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Ask Yourself Why Not is a feel-good personal growth podcast where two friends share what they're learning from self-help books, podcasts, and their community and talk through how it actually shows up in real life. Hosted by Shaye and Jayla, AYWN is rooted in a Why Not mindset choosing curiosity over pressure, honesty over perfection, and small, supportive shifts over trying to fix yourself. This is a space for real conversations, everyday wisdom, and reminders that you're allowed to grow gently and in your own time. Come as you are. Stay as long as you need.769730
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  • Episode 217: Keeping the Magic Alive (Even When Adulting Hits Hard)
    Dec 24 2025

    Keywords


    holiday spirit, Christmas magic, self-care, festive traditions, mindfulness, family activities, joy, intentional living, holiday rituals, simplifying celebrations



    Summary


    In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore how to embrace the holiday spirit as adults. They discuss ways to create personal magic during the holidays, emphasizing the importance of small rituals, fun activities, and self-care. The conversation highlights the need to simplify holiday celebrations and prioritize joy, allowing listeners to enjoy the season without feeling overwhelmed.



    Takeaways


    Christmas magic feels different as an adult.

    You are the magic of the holidays.

    Focus on small rituals to enhance holiday spirit.

    Choose fun activities that bring joy.

    Celebrate every day as if it's your favorite day.

    Don't overthink gift-giving; it's the thought that counts.

    Simplify holiday preparations to reduce stress.

    Prioritize self-care during the busy season.

    Make space for joy to find you.

    Choose your joy on purpose this holiday season.



    Titles


    Rediscovering Holiday Magic as Adults

    Creating Your Own Christmas Spirit



    Sound bites


    "You are the magic."

    "Choose fun, have more fun."

    "Make it merrier, Jayla."



    Chapters


    00:00 Embracing Holiday Spirit

    00:58 Finding Magic as Adults

    02:47 Creating Cozy Rituals

    05:02 Choosing Fun and Joy

    06:53 Making Life Festive

    07:47 Simplifying Holiday Preparations

    08:42 Prioritizing Self-Care


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    11 mins
  • Episode 216: New Year, New Intentions: Intentions Activate
    Dec 18 2025

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    The "New Year New Intentions Setting Workshop" is a transformative event designed to help participants release past energies and set clear intentions for the future. The workshop includes a hot yoga session, a future self meditation, a catered brunch, and a journaling session focused on setting intentions across major life categories. Participants also engage in a burning ceremony to let go of past irritations and create a personalized "word of the year" bracelet. The event emphasizes personal growth, mindfulness, and community support.

    Keywords

    New Year, Intentions, Yoga, Meditation, Journaling, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Community, Workshop, Intention Setting

    Takeaways

    Start with a hot yoga session to release energy.

    Future self meditation to bridge current and future self. Catered brunch with light, refreshing food.

    Journaling session to set intentions in life categories. Burning ceremony to release past irritations.

    Create a personalized 'word of the year' bracelet. Emphasize personal growth and mindfulness.

    Supportive community environment.

    Encourage participants to focus on feelings and intentions.

    Limited spots available, book early.


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    19 mins
  • Episode 215: Why Not Be in a Movie? Our Late-Night Film Adventure
    Dec 12 2025

    Keywords


    movie set, fashion, David Bowie, extras, creative experience, arts, personal growth, storytelling, film production, friendship



    Summary


    In this episode, Shaye and Jayla share their unexpected adventure as extras on a movie set, discussing their late-night experience, the creative process of selecting outfits, and the film's serious premise. They reflect on the importance of stepping out of their comfort zones and embracing artistic opportunities.



    Takeaways


    Stop asking yourself why and start asking why not.

    Experiences can lead to unexpected adventures.

    Fashion choices can reflect personal creativity.

    Being an extra in a film can be a fun experience.

    Supporting the arts is important to personal growth.

    Late-night adventures can be memorable.

    The creative process involves collaboration and spontaneity.

    Embracing unique styles can be empowering.

    Movies can tackle serious themes.

    Friendship enhances shared experiences.



    Titles


    Why Not Embrace the Unexpected?

    A Night on a Movie Set



    Sound bites


    "I brought a box of clothes."

    "Mommy's in the movies."

    "It's based on two cops."



    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to the Adventure

    02:40 The Movie Set Experience

    05:43 Fashion Choices and Styling

    08:49 The Premise of the Film


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    24 mins
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