Fair warning: You're not going to like what I have to say about Nice Guy Syndrome. Most nice guys will stay stuck in miserable, people-pleasing relationships, hoping for a different outcome. Moving from a nice guy to an integrated man is hard work. If you're ready to change, stay tuned. I'm going to give you the only thing you need to do to kill your internal nice guy.

Let's talk about the importance of rites of passage in the journey from boyhood to manhood, especially for us recovering 'NICE' guys. It's something we've lost and I think we should bring it back. I'll share my own story about a male rite of passage that helped me transition into adulthood and kick my addiction and 'nice guy syndrome' to the curb. In our modern cultures, the lack of clear rites of passage leaves many of us feeling stuck in perpetual adolescence.

I'll recount my transformative experience in a group event in the High-Desert of Oregon, involving ancient rituals adapted for our times. This story highlights the importance of embracing the responsibilities that come with manhood through formal ceremonies and vows. Oh, and there's a nod to the movie 'Kingdom of Heaven' to show the power of such initiations and discuss what makes an oath meaningful.

I'll wrap things up with a call to action for your feedback on creating a rite of passage for men looking to fully embrace their masculinity. So, get ready for some eye-opening insights and maybe a little inspiration to take that next step in your own journey.

People pleasing and the Nice Guy Syndrome are common for the Nice Guy and one of the ways this shows up for Nice Guys is that they are always saying I'm sorry. It's weak and meaningless. In today's video, I talk about why I never say I'm sorry anymore, and how it has changed my relationships for the better.