This week, we interview Bueller who is making a heist movie with BDSM elements

Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He’s made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.

Kink at Pride
https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1665592597476155393/pu/vid/1280×720/5KrZUW9YJ7e-dCCZ.mp4?tag=12

• Melissa from Colorado

  I’ve heard the term “aftercare” being mentioned in discussions about BDSM. Could you explain what aftercare entails and why it’s considered an important aspect of the BDSM community?

• Emily from New York

  I’ve always been curious about the psychological aspect of BDSM. Can you shed some light on the role of dominance and submission in BDSM dynamics, and how it can enhance intimacy and connection between partners?

• Rachel from Texas

  As someone who identifies as a switch, I’m curious about the unique dynamics that emerge when two switches engage in BDSM activities. What are some common experiences, challenges, or negotiation strategies that switches encounter in order to navigate their shared power dynamics effectively?

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‘I accidentally found out my dad is into swinging and BDSM – I wish I never saw’

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/love-sex/i-accidentally-found-out-dad-29104552

• Michelle from Georgia

  I have a service dog. I’ve had her for quite some time. I am just getting into BDSM in general and wanted to know how a service dog would be received at my local dungeon or munch. Is there anything I should do to prepare the dog? Anything I should do to prepare the venue? How do you navigate having a service dog and being into kink?

• Josh from Texa

  So I’ve been seeing people posting memes of modded sex and kink toys on the internet. A Hitachi covered in thumb tacks for example. Are these kinds of toys real, or is it just for the meme/laugh?

• Kendra from Oregon

  My partner has been trying to expand his skills when it comes to kink. To that end, he has been watching tutorial videos on both YouTube and TikTok. However, when he goes to do the action, it’s not quite right. I want to correct him in the moment, but I feel it would ruin the mood. Is it ok to correct him during scenes (ie: topping from the bottom) or should I wait until after we do aftercare, or even later?

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Lessons from Kink

https://philadelphiaweekly.com/lessons-from-kink/

• Ken from Rhode Island

  I joined the community in the last two years. Thanks to COVID I feel that (or at least it is my perception that) all the veterans retired early. Some retreated to their own home dungeons (either old or newly constructed). When I first started those were the people that I went to if I wanted to vet someone. Now that they are gone, how do I go about making sure someone is safe to play with?

• Jessie from Nebraska

  Having attended a public dungeon in the past, I have been taught about safewords. And I understand them. However, I have this fear of using them for fear of embarrassing my top. I know that they are necessary but I worry that I won’t be able to use them when the time comes. Any advice?

• Korey from Washington

  While we are all trying to be as safe as we can, I still attend munches and there are still venues for play. Meeting people I can do at munches, but how can I be safe if I want to do pick-up play?

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