In this episode of the Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae shares vulnerably about her fears around ruffling feathers when speaking openly about the abuse women have endured and how to recognize misogyny.

After a series of difficult dating experiences, she attends a Tantra Speed Dating event that genuinely impressed her, and shares her honest reflections and takeaways from the experience.

This episode explores discernment, self-trust, and what it looks like to stay open while honoring your boundaries and values.

The Healthy Love Healing Method™ is rooted in cultivating deeper self-love and connection through emotional intelligence, because we are worthy of healthy love.

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What is misogyny, and how is it silently shaping modern dating and relationships?

In this episode, Niajae breaks down the three layers of misogyny (subtle, benevolent, and overt), how they impact women's nervous systems, boundaries, and ability to experience Healthy Love. She shares the signs every woman must know to protect her emotional, physical, and energetic safety.

This conversation also explores internalized misogyny, how patriarchal conditioning shows up in relationships, and what emotionally mature, safe men actually look like. Because we cannot create Healthy Love when misogyny is present.

• The three layers of misogyny and how to recognize them

• Why subtle and benevolent misogyny are the most dangerous

• Signs to watch for in dating and relationships

• How internalized misogyny shows up in women

• What emotionally safe, regulated men actually embody

•Book Mentioned: Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them
•Instagram Post Referenced: Man who put money in his wifes personal savings account

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DP4ohmXjPRW/?igsh=OWZ2OGZiNHVxMjJ4

•Take the Quiz: Have You Internalized Misogyny? healthylovehealing.com

Shame is one of the biggest barriers to connection, intimacy, and emotional safety.
In this episode, Niajae explores how shame distorts the way we show up in relationships, causing us to shrink, overcompensate, hide parts of ourselves, or avoid vulnerability, and how releasing shame creates more space for honesty, openness, and genuine closeness.

You'll learn why facing your own shame is essential before holding space for a partner, how shame creates cycles of disconnection, and what becomes possible when shame no longer drives the dynamic.

This episode covers:

• How shame activates the ego and blocks intimacy

• The ways shame causes us to hide desires, needs, and insecurities

• What shifts when shame dies in a relationship

• Why self-acceptance reduces judgment toward your partner

• How to create a relationship environment where shame cannot thrive

This episode is for anyone who wants a deeper, more conscious relationship built on emotional safety, compassion, and true intimacy. You'll walk away with insight into how releasing shame opens the door to healthier love.

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Conflict doesn't mean a relationship is unhealthy. What matters is how we navigate the conflict and how we repair. In this episode, Niajae breaks down the art of repair by exploring the language that disconnects versus the language that deepens connection.

You'll hear a step-by-step process for navigating conflict with self-awareness, as well as practical examples of what to say and what not to say when tensions arise.

This episode covers:

• Language that disconnects partners

• How to check your nervous system before responding

• A step-by-step process for grounding, curiosity, and compassion

• A mirror list of language that cultivates connection

• Why repair is less about agreement and more about understanding

1. Check Your Nervous System First
Repair starts with self-awareness. If you notice defensiveness, frustration, disappointment, or reactivity, pause before engaging.

2. Get Curious
Curiosity creates space for understanding rather than defensiveness. Asking questions helps partners feel seen and heard.

3. Have Compassion
Compassion allows space for both experiences to be valid. You don't have to agree to acknowledge how someone feels.

4. Cultivate Connection
When we combine self-awareness, curiosity, and compassion, we create the environment for repair. Connection leads to healthy love.

This episode is a guide for anyone wanting to communicate more consciously and repair more effectively during conflict. You'll walk away with practical language tools that create connection instead of disconnection, and a deeper understanding of what healthy repair looks like.

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Do you find yourself in relationships where you give everything and still feel unseen or unfulfilled? Or maybe you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, no matter how much healing you've done. In this episode of The Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae dives into how the mother wound can quietly shape who we choose, how we love, and what we tolerate in relationships.

You'll learn what a mother wound really is (it's not just about having an absent mom), how it manifests in your love life, and what it takes to heal those early attachment patterns so you can finally experience healthy, mutual, nourishing love.

•What the "mother wound" really means — and how it can exist even if your mom was present.
•The subtle ways the mother wound shows up in romantic connections.
•Why we're often attracted to people who don't choose or nurture us.
•How emotional unavailability, criticism, or neglect in childhood become familiar templates for love.
•The link between the mother wound and people-pleasing, overgiving, or staying in painful relationships.
•How to start healing your mother wound through awareness, reparenting, and nervous system regulation.

• The need to be chosen often stems from not feeling emotionally chosen by your mother.

• We unconsciously recreate familiar dynamics, even painful ones, because they feel safe to our nervous system.

• Healing means learning to nurture yourself the way you always needed to be nurtured.

• Healthy love requires emotional safety, reciprocity, and self-worth, not performance or perfection.

• Healing Love Healing Instagram https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealing

• Download the Healthy Love Healing App in Google Play or iOS or go here for more information https://healthylovehealing.com

In order to understand what healthy love is, we first have to identify what it is not. In this episode of the Healthy Love Healing Podcast, Niajae breaks down the red flags and subtle signs of toxic relationships, and more importantly, why we stay even when we know it's not healthy.

You'll learn:
•The difference between clear red flags and subtle emotional toxicity
•The five core reasons people stay in toxic relationships
•How regulating your nervous system helps you build the strength to leave
•Steps to reconnect with your body, set boundaries, and rebuild your self-worth

This episode is an invitation to stop abandoning your peace and wellbeing for connection and start cultivating Healthy Love.

Reflection Prompts:

• After spending time with this person, do I feel safe, seen, and supported? Or small, anxious, and confused?

• Am I loving this person for who they are, or for who I hope they'll become?

Mentioned Tools:

• Somatic practices: sound baths, journaling, meditation, grounding

• Nervous system regulation and embodiment

• Therapy and trauma-informed healing spaces

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Season 6 Premiere | Formerly The Abundance Hack Podcast

Welcome to Season 6, and welcome to the Healthy Love Healing Podcast! 💜

In this episode, I'm celebrating a new chapter and sharing the foundation of everything we'll explore this season: The 4 Pillars of the Healthy Love Healing Method™.

This method was born from years of personal healing, research, and working with clients through emotional intelligence, communication, and somatic practices. These 4 pillars are the roadmap to creating healthy connections, within ourselves and with others.

In this episode, we'll explore:

• The inspiration behind the rebrand from Abundance Hack to Healthy Love Healing

• The 4 Pillars of the Healthy Love Healing Method™ and how they support your transformation

• What to expect this season, from healing conversations to embodied practices

Whether you've been part of the community for years or you're joining for the first time, this episode will help you reconnect with your purpose, deepen your self-awareness, and remember that you are worthy of healthy love.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Download the Healthy Love Healing App on iOS or Google Play for exclusive meditations, journal prompts, and healing tools

• Follow along on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/healthylovehealingpodcast for updates and inspiration

The Final Episode of The Abundance Hack Podcast — Season 5 Finale

This episode marks the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. After 249 episodes, The Abundance Hack Podcast is coming to a close, but the message, the mission, and the evolution continue.

In this deeply personal and reflective episode, I speak from the heart about the last 6–7 years of my life, the highs, the heartbreaks, and the moments that shaped me. Through loss, challenges, and deep healing, I found something priceless: myself.

Authenticity has a cost. It asks you to shed illusions, release what no longer aligns, and stand rooted in your truth, even when it means standing alone. But the reward is freedom, peace, and alignment with your purpose.

This is my goodbye (for now) to The Abundance Hack Podcast as I prepare to step into a new chapter, one that reflects the woman, teacher, and healer I've become. Season 6 will be reborn under a new name, a new energy, and a deeper embodiment of everything I've learned on this journey.

Thank you for walking this path with me, for growing, healing, and expanding together.
Here's to what's next. 💜

In this epsiode I dive into:
✨ The truth about what authenticity really costs
✨ How loss and hardship led me home to myself
✨ The behind-the-scenes of my healing and evolution
✨ What's next for the podcast and this next chapter

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