Stay tuned for this coming Monday’s episode!)