Episodes

  • Episode 80

    Episode 80
    Jan 17 2024

    This week, we interview Bueller who is making a heist movie with BDSM elements

    Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He’s made over 50 short films (several of which have won awards) and is currently making his first feature film. In his spare time, he likes to read comic books.

    This week in news:

    Kink at Pride
    https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1665592597476155393/pu/vid/1280×720/5KrZUW9YJ7e-dCCZ.mp4?tag=12



    Viewer Questions

    • Melissa from Colorado

      I’ve heard the term “aftercare” being mentioned in discussions about BDSM. Could you explain what aftercare entails and why it’s considered an important aspect of the BDSM community?

    • Emily from New York

      I’ve always been curious about the psychological aspect of BDSM. Can you shed some light on the role of dominance and submission in BDSM dynamics, and how it can enhance intimacy and connection between partners?

    • Rachel from Texas

      As someone who identifies as a switch, I’m curious about the unique dynamics that emerge when two switches engage in BDSM activities. What are some common experiences, challenges, or negotiation strategies that switches encounter in order to navigate their shared power dynamics effectively?

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    49 mins
  • Episode 79

    Episode 79
    Apr 12 2023

    This week in news:

    ‘I accidentally found out my dad is into swinging and BDSM – I wish I never saw’

    https://www.dailystar.co.uk/love-sex/i-accidentally-found-out-dad-29104552



    Viewer Questions

    • Michelle from Georgia

      I have a service dog. I’ve had her for quite some time. I am just getting into BDSM in general and wanted to know how a service dog would be received at my local dungeon or munch. Is there anything I should do to prepare the dog? Anything I should do to prepare the venue? How do you navigate having a service dog and being into kink?

    • Josh from Texa

      So I’ve been seeing people posting memes of modded sex and kink toys on the internet. A Hitachi covered in thumb tacks for example. Are these kinds of toys real, or is it just for the meme/laugh?

    • Kendra from Oregon

      My partner has been trying to expand his skills when it comes to kink. To that end, he has been watching tutorial videos on both YouTube and TikTok. However, when he goes to do the action, it’s not quite right. I want to correct him in the moment, but I feel it would ruin the mood. Is it ok to correct him during scenes (ie: topping from the bottom) or should I wait until after we do aftercare, or even later?

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    24 mins
  • Episode 78

    Episode 78
    Feb 17 2023

    This week in news:

    Lessons from Kink

    https://philadelphiaweekly.com/lessons-from-kink/



    Viewer Questions

    • Ken from Rhode Island

      I joined the community in the last two years. Thanks to COVID I feel that (or at least it is my perception that) all the veterans retired early. Some retreated to their own home dungeons (either old or newly constructed). When I first started those were the people that I went to if I wanted to vet someone. Now that they are gone, how do I go about making sure someone is safe to play with?

    • Jessie from Nebraska

      Having attended a public dungeon in the past, I have been taught about safewords. And I understand them. However, I have this fear of using them for fear of embarrassing my top. I know that they are necessary but I worry that I won’t be able to use them when the time comes. Any advice?

    • Korey from Washington

      While we are all trying to be as safe as we can, I still attend munches and there are still venues for play. Meeting people I can do at munches, but how can I be safe if I want to do pick-up play?

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    24 mins
  • Episode 77

    Episode 77
    Feb 10 2023
    This week in news: Fetishcore Is Here To Release Your Fashion Inhibitions https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2022/04/10956214/fetishcore-bdsm-fashion-trend Interview With Andrew, Nicole, and Cacia from short film and series Thanatos Andrew (Aaron) – Actor and Director and Writer Andrew grew up on the gulf coast of Texas. He studied Philosophy in college, and he has spent most of his adult years trying to figure out how to tell a good story through moving pictures and sound. You can find Thanatos and other work at Andrewcfisher.com Cacia – Actor Right after Cacia popped out of her mom’s womb, she was dancing! She always knew she wanted to be a performer and artist. She visited New York when she turned 16 and took an acting class throughout the summer. After that summer her life was never the same. She went back to Taiwan and came back to New York the first chance she got. Her creativity is versatile and spread through many different mediums. Whether she’s in front of the camera or behind it, with herself or collaborating with others, she has an immense passion for performance and art. If she’s not moving or creating, she’s on her way to. Nicole – Line Producer Made things happen. Coordinating everything. Questions for the cast/crew: What experience do you all have in the BDSM or Kink Communities? I love the way you all demonstrate BDSM in this film. It is so genuine and, dare I say, amateur or rather non-professional which makes it more real. What were the most challenging parts of filming the short film and the series? How much research did you all have to do to get ready for these roles? Are the dominance and submission acting or does it come from real-life experience? What is the message you are trying to convey with this series? What do you want users to walk away with after seeing this series? Is the series more about the positive portrayal of kink or more about the relationship between Aaron and Jess (and about the falling out of Jess and Trey(?))? Or is it both? Check out the short film here: Viewer Questions Ken from Connecticut While I have a large group of people to play with, I keep debating trying out a pro domme. For some reason, I get uncomfortable about it. Like it makes me less of a kinkster because I want to pay for it. Having never done it, I guess, I am mostly just curious about what it is like. Kelly from California I have gone to therapy for it, but whenever I get restrained, I get terrified. It might be something from childhood where my father used to hold me down and shout at me. It’s just a guess but probably the reason for my fear. However, in my efforts to get into the BDSM world, I have a panic attack whenever I get restrained. Do you have any tips to get over this fear? Jay from Alberta, Canada As with dating, the kink and BDSM world is hard to find people. Not just play partners but with long-term relationships as well. I am lucky to have found someone and we are very happy in a monogamous relationship. We play and generally spend our lives together. As part of the relationship, we are both allowed to play with others. Some of those partners seem to want a lot more even though they know they can’t have it. They talk to me in ways that my partner might not approve of. I will never act on it, and I am sorry for rambling, but I guess my questions are these? Where were these people when I was looking for a relationship? Should I mention inappropriate messages sent to me by them to my partner? Should I cut off communication with people who are pushing my relationship? The post Episode 77 appeared first on Kink in the Chain.
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Episode 76

    Episode 76
    Nov 16 2022
    This week in news: “The TSA Agent Opened My Bag And Went Absolutely Beet Red”: People Are Sharing The Wildest Encounters They’ve Had With TSA Agents, And They Range From Hilarious To Infuriating https://www.buzzfeed.com/ravenishak/weird-tsa-encounters Interview With A Midnight Angel A Midnight Angel (she/her) is a spicy Latin switch and is the Alpha Submissive for the House of Sinergy. She has been in the community for over 25 years and enjoys educating on many topics in the BDSM Poly lifestyle. A Midnight Angel has had the privilege of being Ms. Florida Leather and Fetish Pride 2017 and is pinned as Mama’s Midnight Angel as part of Mama Sandy Reinhardt’s Family. Currently, she serves as the Contest Director for Florida Power Exchange. FetLife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/376150 Viewer Questions Todd from Wisconsin I met someone at a munch recently. I am a top and she is a bottom. We have great scenes and a great time together. My only issue is that she is slightly stronger than I am. Sometimes she gets in a brat mood and I just can’t control her. Usually when she “wins” I have to give up and just stop the scene. This leaves us both feeling very upset. Any advice to avoid this? Betty from Texas I am relatively new to kink in general but I keep seeing people with patches on their back denoting some title. A few weeks ago, I finally stopped and asked one of them about it. It was very informative. However my question is: are titles still something that people should run for? Are they respected? Is it something I should consider? Kyle from Georgia I recently moved here and am trying to find my place in the community. Where I came from (Texas) I was comfortable in the community. People knew who I was and what I could do. Now I come here and no one trusts me because they don’t know me. I didn’t expect my credibility to transfer like a college credit but any advice for transplants trying to establish a name for themselves? The post Episode 76 appeared first on Kink in the Chain.
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    41 mins
  • Episode 75

    Episode 75
    Nov 5 2022


    Today we talk with Jim from Halos and Sins who just lanched a Kickstarter. Check it out at the link below:


    Check out the Kickstarter campaign here:

    https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/halos-and-sins/halos-and-sins-an-adult-gaming-app

    Check out their website here:

    https://halosandsins.com/

    Instagram:

    @halosandsins or https://www.instagram.com/halosandsins/

    Facebook:

    https://www.facebook.com/halosandsins


    Viewer Questions

    • Tom from California

      Lately, I’ve been finding that I can’t seem to get into any new forms of play. My play partners ask for things that I’m comfortable doing, but then I don’t enjoy them when we do them, and I rarely want to do it again. But I want to make them happy. What can I do?

    • Julia from Michigan

      I recently got out of a long-term relationship with my girlfriend and I am putting myself back out on the dating scene. However, one of the things I want is kink. However, I’m embarrassed to put that in my dating profiles. Most people that I meet in person are fine with it until I talk about doing it in public. A handful reject me after finding out. I’d rather not waste my time, but should I just put it in my profile and see what happens? Or is it better to tell them in person?

    • Cole from Texas

      My play partners keep escaping from the bondage I put them in. It really shatters the scene when they do. Here I am in complete control of someone else and BAM. They were just letting me do it and could escape at any time. I don’t want to tell them not to try because that has the same issue. How can I secure people better?

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    27 mins
  • Episode 74

    Episode 74
    Jul 15 2022

    This week in news:

    Should You Take Your Kids To A Pride Parade?

    https://www.fatherly.com/health/should-you-take-kids-pride-parade



    Viewer Questions

    • Frank from Ohio

      I’ve been doing kinky stuff since 2018. Sometimes I feel that I am just repeating the same scenes over and over again with different people (and sometimes the same people). How do I bring my kink to the next level?

    • Charlie from Nevada

      I’ve been a sub all my life but recently, I’ve found that I want to be a top. However, I don’t seem to have the confidence to top. Every time I try I get nervous and can’t follow through. Any tips?

    • Lois from Delaware

      I am in a wheelchair, but I really want to experience kink. I’m a submissive. Do you have any advice for someone who is disabled in the kink scene?

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    30 mins
  • Episode 73

    Episode 73
    Jul 8 2022

    Live interviews at Colorado Leather Fest

    So we set up our microphones at Colorado Leather Fest in Colorado Springs Colorado. People would sit down with us and tell us their leather stories. This is the result.

    We appologize for the audio quality. It was one of our first attempts recording in an open space.


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    40 mins