We often tell ourselves that because we work in law enforcement or the justice system, we could 'never' get caught up in an abusive relationship. But Denise Fransua, a dedicated probation officer from Parker, Colorado, reminds us that the reality is much more complex. This week, we share Denise's story—not just to talk about the tragedy of her passing, but to honor the professional she was and the warning her life provides to us all. We discuss how even the most prepared individuals can be targeted by coercive control and why no one is immune.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Today we're continuing our "Am I Dating A..." series, this time talking about one of the most misunderstood and misused labels in the mental health field: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. What is the line between neatness and true OCD? How do you differentiate between distressing symptoms of repetitive intrusive thoughts vs coercive control and a partner wanting their way just because? How do you seek help or encourage a partner to seek help, and how do you decide when Resentment and Radical Acceptance cannot coexist in the same relationship?

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Do we trust unlicensed strangers with our lives? Today, we go deep into the tragic case of Maria Eduarda, a young woman whose life was cut short by a rope-jumping operation that failed on every level. We analyze the dangerous allure of extreme recreation and how the absence of regulation is turning adrenaline-fueled hobbies into lethal traps. We also contrast the world of true extreme sports with the rise of viral thrill-seeking, asking the tough question: Are we being pushed to take risks we don't understand for the sake of an audience?

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

When you love someone struggling with addiction, it’s easy to get lost in the chaos of their behavior. This week, we talk about the hard reality of dating an addict. We explore why secrecy and defensiveness are the natural defensive reflexes of the disease—and why you shouldn't be the one paying the price for them. From recognizing the early warning signs to protecting your own values and mental health, this episode is about finding the clarity to decide if your relationship is a partnership or a struggle for survival.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

In today's episode, we discuss a case brought to us by our follower, shoutout to Keri! It's the case of a (allegedly) psycopathic narcissist who used every trick in thebook to force his partner to listen and agree, to repeat what he told her, and even to film his RIDICULOUS music videos. We discuss similar cases in our work, the signs of abuse the failure of law enforcement in this case, and talk a little about the truth and fiction of neurolinguistic programming.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

Narcissism isn't just an ego problem; it’s a pattern of manipulation that leaves you feeling small and perpetually off-balance. In this mini-deep dive, we examine the forensic indicators of a narcissistic relationship. We discuss why 'the mask' eventually slips, why they rely on gaslighting to maintain control, and how to snap out of the trauma bond and get off of the approval treadmill. You aren't crazy, you’re being made to feel that way. Let’s talk about how to get your life back.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

It started with a babysitting gig in North Ogden, but behind the closed doors of the Millerberg home, a sinister cycle of grooming was already in motion. This week, we examine the tragic 2011 death of 16-year-old Alexis Rasmussen. We dissect the drug-fueled abuse that led to her overdose, the shocking decision by the perpetrators to dump her body like 'trash,' and the legal battle that eventually put Eric Millerberg behind bars. We also take a hard look at the role of his wife, Dea Millerberg—her complicity, her trial, and the debate over how much culpability a partner bears in a crime they helped cover up.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.

We’re officially back in Colorado after a whirlwind weekend in Las Vegas for CrimeCon 2026! This episode is a bit different—we’re setting the case files aside to talk about the real highlight of the convention: meeting all of you. From the listeners who stopped by to share their own stories to the fellow creators and experts who made this trip unforgettable, we are walking away with a full heart. Tune in as we share our favorite memories from the floor, the lessons we learned, and a massive thank you to everyone who made this trip so special.

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Disclaimer: Jeannine and Natalie are commentators on publicly sourced information. Any case information and opinions are based on records in the public domain and are purely speculative in nature. Their comments are not meant to diagnose or treat any condition for listeners, and they are not functioning as licensed therapists providing services on the show. Any information shared based on general client experiences is coincidental and not meant to identify current or past clients. If you or someone you love is having a mental health crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.