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Boundaries aren’t impatience.

They don’t mean you are not being loving.

Boundaries are about what you will do, not getting someone else to do what you want them to do.

If you’re like me the idea of boundaries sounds freeing and empowering - right up to the point you try to put them in place. It took me years to understand how to state what I needed and what I was going to do rather than trying to control the outcome of someone else’s choices.

If you grew up without healthy boundaries it can be tricky to change your thinking and put them into practice.

You’re right, though. They are empowering and create freedom. It is worth figuring out how to use them properly.

To see how boundaries do and do not come into this situation listen to today’s episode.

Podcast Chapters

00:00 Boundaries Defined

00:14 Facebook Post Example

01:28 Contract vs Ultimatum

02:43 Gods Loving Boundaries

03:59 Learning Healthy Boundaries

05:06 Scissors Stewardship Lesson

06:55 Car Borrowing Boundary

09:50 Freedom Fear and Control

11:39 Access Points and Limits

13:09 Self Worth and Creator

14:18 Invitation and Closing

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You know the times you look back and wonder why your reaction to an event was over the top. This happens when the current event reminds you of a past event or events that felt the same way. The emotions from the past have not felt heard, the needs have not been met.

When something happens that feels the same the old emotions try again to be heard and so you are overreacting.

It creates a shame strom. Shame storms are not fun. They can be survived and even disarmed with practice.

00:00 When Reassurance Hurts
00:42 Inside a Shame Storm
01:38 Learning to Quiet Shame
02:03 Facing the Storm Safely
02:46 Sorting Thoughts and Lies
04:08 Emotions Past and Present
05:30 Your Reaction Is a Clue
06:25 Comforting Soul With Truth
07:36 Tools to Move Forward
07:57 Invitation and Next Steps

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Are You Settling for Manna? Leaving the Wilderness for Your Promised Land

I want to share a challenge with you. Are “settling for manna” by staying in the comfort of the wilderness instead of moving into the Promised Land?
The Promise Land includes battles, giants, and the work of taking territory.
I have personal seasons of deliverance followed by temptation to camp in comfort rather than fight the remaining battles with the Lord’s strength. I want to keep a Joshua-and-Caleb mindset of faith and forward movement.
A key thing for moving into the Promise land is a supportive community to help establish God’s rule in your mind and soul, resist doubt and confusion, and take ground for future generations.

00:00 Are You Settling
01:17 Promised Land Reality
03:00 From Slavery to Manna
05:27 Spies and Giants
09:55 Wilderness Comfort Trap
11:32 Offense and Authority
12:37 Caleb Mindset Shift
15:27 Community and Inner Territory
18:04 Generational Freedom
19:01 Invitation and Next Steps

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• Find community in Healing Generations
• Learn how God communicates with you in Transformational Quiet Times