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Gurl Talk with Jenny Raven

Gurl Talk with Jenny Raven

Written by: Jenny Raven
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Get into bed with us as we talk all things we crossdressing gurlies adore. Dressing up, spending time enjoying ourselves, sometimes with others, and connecting with our wider community of lovely ladies. Slip into your favourite lingerie and let's get into it together. A podcast for crossdressers, by soomeone who LOVES to crossdress, covering the whole spectrum, queer, sissy, trans and anyone non heteronormative.

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  • Ep013 Anna Richards: FrloicMe.com Founder
    Feb 28 2026

    In this flirty and fabulous episode, Jenny Raven cozies up with Anna Richards, the enchanting mind behind Frolic Me, to chat all things ethical, female-centered erotica. They giggle over the juicy details of Anna’s journey, the sultry storytelling at Frolic Me, and the oh-so-real challenges of being a woman in the adult industry. From censorship woes to celebrating pleasure in all its forms, this playful conversation is a love letter to sensuality, inclusivity, and daring to frolic outside the lines. Get ready for a dose of feminine empowerment with a wink!


    Quickfire Erotica Questions (00:00:41) Jenny asks Anna rapid-fire questions about preferences in erotica to set the tone for the conversation.

    Anna’s Journey into Erotica & Frolic Me Origins (00:02:29) Anna shares her background, inspiration, and the lack of female representation that led to creating Frolic Me.

    Mainstream Porn vs. Female-Centered Erotica (00:05:53) Discussion on differences between mainstream porn and erotica, focusing on narrative, foreplay, and female pleasure.

    Distinctiveness and Ethics in Frolic Me (00:07:32) Anna explains her approach to ethical, pleasure-focused content and critiques the dominance of tube sites.

    Defining Ethical Porn (00:10:29) Exploration of what ethical porn means, Anna’s filmmaking process, and the importance of transparency and collaboration.

    Transparency and the “Ethical” Buzzword (00:14:26) Anna discusses the importance of knowing who creates content and warns about misuse of the term “ethical.”

    Frolic Me’s Multi-Medium Approach (00:16:26) Overview of Frolic Me’s offerings: video, written erotica, and audio, and how audiences engage with each.

    Immersion, Storytelling, and Community (00:19:20) Jenny and Anna discuss character-driven storytelling, audience immersion, and the difference from mainstream porn.

    Censorship and Platform Challenges (00:21:14) Jenny shares her Instagram shutdown experience, leading to a discussion on censorship and puritanical attitudes in tech.

    Financial and Payment Barriers (00:22:30) Anna details struggles with payment processors, banks, and software providers due to adult content stigma.

    Big Porn Industry vs. Independent Creators (00:28:14) Discussion on feeling pushed toward big platforms, the “cartel” effect, and Amazon’s hidden censorship.

    Inclusivity, Labels, and Sexual Fluidity (00:30:27) Conversation about Frolic Me’s audience, experiences with trans and non-binary users, and the spectrum of sexuality.

    Bisexual Threesomes and Breaking Taboos (00:32:50) Anna describes the popularity and impact of bisexual threesome films and the dialogue they spark about sexuality.

    Generational Shifts and Gender Fluidity (00:34:02) Reflection on younger generations’ openness to fluid sexuality and the evolving landscape of erotic exploration.

    Personal Journeys and Shame (00:35:39) Jenny shares personal experiences with shame, therapy, and the challenges of exploring non-traditional masculinity.

    Audience Feedback and Impact (00:39:26) Anna recounts touching feedback from users, including couples, widows, and cancer survivors, highlighting erotica’s positive impact.

    Erotica as Healing and Service (00:42:20) Discussion on erotica’s role in healing, serving marginalized groups, and the importance of ethical creators.

    Advice to Younger Self (00:44:48) Anna reflects on overcoming fear of judgment and encourages embracing pleasure and self-expression earlier in life.

    How to Find Frolic Me (00:46:47) Anna shares how listeners can find Frolic Me online and on Instagram.

    Podcast Closing and Jenny’s Mailing List (00:48:16) Jenny thanks listeners, promotes her website, and invites them to join her mailing list for stories and audio experiences.

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    49 mins
  • Ep012 Saurora Grace: Sexologist, Dominatrix, Escort and Adult Content Creator
    Dec 20 2025
    In this flirty, playful episode of "Girl Talk with Jenny Raven," Jenny cozies up with the fabulous Saurora, a tantric healer, erotic empowerment sexologist, and pro domme with a heart for queer and disabled-inclusive intimacy.Together, they giggle and get real about sexual awakening, overcoming shame, and the delicious freedom of living authentically. From lingerie confessions to kinky rope secrets, Saurora spills all, while Jenny shares her own journey of self-expression and cross-dressing.It’s a juicy, feminine celebration of pleasure, healing, and embracing your wild, wonderful self, no matter what anyone thinks.Introduction & Rapid Fire Questions (00:00:00) Saurora and Jenny introduce the episode, followed by a series of playful, rapid-fire questions about preferences and kinks.Saurora’s Self-Description & Philosophy (00:02:48) Saurora describes her personality, approach to life, and her work in sexology, empowerment, and challenging sexual shame.Jenny Reads Saurora’s Bio & Sets Episode Themes (00:04:48) Jenny reads Saurora’s website bio, highlighting her activism, inclusivity, and the main topics: erotic empowerment, sex work, and intimacy.Personal Journeys into Sexuality (00:06:04) Both discuss their early experiences with sexual feelings, repression, and the journey toward embracing their sexual identities.Saurora’s Sexual Awakening & Family Dynamics (00:08:02) Saurora shares her early sexual curiosity, family background, and the impact of her mother’s attitudes on her development.Exploring Kinks, OnlyFans, and Shame (00:10:44) Saurora recounts discovering kinks, starting OnlyFans, and navigating secrecy, shame, and community in fetish spaces.Mother’s Death as a Turning Point (00:11:44) Saurora explains how her mother’s passing catalyzed her decision to fully embrace her work and identity.Retraining & Embracing Sex Work (00:12:41) Saurora details retraining as a tantric sexologist, her motivations, and the integration of sex work and healing.Disability-Inclusive Intimacy (00:14:38) Saurora describes working with disabled clients, breaking taboos, and her passion for accessible, inclusive sexuality.Building a Life of Sexual Freedom (00:16:32) Saurora discusses building a dungeon, living authentically, and the healing power of sexual self-acceptance.Jenny’s Reflections on Repression & Cross-Dressing (00:17:23) Jenny shares her own experiences with repression, cross-dressing, and the challenges of generational shame.The Hidden Lives of Cross-Dressers (00:21:26) Jenny discusses survey findings about cross-dressers, secrecy, and the emotional toll of unexpressed identity.Saurora on Supporting Clients’ Self-Expression (00:24:22) Saurora explains how she supports clients in expressing their desires, especially men wanting to dress up.Navigating Partner Disclosure & Shame (00:27:33) Jenny and Saurora discuss the difficulties and potential rewards of coming out to partners about kinks and cross-dressing.Religion, Community, and Risk of Rejection (00:28:33) They explore the impact of religion and community on sexual expression, and the risks and rewards of living authentically.Choosing Authenticity Over Fear (00:30:04) Saurora and Jenny discuss the cost of hiding versus the freedom of living openly, and finding new, supportive communities.Jenny’s Personal Journey with Partner Acceptance (00:34:19) Jenny shares her experience of coming out to her partner, therapy, and the surprising outcomes of honesty.Advice for Introducing Kinks to Partners (00:37:15) Jenny offers practical advice for introducing cross-dressing or kinks to partners, starting small and private.The Power of Being Seen and Heard (00:40:06) Saurora explains the importance of being seen and heard in relationships, and how this can reduce obsessive urges.Experimenting with Gender Expression (00:42:32) Saurora suggests trying gender expression “like a jacket,” encouraging gradual exploration and comfort.Sensual Comfort of Clothing (00:43:26) Discussion on the sensuality of women’s clothing and the arbitrary gendering of fashion.Prostate Orgasms & Expanding Pleasure (00:45:15) Saurora encourages men to explore new forms of pleasure, including prostate orgasms and sex toys.Exhibitionism & Desire to Be Seen (00:47:12) Jenny and Saurora discuss exhibitionism, the need to be seen, and Saurora’s journey to embracing her visibility.Saurora’s Confidence & Rebellion (00:48:11) Saurora recounts her path from acting to hairdressing, regaining confidence, and rejecting societal expectations.Teaching Through Sexual Empowerment (00:54:18) Saurora reflects on becoming a teacher in her own way, helping others through her work.Parental Influence & Healing (00:55:43) Jenny and Saurora discuss their parents’ intentions, mishandling of sexuality, and the ongoing process of healing.Best Things About Living Authentically (00:58:09) Saurora shares the benefits of her current life: strength, security, chosen family, and the health ...
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Ep011 Jedy Deady: Techno Crossdressing Musician
    Dec 19 2025

    In this vibrant conversation, Jenny Raven sits down with Jedy, a Dubai-based techno musician, cross-dressing performer, visual artist, and unapologetically unique creative force. Together they dive into identity, ADHD creativity, stage personas, kink culture, horror aesthetics, and what it truly means to live boldly without fear of judgment. It's left field for Jenny, but then, isn't everything left field?


    00:00:00 Intro

    00:00:22 Meet Jedy

    00:00:50 Who Jedy Is

    00:01:37 Creativity & ADHD

    00:03:38 Discovering Dressing Up

    00:04:18 Wanting to Stand Out

    00:04:45 Fangs & Vamp Vibes

    00:05:39 Stage Personas

    00:06:38 Cross-Dressing Expression

    00:07:44 Stop Caring What People Think

    00:08:05 Power of Performing

    00:08:45 Finding Your Audience

    00:10:17 Horror & Fetish Shows

    00:11:57 Advice to Hidden Selves

    00:13:01 Where to Hear Jedy’s Music

    00:13:51 Outro / Music Play

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    17 mins
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