We often tell ourselves that because we work in law enforcement or the justice system, we could 'never' get caught up in an abusive relationship. But Denise Fransua, a dedicated probation officer from Parker, Colorado, reminds us that the reality is much more complex. This week, we share Denise's story—not just to talk about the tragedy of her passing, but to honor the professional she was and the warning her life provides to us all. We discuss how even the most prepared individuals can be targeted by coercive control and why no one is immune.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Today we're continuing our "Am I Dating A..." series, this time talking about one of the most misunderstood and misused labels in the mental health field: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. What is the line between neatness and true OCD? How do you differentiate between distressing symptoms of repetitive intrusive thoughts vs coercive control and a partner wanting their way just because? How do you seek help or encourage a partner to seek help, and how do you decide when Resentment and Radical Acceptance cannot coexist in the same relationship?

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Do we trust unlicensed strangers with our lives? Today, we go deep into the tragic case of Maria Eduarda, a young woman whose life was cut short by a rope-jumping operation that failed on every level. We analyze the dangerous allure of extreme recreation and how the absence of regulation is turning adrenaline-fueled hobbies into lethal traps. We also contrast the world of true extreme sports with the rise of viral thrill-seeking, asking the tough question: Are we being pushed to take risks we don't understand for the sake of an audience?

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.