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Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery

Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery

Written by: Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach Spiritual Healing Emotional Healing
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The go-to podcast for Christian women who are ready to heal their hearts, shed their shame, and come home to freedom in Christ.
Ranked Top 2.5% Globally

Do you ever wish someone would truly see you, not look past you or through you?
Are you lying awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity...or if it’s time to let go?
Are you exhausted from Googling answers, trying to fix things, and still feeling unheard, unseen, and stuck in shame

You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.

This podcast is a sacred, steady space for women navigating betrayal, emotional disconnection, separation, or the aftermath of an affair, who want more than surface-level faith answers. Here, we talk honestly about the heart, the body, the soul, and the brain, and what it actually looks like to let Jesus heal what’s been wounded.

I’m so glad you’re here.

I’m Kristina Joy, forgiven daughter of Jesus, mom, and coach. For years, I tried to break free from my own infidelity through sheer willpower, "doing more," and striving to be better. I read my Bible more. I tried to behave my way into freedom. None of it worked.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to fix myself and allowed Jesus to meet me in the deeper places like my pain, my patterns, my unmet needs. Through prayer, research, embodied healing practices, and new rhythms of truth and grace, I discovered real freedom. Not just from the affair, but from shame, secrecy, and self-abandonment.

On this podcast, you’ll find:

  • A reminder that your dignity, worth, and identity are not up for debate
  • Emotional and nervous-system awareness for real transformation
  • Coaching guidance for clarity, boundaries, communication, and trust
  • Gentle truth for women deciding what restoration actually means for them

Whether your marriage is being rebuilt or released, you are allowed to heal. You are allowed to choose freedom. You are allowed to become whole.

If you’re ready to:
Stop living in secrecy and self-condemnation
Experience God’s love without fear or striving
Break familiar patterns for good
Live with clarity, strength, dignity, and peace

Then take a breath, find your safe space, and press play.
This is where healing begins and where you come home to yourself, with Jesus.

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Let’s Connect:

Facebook community: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

Instagram: www.instagram.com/kristinajoycoaching

Email: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

Let’s work together: www.kristinajoycoaching.com

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Episodes
  • 134 | You're Not Allowed to Be Happy Yet: The Lie That's Quietly Stealing Your Healing

    134 | You're Not Allowed to Be Happy Yet: The Lie That's Quietly Stealing Your Healing
    Jul 2 2026

    🌊 Ready for the Encounter Retreat? Email me RETREAT and let’s chat! (PS- You get 6 months in the Rooted Community for free! 🤭)

    "Am I allowed to be happy when my husband is still hurting because of me?" That's the question a client asked me, and I've heard versions of it more times than I can count. Today I'm answering it directly, with theology, with neuroscience, and with my own story of accidentally putting joy on hold for far longer than I needed to.

    We explore:

    • The hidden belief underneath every "I don't deserve joy" thought (and why it’s a lie)
    • Psalm 16:11 and what it actually means that fullness of joy is in His presence, not at the end of your healing journey
    • Why your suffering is not helping anyone
    • The difference between Regulating Joy and Expansive Joy
    • How to build your own Expansive Joy Menu

    Email me and let me know what your JOY activity will be this week! 🕊️

    Let's Connect: 📞 Book your private Breakthrough Call: https://learn.kristinajoycoaching.com/breakthrough 💌 Email: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
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    22 mins
  • 133 | Am I Still Welcome? What Encountering God Actually Looks Like After an Affair

    133 | Am I Still Welcome? What Encountering God Actually Looks Like After an Affair
    Jun 30 2026

    🌊 Ready for the Encounter Retreat? Email me RETREAT and let’s chat! (PS- You get 6 months in the Rooted Community for free! 🤭)

    For years during my affair I felt like the poster child for hypocrite every time I tried to pray, take communion, or lead devotions. Shame told me I had no right. That God doesn't hear prayers when you're living in sin. Today I want to talk about what actually broke that loop for me, and what it means to have a real encounter with God, not just information, after walking away from Him.

    We explore:

    • Why willpower and devotionals alone will never be enough
    • The pattern you cannot miss in Scripture: every person who walked into something significant first had an encounter with God
    • What Psalm 23 and the prodigal son showed me about whether I was still welcome
    • The grounding phrase that has anchored my entire healing journey: be present where your feet are
    • How to create the conditions for a real encounter

    P.S. Want the 7-day devotional that walks through the Scriptures that were most influential in my own healing? Email me the word DEVOTIONAL and I'll send you the link! 🕊️

    Let's Connect:

    🙏 Grab your 7-Day Devotional HERE

    📞 Book your private Breakthrough Call: https://learn.kristinajoycoaching.com/breakthrough

    💌 Email: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

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  • 132 | Still Feeling Like Roommates? 5 Ways to Build Oxytocin in Your Marriage After An Affair

    132 | Still Feeling Like Roommates? 5 Ways to Build Oxytocin in Your Marriage After An Affair
    Jun 25 2026

    🌊 Ready for the Encounter Retreat? Email me RETREAT and let’s chat! (PS- You get 6 months in the Rooted Community for free! 🤭)

    Closeness after an affair doesn't come back all at once, and you can't think your way into it. Today I'm getting practical and a little scientific about what actually rebuilds intimacy in a marriage after infidelity: oxytocin, the bonding hormone, and five simple ways to start activating it at home.

    We explore:

    • What oxytocin actually is, why betrayal disrupts it, and why you need to rebuild it at the biological level before closeness will feel natural again
    • Why your internal posture matters more than any tactic
    • Five practical, science-backed ways to rebuild oxytocin
    • Why joy is not a betrayal of the seriousness of your healing- it's part of how you rebuild

    Pick one of these five this week, and let me know how it goes! Not because you have to. Because you're choosing your healing 🕊️

    Let's Connect:

    📞 Book your private Breakthrough Call: https://learn.kristinajoycoaching.com/breakthrough

    💌 Email: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com

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    23 mins
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