I don't believe in dating rules, because there is no one-size-fits-all in dating. In this episode, I share the outdated bad advice in the "10 COMMANDMENTS OF DATING" that I found posted online. Then you'll hear my 10 DATING PRINCIPLES that will help you go on your last first date.

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Feeling obsessed with someone who isn’t truly available? Discover 5 surprising ways to overcome limerence, especially for women over 50, so you can break the cycle of longing and reclaim your emotional freedom.

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Wendy Valentine reinvented her love and life after 40. She’s the author of Women Waking Up: The Midlife Manifesto for Passion, Purpose, and Play and the host of The Midlife Makeover Show, a top-rated podcast for women in midlife. After her divorce at 45, she learned to “marry herself” first—rebuilding her life from the inside out. Now she empowers women to embrace self-love, rediscover joy, and attract relationships rooted in authenticity and alignment.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• What it means to marry yourself before dating after divorce
• The FREEDOM Framework for transformation, and how to use it to heal from heartbreak
• How to design your ideal relationship and have an amazing life after 40
  

Connect With Wendy Valentine

• Website: https://wendyvalentine.com
• Media: https://wendyvalentine.com/media-kit
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy_valentine_/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hellowendyvalentine/

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Have you ever pulled back just when a relationship began to feel real? You want connection, but part of you also wants to bolt. That tug-of-war is what many people over 50 experience when it comes to fear of commitment in dating.

Commitment fears aren’t a sign that you’re “not ready.” They’re a sign that your nervous system is trying to keep you safe. And that’s something you can gently rewire.

Here are five surprising ways to overcome your fear of commitment and open yourself to secure, lasting love, without losing your independence or sense of self.

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What happens when you go from purity culture to polyamory? My podcast guest, Courtney Boyer. became polyamorous while her husband stayed monogamous. She is a relationship coach, writer, and speaker focused on love, desire, and authenticity. A former therapist, she blends mental health and sex-therapy expertise to help women release shame, reclaim their voices, and build honest, autonomous relationships. She lives in Germany with her husband and three children, endlessly learning and writing her next chapter.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• The beliefs from purity culture that shape our understanding of relationships and sexuality
• How Courtney realized polyamory felt aligned with who she now was
• The impact of polyamory on motherhood
• How to better understand mixed-orientation relationship structures

Connect With Courtney

Social media and website: https://linktr.ee/coachcourtneyboyer

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Few things feel worse than getting dressed up for a date that never happens. Whether it’s a miscommunication or a disappearing act, being stood up can sting and shake your confidence. You can minimize the chances of it ever happening again by setting clear expectations, showing confidence, and handling logistics like a pro.

Here’s how to set yourself up for success before the first drink or coffee even happens!

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What’s the real secret to lasting love? My podcast guest, Dr. Julia Garcia, is a psychologist, author, and renowned speaker dedicated to empowering people through the science of mental health. She weaves her real, lived experiences with behavioral science to create practical, transformative strategies for lasting change. Whether through her TEDx presentations, her interactive workshops, or her book The 5 Habits of Hope, Dr. Garcia’s mission remains the same: to prove that hope isn’t just something you feel—it’s something you practice, one habit at a time.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• The secret to lasting love
• Why people struggle to hold onto hope in romantic relationships
• The 5 Habits of Hope
• Feeling Detours, and how they show up in our lives
• How to train yourself to have more hope

Connect with Dr. Julia

• Website:https://www.drjuliagarcia.com/
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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrJuliaGarcia
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjuliagarcia/
• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5rxHCDgN7uZkzj94j2ofcU?si=513a7362d16c4cc3
• Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/journey-with-dr-j/id1826571964

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Unfortunately, you can’t just abolish your pesky Inner Critic. It’s been with you for decades, and in its own twisted way, it’s tried to keep you safe from rejection, embarrassment, or disappointment. But you can learn to tame that sucker. Here are six steps to begin.

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